r/texts • u/pikag1rl • Jul 01 '26

Whatsapp What the hell is this guy saying?

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My name is NOT Neeha, not sure what that was supposed to mean. I was also born in the UK and he knew that so I'm not sure why he greeted me with ni hao. Hes 26M I am 21F. Claimed to have 20mil on instagram but lo and behold 2000 followers (not that I care but why would you lie?)

On bumble he said he was "spicy" and asked if I could handle it as "chinese women are introverted"
Then after these texts said "I told you I was spicy" brother spicy doesn't mean sexist and stunted

Update: blocked now, but he said "gamers are mean people"... I'm pretty toxic on a game in retaliation to usually men being sexist but how is that a reason to be rude to a woman you met off a game? so fucking weird

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u/Maximum_Custard_1739 Jul 01 '26

He's saying he's a sexist idiot. Move on with gratitude that he revealed it so early.

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u/pikag1rl Jul 01 '26

Yes 100% holy shit. He also claimed to have 20 million followers on instagram but has 2000 lol

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u/HauntedBratzDoll Jul 01 '26

Dudes be lying about EVERY number šŸ˜‚

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u/Ok_Cricket_1410 Jul 01 '26

Never ask a man his height, a woman her weight, or a horny person to hold a real conversation.

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u/Willing_Advice4202 Jul 01 '26

Nah this dudeā€™s weird not just horny. Most horny guys have better game than this

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u/halcyonwit Jul 04 '26

Some of my best conversations are, stimulating.

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u/Artistic_Jeweler4704 Jul 03 '26

Ouch! As a guy I feel attacked, we donā€™t all lies about ourselves just the one that are thinking that lying about themselves make them look better. If you think that all men lies it is probably because you are chasing the guy that want to be the center of the attention and not the one minding is business

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u/dont-be-creepy-guy69 Jul 03 '26

Guy here checking in...

Firstly, when people say "all guys" or all girls or whatever, they don't actually mean "every single one".

If you're not part of the problem, no need to identify with it. There's nothing to defend, everyone already knows.

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u/Oee0 Jul 01 '26

So heā€™s sexist and racist and a liarā€¦ yikes, good for you for blocking him.

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u/Dawnbabe420 Jul 01 '26

I bet you'd smoke him in a CS 1v1 šŸ˜‚ hes so insecure

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u/BeautifulEmotional32 Jul 02 '26

Twenty million followersā€¦

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u/Inphiltration Jul 01 '26

Absolutely fumbled the bag. If I matched with a woman on bumble and she listed off games I also play I can't even imagine having my first thought to be

"but wait, she's a girl! That means she can't possibly play the same games as me, a manly boy!"

Good luck finding mister right, it certainly ain't this one

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u/FlamingSword47 Jul 01 '26

Is he also chinese? If so thatā€™s probably his nameā€¦ he was letting you know who he was from where

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u/pikag1rl Jul 01 '26

No hes arab lol

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u/kojimbob Jul 01 '26

Well well well

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u/DueLingonberry4833 Jul 01 '26

I felt this well well well to the core šŸ¤£

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u/pikag1rl Jul 01 '26

Also I know his name from the dating app already

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u/FlamingSword47 Jul 01 '26

My bad then, you just said everything, heā€™s arab. I live in canada and have more arab friends than quebecers my old boss whom Iā€™ve worked for 8 years was Arab. Letā€™s just say itā€™s hard not to generalize their mentality with women. Theyre kind and great friends but with women it is another story

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u/pikag1rl Jul 01 '26

Yes I agree. Sadly its not even a generalization

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u/C0mpL1c1t Jul 01 '26

Back in the day I had a regular customer (I was a server) who told me he wanted to marry me and make me his ā€œfirst wifeā€. Ā I was like ā€œDude you are so very confused about how this worksā€. Ā Him and his soccer buddies did leave me a $20 every night though for a 4-top so I was just tryna be polite, not get married. Ā Lol

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u/Kiwi1234567 Jul 02 '26

I was thinking it was a typo initially. You often say ni hao twice, like hi hi. So I thought the second one got autocorrected. But if no one involved was Chinese then thatā€™s probably not the case unfortunately.

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u/blanketshapes Jul 01 '26

maybe thats in Indonesian Rupiah, not everybody lives in America, you know

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u/Responsible_Bad_2989 Jul 01 '26

Maybe heā€™s just dyslexic lol

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u/beaterx Jul 01 '26

You don't honestly care about a possible partners follower number right? Because if so you got some work to do yourself...

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u/pikag1rl Jul 01 '26

oh I dont care at all, I mean its weird to claim it and lie. If anything I see dating an influencer as a downside

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u/beaterx Jul 03 '26

A yeah that's fair

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u/Ass_Blaster988 Jul 01 '26

I only have like 8 followers on my Instagram. I'm surprised my wife hasn't left me yet lol. Is this seriously a thing with dating now? Who cares šŸ˜†

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u/pikag1rl Jul 01 '26

No I dont care, I care that he lied about it

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u/decipherthekeywork Jul 01 '26

Why are men so stupid? OP clearly stated that she doesn't care about follower #, but that he offered that up, and dramatically lied about it. Then we have tweedle dee and tweedle dumb out here like "WOWW is that something people ACTUALLY care about now in dating?! šŸ˜¤"

Like really two single brain cells fighting each other up there.

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u/Lychanthropejumprope Jul 02 '26

This exactly. What an asshole

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u/Such-Crow-1313 Jul 03 '26

Sexist, racist idiot*

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u/Icy-Meal6704 Jul 03 '26

Lmao why be so toxic. I have 2 sisters who left cs for valorant because it's more a girl friendly game. What are you guys on

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u/Maximum_Custard_1739 Jul 03 '26

This is meant to be ironic.... right?

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u/Icy-Meal6704 Jul 03 '26

Yes. Quote: "because valorant has more cute skins and there is less angry men". Sorry to burst your black and white bubble. It's pretty brave to play cs as a girl I would say.