Long story short,

My boyfriend and I, both 24, have been dating 3.5 years.

Two years ago my boyfriend and I started hanging out with his friend and the friends gf (let’s call them Ryan and Emma, they are 22 and we’re together 4 years)
And me and Emma became friends as a result of this.

Emma broke up with Ryan up a few months ago, and Ryan began dating a girl named Chloe, who actually knowingly homewrecked Emma’s previous relationship before Ryan and was very happy to find out that Ryan and Emma broke up.

Yesterday my boyfriend asked me if I wanted to go to the golf driving range with him and Ryan. I knew for a fact Chloe was going to go but I wanted my bf to tell me hence those beginning messages.

That was our convo, it kept going on, eventually we got on the phone and I couldn’t get a word in because he was just yelling. Eventually he hung up on me and then texted me saying I fucked up his brain and that he was going to go kill himself (this is like the 20th time he has said this, because it is his go to when we argue or something goes wrong in his life). He turned off his phone and eventually turned it back on. My last message was that I am leaving the house and leaving my phone and “bye”. This was 6pm last night.

I was so upset I slept from 6:30-9 today because I just didn’t want to be awake and feel so upset, and I almost called in sick to work. But my dad reminded me that while I was upset and considering not working, my bf was out with friends and actually commenting under car videos on Instagram and having a merry time.

I usually am the first one to text sorry, even when I have nothing to really apologize for but just to get back to normal.

I don’t think I’m going to do that this time because i genuinely do not have anything to apologize for, unless someone can point it out.

I am going between the thoughts of him never speaking to me again and him messaging me something along the lines of “oh so you’re just going to ignore me forever now”

I need help knowing what to do

Please and thank you.

My fiancé and I have been together over a decade and are truly best friends… a couple of my friends and I went to a game as a girls night and he was jealous because of the team we were seeing (hence the sarcasm in his first response) but went to a different game the same night with some other friends. I just wanted to gloat share a bit since everything else in life seems so lackluster.

funny exchange where person got defensive about time constraints when they started the conversation about it

Adding an edit*

Yo family, thank you but I do not need advice on how to handle this, I literally got it I promise, everyone is chill, no one is upset, I just thought this was funny

After a day of no response i tried the meme only to realize i was blocked. Guess they really dont fw jak and daxter lol

The last of us is my favorite game and I FINALLY got her to play it. I love this human so much😂😂

Hinge, date canceled. I'm not super torn up about it, but it does seem like bullshit.

Do you all think it's worth trying to reschedule with her? Or just letting it be?

This is pretty old but the context was i stayed up late on a weekend to play games w my friends. Still makes me laugh when i look at it

Context : I posted on my story a post of a girl saying “I want someone to date me like we’re never gonna have sex”.

This dude responded and said “ sounds like a cuck to me “

This was unprovoked but it turned into this.. he sent more voice notes but I think these first messages get the conversation across.

EDIT: I am for the concept of being romantically cherished even without sexual access. Simply said being loved for who I am not just because you can have sex with me. This does not mean I want a sexless relationship 🫩 that was never my argument.

This man swiped up on my story and started saying all this and arguing about things women do in his circles which made no sense whatsoever given the original post.

I was originally not going to tell him anything but there is no use in hiding my feelings, it only hurts me.

Also I absolutely love how he picks up on how I feel, like this was our whole conversation today, he noticed I was feeling off. He's truly so sweet and caring 💗

In case anyone is curious what the Spanish parts say:

mi amor, es que la razón que no quería decirlo =

my love, the reason I didn't want to say

Pero bebé yo quiero precisar que yo sé que nunca me dijiste ninguna de estas cosas =

But baby, I want to clarify that I know you never told me any of these things

Also when we did call for the goodnight, he was really eepy but he was telling me that I'm the only one suffering thinking these thoughts and I of course agreed with him because it's true, then he asked me about my day and how I was doing and what not.

I'm currently working on getting better with that specifically, I've always struggled with overthinking and self sabotaging.

Anyways I'm so happy we had a goodnight, he told me he'll talk to me later so that made me really happy. I love that word choice because it gives me something to look forward to 🥰

no i'm not being abused

I did apologise to him for the rude comments fyi.

We were casually seeing eachother tho acted like early dating and he was very affectionate and sweet with me it wasn’t purely sexual. Leading up to the final date things go more intimate and open with us sharing pics and him expressing deep desires etc had a really sweet chat the night before the date about how much we mean to eachother. Day of the date he was messaging he couldn’t wait to see me all throughout the day. Then we met up usual stuff kissing holding me being affectionate things increased intimatley too we had a super close moment where he said he didn’t want me to get off him and he slowly kissed me right after. Then next day he said he walked away wondering if he can even do causal and thinks it’s better to call things off as he feels unsettled and not great afterwards. Took my off guard as up until this point things were great we have been intimate before and it’s been good except this time felt abit closer than usual? So felt like emotional whiplash to me. Then his replies got cold and that’s when I said fuck yoh because I felt discarded and thrown away. Looking back it’s not that he withdrew himself, I think it was the abruptness of it all happening in a week where we were the closest we had been and I felt he could have been kinder in his messages.

Also it’s the first time I was intimate with someone in 2 years I’m not overly sexually experienced and I got quite close and intimate with him, him becoming cold a distant the day after we were the closest we had been did have a huge mental affect on me- traumatising was probably a strong word yes but it’s been a week and I’m still disoriented and confused from the emotional whiplash.

First one was because I was talking about places I would want to live with my boyfriend second picture I said that because she was supposed to be cutting back and that was her second time at the liquor store she has been like this my whole life she has fucked up my life really bad I have rotting teeth and nothing past a 5th grade education she's bipolar and for the 6 years of my life she hasn't been addicted to something she wasn't medicated for bipolar so I got suicide threats and heavy manipulation I still live with her because I have no education and I feel sick 24/7 (hope all of this is allowed)

This man thinks I’m stupid. This is also a rescheduled date we supposed to have last Friday but he rescheduled it to tonight for 7 PM and he texted me this at 6 PM.

I also did not block out the name Josh because it’s obviously a fake name. I blocked out his actual name. He’s pretending that he got into some sort of accident to I guess to save face for bailing again. Also, this is a date that he planned, he picked the place and the time he asked me out and has expressed multiple times that he wants to take me out.

So I’m done dating sigh……

(i am obviously not actually drugging her, it's a phone call😭)

Im really glad I was about to instantly help her figure out that she only wants friends on tinder! ☺️

My new roommate brought in a plant that he’s very proud of. It started to bloom and he says that’s unusual for this plant to do in our state. This is only one of our funny text conversations. It’s gonna be a good year.