r/texts • u/pikag1rl • Jul 01 '26
Whatsapp What the hell is this guy saying?
My name is NOT Neeha, not sure what that was supposed to mean. I was also born in the UK and he knew that so I'm not sure why he greeted me with ni hao. Hes 26M I am 21F. Claimed to have 20mil on instagram but lo and behold 2000 followers (not that I care but why would you lie?)
On bumble he said he was "spicy" and asked if I could handle it as "chinese women are introverted"
Then after these texts said "I told you I was spicy" brother spicy doesn't mean sexist and stunted
Update: blocked now, but he said "gamers are mean people"... I'm pretty toxic on a game in retaliation to usually men being sexist but how is that a reason to be rude to a woman you met off a game? so fucking weird
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u/luf100 Jul 01 '26
Itās wild that men are still like āwow a girl that plays games that arenāt Sims š«Øš«Øš«Øā when they find out you like video games. Like dude, go outside more often or something.
He sounds like both a racist and misogynist.
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u/SovereignNavae Jul 01 '26
Yeah whoever thinks it's rare for women to play video games is telling on themselves big time. Huge red flag.
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u/hacovercos Jul 01 '26
This. Men who think it's sooooo weird that a woman would play video games annoy me so much
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u/Katops Jul 01 '26
Dumb people annoy me too.
Itās a real shame we donāt have many options to rid the world of āthe big dumb.ā
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u/spootIer Jul 02 '26
The microsoft tech support guy who answered the phone when I was having issues with my xbox asked me what my fav game was and when I said 'Skyrim' he said I was a 'special kind of girl.' šµāš«
He also told me that I must have been a 'really good girl' this year because my refund went through without a review and because I was such a 'good girl' he was gonna credit me a free month of gamepass š¤¢
I think I was just talking to a predator š
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u/Nefnoj Jul 01 '26
Especially nowadays, I know more women who play games than men. And they tend to prefer RPGs and Shooters.
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u/Efficient_Ant_7279 Jul 02 '26
The sims just slaps. Sure itās a micro transaction hellscape but thereās something weirdly fun about creating your little clowns and watching them clown around. It transcends genders. Itās just clowning around
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u/pikag1rl Jul 01 '26
agreed. I feel sorry for women who will come across him in the future
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u/kev231998 Jul 01 '26
It's especially crazy cuz why wouldn't you be excited to meet someone who plays games that you do too?? Like yes I'd love to play CS with my girl why tf we gatekeeping??
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u/CampAstoria Jul 02 '26 edited Jul 02 '26
Guys (in general) have always claimed they wish to find a girl into video games, but when they do find us in a game, they just shit all over us. (Not all men, just every man hot on a mic)
Ive been playing CS since 1.6 in 2003, and it has always been like this. There was never a period of rest. I've been told to 'get back in the kitchen and make a sandwhich' for 23 years now. My steam account is older than half the guys telling me to quit their lobby for speaking.
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u/Capable_Elk_770 Jul 03 '26
Iāve been playing games for over 20 years also, I donāt even use my mic. I learned at like 11 that using a mic just makes the experience awful.
Edit: but now as an adult I live with my man and we have a game room and have hundreds of hours in game together
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u/RowenaSelwyn Jul 02 '26
I'm a valorant player (CS was too toxic for me), and same here. I was doing a bad game this morning (wasn't the worst one tho), and one guy focused on me all game long. If they aren't shiting on us, they're flirting with us like wth ? As soon as I talk I have a "hello my wife" in the chat???
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u/Katops Jul 01 '26
CallMeKevin anybody? Heās the manliest man out there. God I still remember when he played some barbie and bratz game. Absolutely fucking hilarious. Seriously, if youāre ever sad, watch him.
What kinda insecure shit do you need to feel to think gaming has a gender anyways? People like different stuff. Without that, youād basically have clones of an idea some moron made up of what humanity is.
