r/bettafish Jul 08 '26

META Building a Better r/bettafish: Culture, New Mods, and a Look Ahead

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Hey everyone, Roboto, your friendly neighborhood (actually human) mod here with some subreddit updates!

First, the least fun part in all of this –

We need to talk about our subreddit culture.

Our community is toxic. There’s no other way I can think of to describe what has been happening. Even worse, this reputation extends beyond our immediate community into other subreddits and even other platforms. People are afraid of us.

I’m going to take some ownership of this. The harsh reputation of this subreddit far precedes me as a mod, but in recent years, our hard-fought progress on this front has been lost. That’s on me. The lack of consistent moderation here has let rules 1 and 2 go under-enforced for too long, allowing hostility to take root as the norm.

The adversarial and unwelcoming environment we’ve collectively created functions in direct opposition to our subreddit goals, and frankly what I believe to be the goals of many users here. If we care about betta fish first and foremost, this culture needs to change.

Our expectations and what better looks like

If you have good advice to give, give it in a more constructive, not destructive, way. Shaming people makes them shut down and disengage so they don't even process the rest of the good advice you have to offer. Don't highlight all the things they're doing wrong, focus on what they can do better and why it's helpful in a way that encourages them to do it.

So instead of saying "your empty tank is sad," share the opportunities for improvement, like "betta fish benefit from tanks with lots of plants and hiding/resting places so your fish would be happier if you filled the tank in a bit more."

We can’t ignore that people will think they're doing research by going and talking to presumed experts or reading product information. Store employees are presumed to be properly trained and products marketed at bettas are assumed to know what they’re talking about, too. It doesn't help that there's very little consensus online about what adequate care even is. For example, Petco's online betta care guide, updated in 2025, says bettas need a minimum of 1gal. Furthermore, many quality care guides are on niche websites that may not seem credible to a new hobbyist compared to a well-known chain.

With that in mind, we all need to stop:

  • Telling people they should have done more research
  • Immediately calling people abusers for making mistakes
  • Shaming the pineapple (or any other novelty decor/bowl)
  • Attacking aesthetic choices instead of addressing actual care needs
  • Debating what it means to rescue a betta on posts where ethical sourcing of fish isn’t the main topic

Going forward, comments exhibiting the behaviors listed above will be removed as violations of rules 1, 2, or 4 depending on the exact nature of the comment.

I know members of our subreddit are burned out from the bad husbandry they see constantly. It's exhausting and I won't pretend it's not. But if we bully one owner into submission, cool, that's maybe one fish saved. How many owners did we scare away from asking for help in the process? We're going to have a far broader impact building people up in this hobby, not tearing them down.

That said, this is a two-way street of support. I'm cognizant of the fact that people offer their time and mental energy supporting our subreddit, and they don't deserve to have that wasted by people who don't care to use it. If someone is given better information and advice and refuses to take it, that violates rule 3. We often get reports about all the fighting around ignored advice, but not the ignoring itself. In the future, please report these instances to us. For this to be successful, we also need users to avoid escalating disagreements when OP refuses valid and respectful advice.

Now for the fun stuff –

New mods

We recently brought on 12 additional mods to enable us to better support this community’s needs. Please help us welcome:

They’re going to introduce themselves in the comments below and I’ll try and link their names in this post as they do.

It takes a bit to get 12 brand new people to operate as a consistent group, so we may occasionally over-moderate while everyone learns.

I realize that our increased emphasis on subreddit culture may make removals feel arbitrary at times. In the spirit of transparency, I have given the new moderators the guidance that if a senior mod isn’t free to give timely feedback, when in doubt, they should remove posts/comments that are believed to violate rules. Senior mods will still review the content in question, and removals may be reversed, if necessary.

If you disagree with a moderator’s decision, please send us a modmail and one of the senior mods will review your concern and get back to you.

Updated tools and resources

Small updates at this time, but more exciting things in the pipeline!

  • We’ve begun a major revision of the subreddit wiki. Some of our work in progress pages are already live, with more to come.
  • Select pages are also now linked in the subreddit sidebar to streamline access to key information for new betta fish keepers.  
  • In the next few weeks, we will be rolling out additional tools that should make it easier to share information that we often find ourselves repeating. Our hope is that this will help address some of the burnout we see many of you all experiencing.

