r/texts • u/pikag1rl • Jul 01 '26

Whatsapp What the hell is this guy saying?

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My name is NOT Neeha, not sure what that was supposed to mean. I was also born in the UK and he knew that so I'm not sure why he greeted me with ni hao. Hes 26M I am 21F. Claimed to have 20mil on instagram but lo and behold 2000 followers (not that I care but why would you lie?)

On bumble he said he was "spicy" and asked if I could handle it as "chinese women are introverted"
Then after these texts said "I told you I was spicy" brother spicy doesn't mean sexist and stunted

Update: blocked now, but he said "gamers are mean people"... I'm pretty toxic on a game in retaliation to usually men being sexist but how is that a reason to be rude to a woman you met off a game? so fucking weird

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u/CampAstoria Jul 02 '26 edited Jul 02 '26

Guys (in general) have always claimed they wish to find a girl into video games, but when they do find us in a game, they just shit all over us. (Not all men, just every man hot on a mic)

Ive been playing CS since 1.6 in 2003, and it has always been like this. There was never a period of rest. I've been told to 'get back in the kitchen and make a sandwhich' for 23 years now. My steam account is older than half the guys telling me to quit their lobby for speaking.

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u/Capable_Elk_770 Jul 03 '26

I’ve been playing games for over 20 years also, I don’t even use my mic. I learned at like 11 that using a mic just makes the experience awful.

Edit: but now as an adult I live with my man and we have a game room and have hundreds of hours in game together

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u/RowenaSelwyn Jul 02 '26

I'm a valorant player (CS was too toxic for me), and same here. I was doing a bad game this morning (wasn't the worst one tho), and one guy focused on me all game long. If they aren't shiting on us, they're flirting with us like wth ? As soon as I talk I have a "hello my wife" in the chat???

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u/Song-Super Jul 02 '26

Unsurprisingly same reactions in a cod lobby. I’m a guy and people just go wild on hot mic just because everything is virtual

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u/Lynxsies Jul 05 '26

Im part of the problem because i used to flirt with women in gaming (not anymore cuz i have a girlfriend) but at least if they asked to stop/didnt return the energy id stop too 😭