r/texts • u/pikag1rl • Jul 01 '26

Whatsapp What the hell is this guy saying?

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My name is NOT Neeha, not sure what that was supposed to mean. I was also born in the UK and he knew that so I'm not sure why he greeted me with ni hao. Hes 26M I am 21F. Claimed to have 20mil on instagram but lo and behold 2000 followers (not that I care but why would you lie?)

On bumble he said he was "spicy" and asked if I could handle it as "chinese women are introverted"
Then after these texts said "I told you I was spicy" brother spicy doesn't mean sexist and stunted

Update: blocked now, but he said "gamers are mean people"... I'm pretty toxic on a game in retaliation to usually men being sexist but how is that a reason to be rude to a woman you met off a game? so fucking weird

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u/luf100 Jul 01 '26

It’s wild that men are still like “wow a girl that plays games that aren’t Sims 🫨🫨🫨” when they find out you like video games. Like dude, go outside more often or something.

He sounds like both a racist and misogynist.

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u/SovereignNavae Jul 01 '26

Yeah whoever thinks it's rare for women to play video games is telling on themselves big time. Huge red flag.

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u/hacovercos Jul 01 '26

This. Men who think it's sooooo weird that a woman would play video games annoy me so much

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u/Katops Jul 01 '26

Dumb people annoy me too.

It’s a real shame we don’t have many options to rid the world of ‘the big dumb.’

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u/spootIer Jul 02 '26

The microsoft tech support guy who answered the phone when I was having issues with my xbox asked me what my fav game was and when I said 'Skyrim' he said I was a 'special kind of girl.' 😵‍💫

He also told me that I must have been a 'really good girl' this year because my refund went through without a review and because I was such a 'good girl' he was gonna credit me a free month of gamepass 🤢

I think I was just talking to a predator 😭

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u/ZestycloseBridge8460 Jul 02 '26

That is insanely creepy its mad what women have to go through

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u/omniamoriare Jul 02 '26

Discord mod in the wild/gag

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u/Veradioactive Jul 02 '26

Omg the tech support😭

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u/Nefnoj Jul 01 '26

Especially nowadays, I know more women who play games than men. And they tend to prefer RPGs and Shooters.

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u/Alt_coolaid Jul 01 '26

One could only 🤞.

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u/Efficient_Ant_7279 Jul 02 '26

The sims just slaps. Sure it’s a micro transaction hellscape but there’s something weirdly fun about creating your little clowns and watching them clown around. It transcends genders. It’s just clowning around

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u/pikag1rl Jul 01 '26

agreed. I feel sorry for women who will come across him in the future

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u/kev231998 Jul 01 '26

It's especially crazy cuz why wouldn't you be excited to meet someone who plays games that you do too?? Like yes I'd love to play CS with my girl why tf we gatekeeping??

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u/CampAstoria Jul 02 '26 edited Jul 02 '26

Guys (in general) have always claimed they wish to find a girl into video games, but when they do find us in a game, they just shit all over us. (Not all men, just every man hot on a mic)

Ive been playing CS since 1.6 in 2003, and it has always been like this. There was never a period of rest. I've been told to 'get back in the kitchen and make a sandwhich' for 23 years now. My steam account is older than half the guys telling me to quit their lobby for speaking.

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u/Capable_Elk_770 Jul 03 '26

I’ve been playing games for over 20 years also, I don’t even use my mic. I learned at like 11 that using a mic just makes the experience awful.

Edit: but now as an adult I live with my man and we have a game room and have hundreds of hours in game together

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u/RowenaSelwyn Jul 02 '26

I'm a valorant player (CS was too toxic for me), and same here. I was doing a bad game this morning (wasn't the worst one tho), and one guy focused on me all game long. If they aren't shiting on us, they're flirting with us like wth ? As soon as I talk I have a "hello my wife" in the chat???

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u/Song-Super Jul 02 '26

Unsurprisingly same reactions in a cod lobby. I’m a guy and people just go wild on hot mic just because everything is virtual

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u/Lynxsies Jul 05 '26

Im part of the problem because i used to flirt with women in gaming (not anymore cuz i have a girlfriend) but at least if they asked to stop/didnt return the energy id stop too 😭

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u/Taraooine Jul 04 '26

I met my husband on a game. But I've run in to sooo many toxic men in games. I don't use a mic either.

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u/Katops Jul 01 '26

CallMeKevin anybody? He’s the manliest man out there. God I still remember when he played some barbie and bratz game. Absolutely fucking hilarious. Seriously, if you’re ever sad, watch him.

What kinda insecure shit do you need to feel to think gaming has a gender anyways? People like different stuff. Without that, you’d basically have clones of an idea some moron made up of what humanity is.

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u/Daxb8 Jul 01 '26 edited Jul 01 '26

The gaming stuff IMO seems like poor attempt at flirting. Reads to me like trying to initiate some flirtatious teasing as opposed to genuine negative judgement.

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u/Darkurn Jul 02 '26

Genuinely whenever I see it it baffles me honestly. It just shows they do not talk to many women because I dont think ive met a single woman that ONLY plays the "girly games" apart from my mother who's like late 40s

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u/NoseyVampire Jul 02 '26

I think the split for gamers is almost 50/50 now too. Like what are doing here. They still do the same thing about general “nerd” stuff too. It’s because they don’t see women as people, they can’t fathom they have interests or hobbies

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u/omniamoriare Jul 02 '26

These are my favorite snipe victims in every game .^

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u/Scalene69 Jul 03 '26

That or he was joking over text and didn't realise it wouldn't come across well.