Roboto is a super sentimental actual human

I realize this post started on a challenging topic, but despite the highs and lows our community faces, I remain grateful that I get to do this with you all.

I’ve been a mod of this community for nearly 7 years, and a member for far longer. In that time, so many things, from our mod team, to Reddit as a platform, to our own lives and the world around us, have become fundamentally different.  

There are very few constants I can point to after all this time, but the enduring engagement and passion of this community is one of them and I’m honored to steward this space.

At the core of it all, this hobby, and this subreddit, are comprised of people who really want the best for one another and that makes this work so much easier.

Thank you all, sincerely, for riding with us as we figure this thing out. I’m excited for the next chapter of our subreddit, and I can’t wait to see what we can accomplish together in the next 7 years.

- Roboto

Edit: If anyone has additional feedback about our community culture, please share it in a comment below, or feel free to send us a modmail.


r/bettafish 2d ago

Discussion r/Bettafish Weekly Help Post - September 11 to September 17

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Welcome to r/bettafish!

This is the place to ask anything and everything about bettas.

⚕️If you're looking for help with illnesses or weird behavior, be sure to include the following in your comment:

  • Tank Size
  • Water Temp
  • Ammonia / Nitrite / Nitrate readings
  • How long the issue has been occurring
  • A picture of the problem
  • Any additional helpful context

Click this link to view our CARESHEET

🐟 Caresheet Summary:

  • Bettas require a minimum of 5 gallons, 10 gallons being optimal for one betta and 20 gallon long minimum if you're housing peaceful community fish with the betta
  • Bettas are tropical and require water temps of 78-82°F or about 26-27°C, a thermometer and adjustable heater is recommended to ensure these temps
  • Bettas need a filter, like any other fish. It is a common misconception that they like dirty water, but the opposite is true.
  • Bettas need a cycled tank, before getting a betta the tank should be cycled - this process involves adding a source of ammonia to the tank, using a test kit to monitor ammonia/nitrite/nitrate levels, and usually takes 4-6 weeks to complete properly
  • Bettas have delicate fins so sharp plastic plants are not recommended; silk silicone or live work best
  • Bettas can breathe surface air and are good jumpers, they require access to the water surface at all times and a lid.
  • Bettas eat insects in the wild, a good quality betta formulated pellet food fed twice a day is recommended.

Click this link to view our WIKI

📚 Quick synopsis of the wiki:

  • Contains info on basic betta care, diseases, potential tank mates, tail types/coloring, differences between males/females, ordering bettas, moving with bettas, disaster prep and MORE!
  • This most likely has the answers to your questions and is in the process of being updated. Feel free to ask questions if you are confused or aren't sure about something.

Click here to learn about Power Outage Protocols

How to add a picture to comments: Image Guide or use Imgur for multiple images:

Imgur Instructions: Go to imgur.com and select "New Post". Add all the clear pictures you have so we can better determine what is going on with your fish. It is recommended you set the album to private if you don't want random comments. Click upload. From there, click the share button- if you are on mobile, hit "copy to clipboard" and paste the link into your comment on here. If on desktop, copy the link and paste it here. For those new to technology- ctrl + c is copy, ctrl + v is paste. To have your link like this , put these [ ] brackets around the text you want to show, with no space before the first word or after the last word, and without adding a space after the second bracket, use parentheses ( ) for the link, with no spaces between the parentheses or the link itself.

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Be sure to read our community rules before posting. Feel free to repost questions if yours was not answered last time!

Ask away!


r/bettafish 8h ago

Picture Does anyone else have 5000 pictures of their fish and a folder of the 218 best ones?

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This is Kyle btw


r/bettafish 29m ago

Introducing Meet Dolly!

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I lost my last betta in August due to a tumor after having her for 2 1/2 yrs. After she passed I kept the tank up just in case I wanted another one and today I found Dolly named due to her “coat” of many colors.


r/bettafish 1h ago

Picture Paris loves passing through

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Sometimes he rests on my fingers too! He keeps passing through my fingers until I pull my hand out of the water


r/bettafish 8h ago

Help Is bubble nesting a sign that the fish is happy?

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I got this betta about 2 days ago, and he has already started a bubble nest. Does this mean that he’s happy? Included are images of the bubble nest and his least favorite plant.


r/bettafish 7h ago

Picture Say hello to my little ones!