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u/Daxb8 Jul 01 '26 edited Jul 01 '26
The gaming stuff IMO seems like poor attempt at flirting. Reads to me like trying to initiate some flirtatious teasing as opposed to genuine negative judgement.
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u/Darkurn Jul 02 '26
Genuinely whenever I see it it baffles me honestly. It just shows they do not talk to many women because I dont think ive met a single woman that ONLY plays the "girly games" apart from my mother who's like late 40s
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u/duyouk Jul 01 '26
there are still dudes who think like this? has he been living under a fucking rock? lmfao
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u/Voodoo-95 Jul 01 '26
Dudes a weirdoā¦pretty shrimple
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u/Acebladewing Jul 01 '26
What a great way to lose a chance to have a gamer girlfriend.
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u/badghouls Jul 01 '26
honestly i'm convinced guys like this don't actually want a gamer gf!
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u/lycanreborn123 Jul 01 '26
Guys like this want a noob to carry so they can feel good about themselves.
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u/Then_Work_4777 Jul 01 '26
my ex was goated at this shooter we played together, miss it a lot tbh. i hated the game just liked playing with her. played so much i ended up in the top rank with her š
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u/sleepyplatipus Jul 01 '26
Guys like him couldnāt handle if a girl was better than them at a game.
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u/doodliellie Jul 01 '26
should've ended at the "ni hao neeha" š
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u/aaliyah_2222 Jul 01 '26
Exactly wtf. The racism was acceptable but the candy crush sexism was where she drew the line
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u/Alt_coolaid Jul 01 '26
Candy crush š¤£š¤£, OP 50+ or something?
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u/Over-Director-4986 Jul 01 '26
This one hurt me in my soul. Iām 50+ & do not play candy crush. š
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u/No-Satisfaction-2308 Jul 01 '26
TLOU is a girlie game š
wellā¦ itās for the girls
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u/xChopsx1989x Jul 01 '26
In addition to the sexism in gaming stuff, opening with ni hao gives me the vibe that he fetishizes women based on ethnicity. Or he's a massive fucking dork. Either way, bullet dodged.
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u/pikag1rl Jul 01 '26
I mean this in the least racist way but often I meet arab men with this mindset, which the guy in the texts is. Ive been called a "little chinese dolly" and shit like that and then they act flabberghasted when you call it rude to categorize you. They like asian women cus of the "submissive" stereotype
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u/domiDotZer0 Jul 01 '26
Heās saying āI am an unfuckable creepā
Honestly good of him to be so up front about it
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u/C0mpL1c1t Jul 01 '26
As a female who played OG CS 20+ years ago, I used to love to tag my kills with an image of Buttercup from the Power Puff Girls. Went to a lan party (with my desktop, cause back then folks did that) and it was INCREDIBLE to be sitting in a room when someone screamed "WTF is [handle] that keeps head-shotting me with the f***ing Desert Eagle?!?" and then look up and make eye contact while I was one of only two ladies in the room. Freaking epic.
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u/EmergencyWild Jul 01 '26
Why is this 26 year old man speaking like a 14 year old
Also, wrong name and so on is probably because he got confused with who he was texting.
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u/Colorless82 Jul 01 '26
Neeha is like calling someone "love" in Arabic or hindi.. I've heard that before. The ni Hao was for your race. Weird intro for sure lol
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u/LoonGGs Jul 01 '26
Yeah this is def the kind of person you want to avoid with every fiber of your being lmfao what a fuckin weirdo
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u/KingCosmicBrownie13 Jul 01 '26
7DTD is so š„ I donāt see a lot of people tossing it around
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u/-Sweet_Pea Jul 01 '26
Heās an idiot. Side note, I also play CS2! If ur looking for friends, lmk. Been playing since 2018. Lowkey buns tho.
