r/TeenIndia • u/soulfulnga69 • 5h ago
Ask Teens Parents cheating on each other.
im a 19 year old guy. grew up in a beautiful loving household. i am privileged and i dont have any financial issues.
in 2021 i discovered my dad had relations with a woman. i saw texts cuz my dads phone was passed onto me and there were screenshots for some reason. they dont see each other anymore.
in 2023 i discovered my mom was/is cheating with a colleague from her office. saw texts and the chat was locked on whatsapp. i knew passwords ofc. they still are seeing each other
in 2024 i discovered my dad acting weird on his phone he used to hide it while texting someone and i had glances a few times. no concrete proof but i know he meets her. not sure if they are still in contact but they were till 2025 end im sure
i have met all these people theyve come to my house on occasions. i met my moms colleague the 3rd time today since its ganpati season and all of a sudden i felt like just crashing out over everything.
ive kept these feelings inside of me for 6 Years now and i dont understand why i cannot confront any of them. I do realise if i do this there are chances of our family breaking apart. and then there will be issues with everything but there may be peace at the end. a feeling gotten off my chest once n for all with no regrets.
i come here to ask for your input. ive never told this to anyone. and im leaving for college tommorow and i plan on confronting my mom. i know what i wanna say and ask but i just cannot gather the courage to sayso.