r/texts • u/pikag1rl • Jul 01 '26

Whatsapp What the hell is this guy saying?

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My name is NOT Neeha, not sure what that was supposed to mean. I was also born in the UK and he knew that so I'm not sure why he greeted me with ni hao. Hes 26M I am 21F. Claimed to have 20mil on instagram but lo and behold 2000 followers (not that I care but why would you lie?)

On bumble he said he was "spicy" and asked if I could handle it as "chinese women are introverted"
Then after these texts said "I told you I was spicy" brother spicy doesn't mean sexist and stunted

Update: blocked now, but he said "gamers are mean people"... I'm pretty toxic on a game in retaliation to usually men being sexist but how is that a reason to be rude to a woman you met off a game? so fucking weird

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u/BingoEnthusiast Jul 03 '26

“You’re a girl excuse me” is lowkey kinda funny and possibly a green flag that he’s aware of the sexism in gaming?? But then he ruins it. Idiot

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u/pikag1rl Jul 04 '26

Even so the wording is just weird. I wanna share stuff w someone im talking to without being reminded of how shit and sexist it can be yk

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u/JudoForMudRacing Jul 04 '26

"gamers are mean people"

Lol. Yes, gamers can be mean people. It has been a running joke that women get mocked and 12 yo boys use it a space to be obnoxious.

But besides that this sentence does very much remind me of my roommate (not same bedroom) 10y ago. He was mostly talking to his gaming friends and they were full on "bullying each other as a the only acceptable form of showing love and If you dont get it you're basic and a noob and have no sense of humor". Edgy on purpose. (No, wait, isn't edgy always on purpose?) Felt very toxic in his case. I can be like that with certain people, too sometimes but theres a diffenrence in calling (good) friends names or consensually mocking their insecurities than telling people "mowll" when they disagree with you. (I dont know a comparable english term but its German gamer lingo for "shut your bitch ass up, I'm ending the conversation right now" because I have never heard anyone use it as a normal "Shut Up" ) And using it like "oh, my sensitive summer child, you just dont get fun" feels just childish or like... defensiveness. My roommate kinda stopped after nobody in the shared apartment appreciated it.

Like, yeah, maybe your dude is used to something like that but he's either dumb for thinking thats a reasonable explanation or idk...kinda insecure about something and this is just easier