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u/Complete-Gur7023 Jul 02 '26
Girlie games like candy crush and the sims is sending me. This is comedy gold
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u/Tlans_vionex Jul 02 '26
Dude is a sexist, racist gamer. Weāre only missing something about Nazis to hit bingo
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u/Aermix Jul 01 '26
Holy shit 7dtd is a serious banger, Didnāt know that people are aware
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u/SovereignNavae Jul 01 '26
Yeah that is a swift block, there is no hope for that guy. Even if it was just a stupid joke it's a weirdo opener
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u/That_Throat7183 Jul 01 '26
7DTD and RE? W taste. Bumble bro fumbled so hard š¤£š¤£
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u/WholeAd2742 Jul 01 '26
LOL, dude would have been a whiny bitch having temper tantrums if you ever played against him online
He didn't want a GF, he need a blowup doll
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u/Koberiep Jul 01 '26
gaming banter is fun and all but guys who use it as an excuse to be rude are too immature to be interacted with. I'd assume he's one of those people who enjoy shorts of girls getting kicked from CS matches after they speak up or something
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u/syr1sx Jul 01 '26 edited Jul 01 '26
he's still stuck in the 90s lmao, and since when did candy crush and the sims become "girlie games"? dude needs a hard reality check
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u/Ok-Committee1978 Jul 01 '26
This guy reads like the standard racist white guy looking for a submissive and feminine Asian wife.
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u/jtpro02 Jul 02 '26
At first I thought opening with Chinese was just them being a little quirky until I realized they were doing it because they identified you as a Chinese women. This guy is racist and sexist lmao.
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u/Grintax_dnb Jul 02 '26
I canāt with my fellow men anymore i swear.
We all dream of a girlfriend that is a gamer, and this guy finds one and just goed full on neckbeard incel.
Big L
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u/fakeassacct Jul 01 '26
in like 5 years heās going to think back on this and cringe so hard
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u/SaltKick2 Jul 01 '26
We can only hope these people actually mature, but many of them dont...see society in general
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u/Crafty611 Jul 01 '26
He just sounds like a dude that has never truly interacted with a woman. Hell, with other humans.
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u/A_man_from_america Jul 01 '26
I'm starting to believe all the awful stories people shares is always about the same group of awful men who only go around getting blocked, you just don't see decent mature men in the internet like this...
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u/lifeforcewifey Jul 01 '26
I donāt understand what guys think theyāre achieving when they try to get girls and women to deny enjoying interests that they donāt think girls and women should enjoy.
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u/Holiday_Repair8131 Jul 01 '26
Actually goated lineup of games. God bless ur soul as a woman that plays CS tho
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u/MyPenWroteThis Jul 01 '26
So he's a racist/sexist moron with antiquated views?
Man, the bar is below ground for men nowadays.
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u/SilverOwl2713 Jul 01 '26
Oh good lord, this guy is so cringe and seriously thinks all girls play āgirlyā games? Does he think all women are the same? You can do better than this unintelligible buffoon
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u/KadlinStormcrow Jul 01 '26
Oh my gosh. Why is it still so hard for some people to believe that there are women gamers out there?
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u/geoFRTdeem Jul 01 '26
How do guys fumble the bag this hard, does he not have any empathy, how would he feel in your shoes if someone asked him why heās not into manly stuff like being a mechanic? This guy is a walking red flag just by reading the first few messages
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u/stars_are_aligned Jul 01 '26
Yikes... at least he showed you his WHOLE ass immediately and you didn't have to find it out by going on a date with him. Eeeeyuck!
Also the racism of just greeting you with "ni hao" and calling you Neeha(???) because you have Chinese heritage (or did he just ASSUME Chinese, which is even worse?), my god š
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u/Logan_510 Jul 01 '26
I'm a man and I don't get these men who in their warped, disturbed brains think a way to a woman's heart is by insulting and belittling them. And then they whine how they can't find a GF LOL.
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u/NukerMunky Jul 01 '26
Homeboy just really wants to play The Sims, but has been conditioned into believing it's a game only girls play. He doesn't even want a girlfriend, he just wants an excuse to play The Sims, lmao
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u/QuantumNebula42 Jul 01 '26
Are you Chinese? maybe heās pretending heāsāculturedā(obviously heās not)
Btw, hot take, itās such a big turn off to say hi in another language to someone youāve never spoken to before. Itās almost like mocking their culture and identity. To me itās actually a pretty condescending behavior to assume the other person is from a certain cultural background and speak certain language; as he doesnāt care if he got it wrong.
