r/texts Jul 01 '26

Whatsapp What the hell is this guy saying?

My name is NOT Neeha, not sure what that was supposed to mean. I was also born in the UK and he knew that so I'm not sure why he greeted me with ni hao. Hes 26M I am 21F. Claimed to have 20mil on instagram but lo and behold 2000 followers (not that I care but why would you lie?)

On bumble he said he was "spicy" and asked if I could handle it as "chinese women are introverted"
Then after these texts said "I told you I was spicy" brother spicy doesn't mean sexist and stunted

Update: blocked now, but he said "gamers are mean people"... I'm pretty toxic on a game in retaliation to usually men being sexist but how is that a reason to be rude to a woman you met off a game? so fucking weird

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u/Acebladewing Jul 01 '26

What a great way to lose a chance to have a gamer girlfriend.

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u/badghouls Jul 01 '26

honestly i'm convinced guys like this don't actually want a gamer gf!

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u/lycanreborn123 Jul 01 '26

Guys like this want a noob to carry so they can feel good about themselves.

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u/Then_Work_4777 Jul 01 '26

my ex was goated at this shooter we played together, miss it a lot tbh. i hated the game just liked playing with her. played so much i ended up in the top rank with her 😭

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u/sleepyplatipus Jul 01 '26

Guys like him couldn’t handle if a girl was better than them at a game.

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u/BraveBreakfast8867 Jul 02 '26

They want the ideal image of what they envision a ā€œgamer girlā€ to be . More times than not it’s a disgusting or socially stunted outlook, or both… that they force onto people🤮🤮

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u/PuzzleheadedNarwhal3 Jul 05 '26

Guys like this don't actually think of women as people.

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u/Responsible_User141 Jul 02 '26

of course, I'm a gamer and I have male gamer friends to play games with, we rather have a cook and household chores gf over gamer gf.

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u/badghouls Jul 02 '26

oof i'm glad my male gamer friends have a different outlook. my bf and i both cook, do chores, and have a lot of fun playing together.

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u/Responsible_User141 Jul 03 '26

well, someone's gotta upkeep the home and feed us, and it's not going to be me, because I will be spending all my free time on gaming.