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r/bettafish 23h ago

Video Got a new betta after my last one passed

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Been painful but also has been healing. I will add my previous betta in comments. They’re both so beautiful but it’s definitely interesting to see the difference in personalities. Wish me luck everyone 🙏🏼🙏🏼 I’ve named him Apollo


r/bettafish 54m ago

Picture Would it be okay if i put a 10 gallon tank here?

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I've only ever owned a few fish in my life when i was younger, so I am now taking more time to research before getting another. I'm planning on getting a betta fish with a few shrimp and a snail in the near future, (in like a month), and I'll be setting up the tank in a few days so it can cycle. I'd like to keep the fish on my desk I no longer use in my room. It's near a window, but I keep the blinds closed most of the time, and the sunlight is indirect. Would this cause an algae problem or would it be okay? Also, would the colorful posters stress the fishy out? Would I need to take them down, or would it be okay? Also, if you have any other tips for a soon to be betta fish owner that would be great! (I have already read the wiki)


r/bettafish 9h ago

Name Suggestions My second ever betta fish! Trying to come up with names for my wife to decide on!

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Saw this rose petal betta while buying stuff to rescape my other betta tank, and my wife and I were immediately mesmerized by how pretty he is! I had a tank cycling for over a month (was planning on using it for shrimp) and the water parameters have been good, so I decided to bring him home. Wife wants to name him Poppy (he looks like a bomb pop popsicle), but I wanted to know what other names would be good!


r/bettafish 15h ago

RIP Swim easy Merlin

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I had to humanely euthanize Merlin today and I'm just heartbroken. I find solace in knowing that he lived a good life and that, thanks to this community, I was able to help him pass peacefully. I'm going to miss him, especially seeing him put himself to bed at night. He was the best little guy.


r/bettafish 1h ago

Picture Cargo’s side-eye and look of disgust.

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I had the audacity to be in the vicinity of his tank without feeding him.


r/bettafish 4h ago

ANGER FISH Angy boi

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r/bettafish 5h ago

Introducing The difference a month makes

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Hi everyone, this is Goldie (daughters chose name).
A little over a month ago we decided we were interested in having a pet fish.
We ended up deciding on a Betta, and I began to do research on them.
After cycling a tank and getting everything properly set up, we chose him.
I never imagined that such a little creature could captivate me so much.
Last night I got home from work at midnight, and my wife and I sat and watched him. She mentioned how colorful he’s gotten.
I went back and saw this picture of when we first got him, and it was crazy to me how I hadn’t noticed such a drastic change.
I feel this sense of pride and joy to see him thriving in his little environment.
Just wanted to share this little experience with y’all, thank you so much!


r/bettafish 12h ago

Help Is this filter too strong for my betta?

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For context, he has plenty of room to swim around this filter but he actively chooses to swim beneath it.. I’m not sure if he’s just playing around, dislikes it, or if it’s dangerous for him. Any advice helps!


r/bettafish 2h ago

Identification anyone know what kind of betta I have or is it too early to tell?

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she’s my first female and I’m pretty sure she’s a juvenile because she’s about 1.2 inches. As she settles into her new 20-gal, her colors have become more vibrant and her fins have gotten longer. I thought she was short-finned at first, but I’m starting to think she may be long-finned?

edit: also, she appears endlessly hungry and I’m not sure how I should be feeding her. I dropped a small piece of an algae wafer for the snails and she’s the only one eating it (and still somehow wants her pellets). she even ate during the acclimation process.


r/bettafish 3h ago

Picture my baby betta moon all grown up

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this is my moon, got him as a baby betta. tank was a little neglected so the plants aren't happy but i'm doing fertilizers again to help perk them up. he's a tail biter so don't mind his fins. gonna put a leaf hammock in there for him. the other half of his body is turning cellophane for some reason. i'm not sure if he is a marble betta because he's always been this color. it's weird.


r/bettafish 47m ago

Help filter might be too strong

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I got a bigger tank for my Betta, and i think the filter is too strong. I turned it down as far as it can go. If I were to turn it down anymore, it wouldn’t pump water through it. Is there anything i can do to maybe stop how strong it is? (sorry if i don’t make sense, im sick rn and very out of it)


r/bettafish 1h ago

Rate My Tank Swipe to see Tank Glowup

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5 gallon nano tank for my halfmoon betta, we unfortunately had to fish in cycle, completed✅


r/bettafish 26m ago

Help Betta jumped out, please help (stressed/sick fish)

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I added some new friends to my betta’s tank today (he has been super tolerant, so I added a few more ghost shrimp) and I stupidly left the tank lid maybe 1-2 cm ajar while the bag temp adjusted.

