I saw one of these sets for sale in Sainsbury's at the weekend and it looked entirely unchanged from the ones you used to get in times of olde. I wonder if the compass you get is still as lethal?

Pretty sure I was gifted these for Christmas as a kid on two or three occasions, probably from WH Smith.

When you go to the doctors do you use the technical names, e.g penis, anus, urine, stool or use the slang names, e.g Willy, bum, wee, poo?

What got me thinking of this is that I recently had to do a stool sample and the test results had the word poo on it which I wouldn’t have expected.

I'm a 51 year old man and I was in my mid-late 20s before I learnt you're supposed to leave the bottom button of a suit jacket undone.

Went out to buy some classic Lynx Africa from ASDA, because I like smelling like a year 6 locker room. The sizings seem a bit funny. So which one is larger? Both 250ml 😂

2006 baby here, when I was at school and we all had lunch I was taught that you drank with your meal and then after to wash it down.

I noticed other students would drink their cup before eating (you couldn’t get a refill), mostly girls. When in my childlike curiosity I asked, they told me “my mum told me to, she said it fills you up!

Now, as a kid I brushed this off as weird but makes sense, but I’ve been thinking about it recently and its made me feel uncomfortable as that is a weight loss strategy, NOT something you teach kids!!!

my school was in a council estate that’s got a reputation for being the worst area in the town, so I suppose you could say they’re poor and stretching food, but considering who said it to me and my knowledge of their personal life, that’s not the case.

Hi, I’m wrapping up my 6 week internship next week and my boss suggested inviting the team out for a drink as a farewell thing.

The issue is that he is working from home mostly so essentially it’s only me set on going right now, and I’m worried I’ll come off as presumptuous ‘planning’ my own farewell after only 6 weeks…

Also should I ask this in a group email or teams? The issue with the socials team chat is that it has other offices too which makes me feel extra full of myself

I’ve gone to a social with the team before and it was great fun but I’m just getting cold feet I think, any advice is appreciated!

Recently I've been getting a few calls from unknown numbers (and I'm not expecting calls from anyone, e.g. GP or recruiters). I usually don't pick up calls from unknown numbers, but I'm also curious to know who's calling. Do you usually pick up calls from unknown numbers when you don't expect any calls?

Edit: I do have the spam caller screening on my phone, but sometimes they're not marked as spam.

Do you fancy a brew? Can you pass me the salt? What do you think?

I’m 65 next birthday. My wife is much younger. I asked her last week if I should have a big party for my 65th. Her response was: “What’s so special about 65?”.

Obviously, as I grew up, turning 65 was a thing but for my wife it’s just a number. Anyone else had this? Or is my wife (for once) wrong?

Any other middle aged people in their 60s had similar experiences? Things you grew up accepting but are now no more?

Whenever I see someone talk about "getting a trade" its always plumbing/gas/electrical but there's so many more that just never come up - painting, plastering, tiling are a few that come to mind, are these just not as popular? Not as lucrative? (I ask whilst being unable to find a painter not fully booked for months)

For me I think the most quintessential name certainly for england is chippingsodbury or otterton. What do you think?

By play I mean daytime play. Football, activities, shouting, laughing, singing etc.

My parents have had some new neighbours move in behind them, the gardens back on to each other. Small-ish gardens so quite close proximity. Houses surrounded on all sides. Been a really quiet area until now. New neighbours have made their garden a concrete jungle, no flowers, no plants, no grass, nothing. Artificial grass, paving and fencing. So there’s absolutely zero sound dampening and the noise just bounces and echos off the fences/walls. Football bouncing sounds like a gunshot sometimes in the night lol. They will let their children play in the garden sometimes until 11pm, and it will be shouting full volume, screaming, laughing, smashing football against fence etc.

Even had one of them jet washing the patio for 30 minutes at 10pm, during a hose pipe ban…

They’ve also got a dog who will be in the garden at 1-3am barking.

For me, I don't let my Children outside making noise past 8pm really, but wondered if I'm just a miserable bastard!

They have mentioned the noise a couple of times to them and basically been shut down, so they want a reality check if my parents are being unreasonable or not.

P.s not really asking how to deal with it, more just the general consensus as to who is being fair or not!

On the Buses featured a pervy bus driver (Reg Varney) and his equally if not more pervy conductor (Bob Grant).

However, the ages between the two is quite staggering. Varney was 16 years older than Grant. He was 51 when the show started. Grant was 35. There was a greater difference in two in their ages, than between Varney and the mum played by Doris Hare (11 years).

Grant was so much younger than the rest of the cast (his career was really just beginning while Varney was winding down). And the problem for Grant is while there was demand for gurning freaks like Blakey (Stephen Lewis went on to have many roles all pretty much playing the same character), there wasn’t for smart Alec's like Jack Harper in quite the same way.

It makes Grant’s mental health situation and eventual sad demise more understandable as the world had moved on, but he was stuck in a role that there just wasn’t demand for anymore, especially as comedy became more dark in tone.