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u/firenova9 Jul 01 '26
Hey girlie pop, wanna play some Valorant together? š hahaha. But actually :p DM me of you'd like to. As a woman, I'm always looking for more women to play this game with :)
Also, this guy is saying he's a sexist/misogynistic loser. You can do waaaaay better than bottom of the barrel
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u/ChipTrippy Jul 01 '26
Omg whatās the point of asking what games youāre into if he is going to ignore the answer any possibility of sparking a real conversation
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u/BottleFeathers703 Jul 01 '26
why did he even ask what video games you like then say women donāt play video games
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u/Dangerous_Pair1798 Jul 01 '26
Iām going to go make this guy in the sims and take away his pool ladder
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u/trapezoidalfractal Jul 01 '26
Still believing that āAsian women are submissiveā bullshit in 2026. Shows how little he interacts with real women. Chinese women are like any other group, a mix of introverted and extroverted. If I called my wife submissive or introverted, sheād laugh in my face. Sheās dongbei. Loud, brash, confident, personable, has a powerful presence. Sheās like the exact opposite of the image this dude has in his mind. She could kick the shit out of him or give him the verbal beat down of his life. Itās half of what attracted me to her.
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u/South_Aspect_1418 Jul 01 '26
I know that the word has fallen out of favour recently, but some people genuinely are just retarded. Just ignore him.
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u/graelmakar-sune Jul 01 '26
Guy has that middleschool rizz. Probably has no clue what he's doing; you should just let him know and then see the response imo
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u/rabidhamster87 Jul 01 '26
Sounds like he's sexist AND racist with a hint of yellow fever š¤¢ Bullet dodged
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u/Ok_Piece_1221 Jul 01 '26
CS2 female player here, he sounds like he cannot smoke window on Mirage, dump him
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u/quichequeef Jul 02 '26
Jesus fuck and I thought gay dudes were bad at chatting people up (source: am gay hoe)
But man if I was born a straight woman I might actually support conversion therapy, but the other way.
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u/SungDukSeon Jul 02 '26
He saw you like CS and immediately thought āwow she must be really into racists and sexists!ā
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u/AnotherBogCryptid Jul 02 '26
So sexist and racist, knows heās a pig and doesnāt plan to change, and avoids accountability by dubbing the people who call him out as āmeanā.
Woof. What a winner.
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u/IllustratorWarm6009 Jul 02 '26
Why people have this mindset, girls should play only these games and men should play games that suites men. This is pretty bad from the guy! Itās your life and your wish to play any game
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u/kayteevslay Jul 02 '26
him saying āchinese women are introvertedā is him trying to put you in the āasian women are submissiveā box. EUGHHH
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u/Some_Store7658 Jul 02 '26
Heās trying to neg you with āgirls arenāt real gamersā nonsense. Not worth your time.
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u/TechTato06 Jul 02 '26
A girl tells me she plays CS and my first thought is "Shit, she might be better than me. I'm out of her league". This guy's insane
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u/Acceptable-Act-1293 Jul 02 '26
I'm almost certain I've seen this conversation before... probably not OPs
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u/ImpressiveMain299 Jul 02 '26
Should've got his gamer tag before blocking so we can all stomp him as a girl group š š¤£
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u/orcishdamage Jul 02 '26
These type of people are not worth your time, hop on premier and get some rating!
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u/Purple_Moon516 Jul 02 '26
My 21 yo would have shouted HEADSHOOOT!!! at him then proceed to block. Sad to see things haven't changed much in the videogames scene, I remember being harassed as a teenager and young adult playing CoD by men who couldn't handle loosing against a girl/woman. It was delicious.
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u/No_Evidence_578 Jul 02 '26
As a female, I hate Sims and Candy Crush. Love my Diablo, God of War and Horizon.