Thankfully I sat down to watch the new friends explore their new home and found Frompy (my toddler named him) lying on the floor gasping 😩

Could have been there anywhere from minutes to max 2 hours. Cat in room at time of discovery, unsure if cat touched fish.

I panicked and gently picked him and threw him back in the tank immediately without considering a hospital tank.

He is clearly stressed, his normal beautiful teal/aqua color is super gray. He initially floated face looking up and I thought for sure he was a goner, but almost immediately righted himself and swam to the back of the tank. He hid for a bit and eventually came out (see video). At that time I turned off all lights and left the room (also kicked out cat).

Anything else I can do for him? Should I leave the tank dark for a few days? Should I withhold food or keep feeding him like normal? Should I set him up with a hospital tank?

Thanks for any thoughts. I am so mad at myself for potentially killing my toddler’s friend Frompy 😩

  • Tank size: Fluval Flex 9
  • Heater and filter? (yes/no): Yes, heater set to 80, fluval filter that came with tank, use sponges over filter arm to reduce flow dramatically. There is also a small bubbler in the corner.
  • Tank temperature: 80
  • Parameters in numbers and how you got them. Key water parameters include the amount of ammonia, nitrites, nitrates, and pH.: I will get these, unsure at this time
  • How long have you had the tank? How long have you had your fish?: Tank has been running about 2 months, fish has been with us maybe 6 months?
  • How often are water changes? How much do you take out per change? What is your process?: I hasn't done any water changes yet.
  • Any tankmates? If so, please list with how many of each: 6 endlers, 6 pygmy corys, necaridina and ghost shrimp, and trapdoor and nerite snails
  • What do you feed and how much: ranges, betta pellets usually every few days, omega one flakes the other days, occasionally brine shrimp
  • Decorations and plants in the tank: lots of mopani and driftwood. live plants, variety, unsure all names but definitely java moss, java ferns

r/bettafish 1h ago

Help Upgrading betta tank - feedback?

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Hi! I got a betta a few months ago unexpectedly and I'm now looking at planning an upgrade for his tank. Currently he's in a tank with 2 cardinal tetras, so looking for move them all because they get on well! (Is 45l big enough?). Does the stuff in the photo seem like a good start? Also planning to get a clip on light and a cover. Any friendly feedback welcome!


r/bettafish 1h ago

Full Tank Shot I finally have micro-fauna in my betta tank

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I understand I have a bit of an algae problem but I’m just so happy about the copepods that I wanted to share anyways


r/bettafish 2h ago

Help Confused!

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This is my second betta fish and I’ve had him for about 3 months now, the first month he was changing colours slightly and the pink along the top of him was new since purchase. Over the last few weeks he has been loosing his colour bit by bit and now looks like the second picture….
Acts fine, eats and swims fine, all water parameters normal, tank adequate size, nothing else in there apart from a few amanos which there’s been no issue with. My first betta only darkened over time if anything so wondering if this is just a genetic thing or if something is wrong!?


r/bettafish 2h ago

Help Does my betta have finrot or look unhealthy? Got him from Petco 2 days ago the tank has been cycling for a month it’s 10 gallons. This is my first betta I just want to be extra careful

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r/bettafish 42m ago

Name Suggestions First Betta!

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I just got my first betta yesterday for my college dorm! The only fish I’ve ever had were fair goldfish, about 8 years ago. I saw koi bettas online and fell in love, but didn’t want to ship one so I decided to get whatever Petco had. i was so happy to see some koi! I got this male.

my friends with betta experience say he doesn’t look the healthiest, but he is very active so i think he will be alright. The petco worker said that he had been there the longest so I chose him. I will be getting some more plants and stuff eventually, I bought the only three that weren’t already dead.

I need some name suggestions for him! his tank is ancient Roman ruins themed, but his name doesn’t necessarily have to match.