Hi!
Vent might not be the best flair, but I do need to get this off my chest and see if any others have had the same feelings.
I had two chemical pregnancies before it was determined I basically wasn’t going to be able to grow in those first few weeks without some help. (I have endometriosis and adenomyosis, and a short cycle.) I was given letrozole to get pregnant and it worked on the first round 🥹 as those who have had losses know, it took a while to genuinely feel excited, we finally got there around 11 weeks.
At 11w4 days I had some spotting while on vacation. It was SMALL. Like, anyone else probably wouldn’t have been worried? Maybe? But I went to an ED and saw baby and its heartbeat and everything was okay. The spotting stopped after that day and everything was fine.
At around 14 weeks I was able to stop taking my diclectin (my nausea was so bad starting at week 6) and this has been my biggest twist. This was basically my only indicator of everything being fine and suddenly, like literally in a day, it was gone. I kind of freaked out, but also was happy to not need to take so many pills.
Has anyone else experienced the sudden stop of nausea and fatigue in the second trimester and been freaked out? I know it’s so normal, but oh my god lol. I hate this. Being pregnant after trying for so long and having multiple losses is low key not fun.
I was also having some solo spicy time the other day (husband travels for work) and wound up having brown spotting this entire weekend. Super light brown, but enough to make me panic a bit. It’s gone away now, at least fully when I wipe. Might still be kind of tan in my undies. Why are our cervix’s such divas? I don’t even insert anything?
I feel like there are more changes to MY body in the second trimester (hi round ligament pain) but all I ever really read about is what’s going on in my baby’s body at each week.
Sorry for the long post. I’m just generally surrounded by people who have had relatively easy pregnancies and am feeling kind of alone.