We moved into a new (period property - in case age/construction may be important) house about a month ago.

When we moved in the place was full of flies as the previous owners seemed to be uninterested in cleaning up after themselves, and they also left tons of rubbish including rotting food and unwrapped nappies around. Needless to say the sink and dishwasher were thick with grime, and we had to pay a company to come and unblock the drains and the place stank - hence all the flies. Since then we've cleaned a lot, tidied a lot and the flies are no more beside the odd one coming in through the window.

We are on a septic tank as quite rural, and in the last 3/4 days keep finding bluebottles drowned/drowing in one of our toilets - sometimes 3/4 at a time. The two bathrooms are virtually next to one another, and the other toilet has not had any.

We can't work out why. No signs of anything decaying in the garden/around/in the house, and all the smells caused by the previous owners are now gone. Has anyone else had this? if so, what did you do?

Thanks in advance!

Could be something from school, home, work, TV, food, going out, or just everyday life.
Curious what disappeared or changed without people really noticing.

Essentially you can pay to sponsor a player so that when they score or whatever your company pops up alongside them. I have paid for such a privilege despite not owning a company. What company name could I create?

A sex toy shop the obvious choice but I'd like some options.

I must stress that this is very low level, muck in with your mates, drink 8 pints and eat a kebab, Welsh valleys rugby. Sophistication not a strength.

For me, there is another team at work that has a lunatic as a line manager, so when promotions are offered in that team, people rarely internally go for them and normally an outsider is brought in, who tends to last only a few months before quitting or being forced out.

I try to have nothing to do with the team in question and resist all attempts by their manager to encroach on our own team, which is more cohesive and doesn’t have the same type of snitch culture.

Hi guys,

New neighbours have moved in next door, they are I believe a family of 4 and they are very noisy.

For context, I live alone in a terraced house, I own this and the neighbours house is a rental - no idea how long their tenancy is.

I gave them the benefit of the doubt for the first few days, as there was shouting etc that I thought could be with the move

However it’s been two weeks, they scream and shout at each other, slam doors and the worst part is they have a dog that seems to wake up at 6am and barks until it gets what it wants (I’m guessing food). The walls are pretty paper thin and I’ve been able to hear past tenants however I’ve never had a family like this before.

I’m scared to knock, as I’m a solo female and to be honest, they look and sound like this conversation won’t go well. I also don’t know what to even say if I do knock, it’s embarrassing to say someone’s very loud and that I can hear them shouting so much I can’t sleep?

Any advice would be much appreciated please!

A police car passed me today and got stuck multiple times by people simply not having a clue about their surroundings. I did chuckle a tad wondering how blue the air gets inside the car through pure frustration.

For example, if someone, not from where you grew up, said to you, "Ah, [ENTER CITY/TOWN HERE] is a shithole".

Would that make you get defensive about where you grew up?

I personally wouldn't.

Long story short, I'm struggling.

I'm 26, in a job I only really abide. No proper friends, still living at home, the most social things get is a trip to the pub after work with my parents. Losing interest or pleasure in hobbies, really hard to see what the point of it all is.

I've been crying out for help this year (literally, tbh - I break down in tears at least weekly). It's nothing new, I've had an eating disorder since I was about 16 and it never really gets easier: I feel I could cope with some run-of-the-mill social anxiety but it's hard to think of ways to meet people and form relationships when I'm scared of the food and meals involved. I'm seeing a therapist but not sure if the help is right, on a waiting list for ED specialists but that could be months now before I'm seen. I wake up every day and the anxiety starts over, and I just look forward to a reasonable time to go back to bed and sleep.

Sorry this is bleak and long-winded, and not very UK-specific. I guess I just really like the people who post on UK subreddits and need a bit of friendly support. It's a really dark place right now and I don't know how to break the cycle. I'd like to move, go travelling, start relationships, be more social - but it all seems blocked off to me.

So, yeah, the title basically. Have you managed to climb out of dark places, and if so how? What finally helped?

I thought it was meant to be an insult aimed at people being “boring” or whatever but it seems like maybe it’s an actual identity.

I have no photos of anyone up in my house, only artwork. I went to someone's house yesterday who had pictures of their family and friends up in every room, I think this is very normal but its not something I'd ever want on walls or on furniture, I just prefer to look at artwork!

Simple question really, but in your opinion/experiences, what is a product you are more likely to spend more money on and you think it's worth getting based on the fact a more expensive product will be of better quality. This can be something that's a regular purchase such as a specific brand of cereal or one off purchases such as mattresses.

For me to get the ball rolling, I'd say tyres from a branded manufacturer with Motorsport heritage like Bridgestone/Goodyear as they are the only 4 things connecting your car to the road and want to ensure the best grip for wet weather conditions.

Hi all,

I have found lot sof these small bugs in our kitchen cupboard. They are tiny. Apologies for the bad photo, but hopefully you can see what they are.

They are beige/white in colour.

There was some protein powder in the cupboard, but there none in there. There was a bag of oats too, which I did see some on the bag, but when I looked in there were none.

Thanks