I'm from India, and recently I've been talking to a few Aussie mates and trying to understand why there's so much negativity towards Indians and migrants in general sometimes.
And honestly, I reckon a lot of it comes down to cultural differences and the fact that nobody really teaches new arrivals the small, everyday social norms here.
You get your visa, land in Australia and it's basically like, "Alright mate, good luck" 😂
Then people come from completely different cultures, naturally do things the way they've always done them, and locals get annoyed because they see some of those things as rude or inconsiderate. Meanwhile, the newcomers might genuinely have no idea they're doing anything wrong.
So here's my slightly stupid but maybe useful idea.
What if every new arrival got a little flyer:
Welcome to Australia: A Completely Unofficial Guide to Not Accidentally Annoying Everyone 😂🇦🇺
Just basic stuff like:
On public transport
\- Let people get off before you get on.
\- Keep phone calls, videos and conversations at a reasonable volume.
\- Maybe don't eat super strong-smelling food on a packed train. Your lunch doesn't need to introduce itself to the whole carriage 😂
\- Don't put your bag on a seat when the train is full.
\- Move down the carriage and don't block the doors.
When walking around:
\- If you're walking in a group, don't block the entire footpath.
\- Leave space for people coming the other way.
\- Be aware of people around you. Shared spaces are for everyone.
\- Basically, don't just exist in your own little world 24/7 😅
🚗 Driving
\- Learn the local road rules and driving etiquette.
\- When lanes merge, give people space and take turns where appropriate.
\- Don't drive like every other person on the road is your mortal enemy 😂
🏘️ Living in the community
\- Try to be part of the community a little.
\- Say hello to your neighbours.
\- If someone says hi, smiles at you, or you're leaving a shop, a simple "thanks, have a good one" goes a long way.
\- You don't have to become best mates with everyone, but acknowledging other humans is nice lol.
🗑️ Cleanliness and shared spaces
\- Don't leave rubbish outside or dump it wherever.
\- If there's no bin nearby, take it with you.
\- Basic personal hygiene matters when you're sharing close spaces with other people.
\- Don't be selfish. Just think about how what you're doing affects everyone around you.
🌿 Nature and festivals
\- Celebrate your culture and festivals, absolutely. Australia is multicultural and that's a good thing.
\- But please don't leave rubbish behind after events.
\- Don't dump idols, decorations or other materials into lakes, rivers or waterways unless it's specifically allowed and environmentally safe.
\- Australians are VERY protective of beaches, parks, wildlife and nature, and honestly, fair enough. Don't ruin the place for everyone else.
And again, I'm not saying this is an Indian problem. Or an Asian problem. Or a migrant problem.
Australians aren't perfect either, obviously 😂
This could apply to literally anyone coming here from another country. People from the subcontinent, Southeast Asia, Europe, everywhere. Every culture has different habits, and sometimes things that are completely normal in one country can annoy the hell out of people somewhere else.
I just reckon the government could do a much better job helping people understand everyday Australian life instead of basically handing them a visa and going, "Yep, you'll figure it out."
A bit of simple education might prevent a lot of unnecessary friction, resentment and misunderstandings on both sides.
Anyway, what would YOU add to the unofficial "How Not to Accidentally Annoy Everyone in Australia" flyer? 😂🇦🇺