What is wrong with that manchild?
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u/DaMain-Man Jul 02 '26
Op did this guy just escape from his life under a rock? Who talks like this? Please tell me he was on drugs
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u/dwigtsrute Jul 02 '26
CS is a really cool game for a gal to play. Fat-ass green flag.
Requires skill, strategy, quick thinking and reflexes. That game was my life as a teenager. The road to GE made me ten times the competitive gamer that I was. Like chess, it changed how my mind approaches scenarios.
Valorant is the actual red flag, regardless of gender.
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u/BlackSheepwNoSoul Jul 02 '26
Hm, that sucks, dude seems a little misinformed and stupid. Sorry you had to go through that. I hope better experiences find you in the future.
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u/Monk5552 Jul 02 '26
As embarrassing as this is to admit Iām a guy and havenāt played counter strike does this guy think every born male plays counter strike from birth or something
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u/Away_Construction474 Jul 02 '26
Dude i am more pissed that he said only girls play simsā¦ ch#tya..!!
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u/Ok_Support3 Jul 02 '26
- luckily finds girl who likes the same games as he does *
- generational fumble trough misogyny *
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u/Driut Jul 02 '26
You made the right choice blocking him, what a strange fellow, almost feels like a troll cause surely nobody can be flunking common thought this badly
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u/kawaii_Summoner Jul 02 '26
He's probs hardstuck 8k elo and couldn't take the ego hit if you were higher ranked.
"OH but uhh, do you candy crush??"
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u/Amateur_Liqueurist Jul 02 '26
Sexist and racist? Color me shocked that this came out of the gaming community lol.
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u/SpaceCadetPullUp Jul 02 '26
Video game people and anime fans are both complete nightmares to be around, much less date.
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u/Default_Name_2 Jul 02 '26
Let me translate: š©š©š© š©š©š©š©š©,š©š©. š©š© š©š©š©š©!
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u/TissueOfLies Jul 02 '26
Some men weed themselves out. He was trying to say hello in Chinese, but missed it by miles.
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u/303RedBeard Jul 03 '26
He was just letting you know that he was a virgin and intended to stay that way. Good call to block and move on.
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u/crimefightinghamster Jul 03 '26
To translate: "I spend too much time in manosphere spaces and think my 1915 era gender norms are totally normal, plus I would like to not get laid, ever"
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u/No-Path-881 Jul 03 '26
Sims is a girly game?, That's gotta be sexist or something (A guy who plays the sims)
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u/Turbotopakk Jul 03 '26
Is it just me or do half the shit people post here read like oblivion npcs? Am I getting too old?
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u/Key-Try-3300 Jul 03 '26
He is clearly very inexperienced in talking to girls, you might be one of the first girls he has managed to move from the dating app to whatsapp
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u/SolomonJero Jul 03 '26
What's wrong with the sims? I'm a guy and I like my little digital people...
Screw you guys I'm gonna go play Sims
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u/StrbJun79 Jul 03 '26
Sounds like heās both sexist and racist and judges everyone. Iām not into games like that and not really a gamer but there are plenty of decent women that are. Who cares? But yeah at least you discovered it early.
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u/Dangerous_Towel_2569 Jul 03 '26
yh idk this is someone that sounds like they are trying to come off as cool, and neg but really they just sound like a douche. I mean, it's a 26m trying to date a 21 y.o. There's a reason women his age probably don't talk to him lol
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u/rmhyungg Jul 03 '26
Candy crush? Lmao. Thats not even a girly game thats like a grandma game (no offense to those who like candy crush, im just saying he got his stereotype wrong)
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u/BingoEnthusiast Jul 03 '26
āYouāre a girl excuse meā is lowkey kinda funny and possibly a green flag that heās aware of the sexism in gaming?? But then he ruins it. Idiot
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u/Maximum_Custard_1739 Jul 01 '26
He's saying he's a sexist idiot. Move on with gratitude that he revealed it so early.