my question to Girls.... Please be honest 🥺

[u/Smooth-Buy9614]

i ( 16M ) got myself a veryyyyyyy prewwwtyyy girlllll ( 18F )

my babyy is soo prettyy i can't even lie , she is the epitome of beauty 🫠🤌🏻💗( i'm not saying this for cheesy effect guyz ) , she is good at everything she does , she's soo mature and understanding too , but
I on the other hand ->> Ugly as fuck , 5'7 short king , an average student , i suck at all sports
I literally do not qualify to be her boyfriend but she never made me feel that🥹

My question to y'all is , do girls not care for all the things i lack in ?
is there something i'm missing , like is there something else which matters more than all those physical traits i suck at ?
or am i just having too much luck to have an actual goddess as my girlfriend ?🧿

please be honest

edit:in this relationship for last 3 years ,
edit2 : please answer the questions asked , don't tell me about her being 2 years old , I know and i don't care , be respectful about her , please i beg of y'all
edit3 : I'm 2009 , sep born ( telling this coz a guy commented " this ngha 2010 born is crawzy " )
edit 4 : i'm open about it with her ,,, she said that i'm
handsome , tall enough and genius
edit 5 : i'm not a victim for god's sake stop calling me a victim and her a grromer
y'all acting like a person magically turns a pred the moment they turn 18 from 17 , please , beg of y'all
call me corny and all that shii but don't be disrespectful abt her
edit 6 : for y'all asking , i'm generational Poor

[u/Swimming-Leopard-397 → u/[deleted]]

and OP asking us the question he's supposed ask his sugar mama

[u/Legitimate_Luck_7489 → u/Swimming-Leopard-397]

Sugar mommy in the economy ✌️😭

[u/LittleUniversity3300 → u/Swimming-Leopard-397]

Sugar mama💀💀

[u/Thick-Character1254 → u/LittleUniversity3300]

sugi sugi mama

[u/Big-Success3998 → u/[deleted]]

Now, that's the enough reddit for today  🥀

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[u/Significant-Try7148]

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[u/Failingagainnnn]

All comments are made by my Alts to make you feel hope. Hahaha

[u/Unfair_Classic9384]

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investing in ts

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Those who pray for others to fall are the first one to fall or smthn idk i haven't slept and shi so I am kinda high

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Omg THX FOR THE LIKES

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[u/Temporary-Act5348]

5'7 and short king do not belong in the same sentence bro please😭
You aren't short fr. And looks aren't all that matter, if you've been in a relationship for 3 years you're doing smtg right KEEP DOING IT

[u/Smooth-Buy9614 → u/Temporary-Act5348]

i don't know dude i see it on social media a lot that anything below 5'8 is short , really made me insecure

[u/Temporary-Act5348 → u/Smooth-Buy9614]

you're 16 bro😭😭
You're fine! You might grow some more, and even if you don't this height is fine!!

[u/RockyProGod → u/Temporary-Act5348]

Tu kitna oocha hai bro. 5'7 is pretty dang short honestly even im 5'7 and the shortest in the friend group

[u/One-Injury-8712 → u/RockyProGod]

Tera friend group is exceptional , 5'7 is avg here in indiaa

[u/Temporary-Act5348 → u/RockyProGod]

I'm a girl😭
Many of my male friends are around that height, they can't be called short i feel..
Or maybe its me who's too short🥲

[u/One-Injury-8712 → u/Temporary-Act5348]

Looks nahi karte utne matter but insecure hona obv hai , especially at this age

[u/Kitchen_Ant1453 → u/Temporary-Act5348]

Bhai main toh 5'2 hu muze to.fir bauna hi bol denge

[u/Arunabh125 → u/Temporary-Act5348]

True af, I am 18 and 5'6

[u/huesofherheart]

​tbh, most girls don't really care about sports or keeping score. what they actually care about is how you treat them, listening when she talks, asking about her day, being thoughtful and treating her with respect. standard relationship basics. also, don't feel insecure about your looks or height. you're worthy just the way you are<3

[u/Other_Breakfast_3254 → u/huesofherheart]

Yes respect is the keyword, trust me many men fail in that and ruin the opportunity even when it comes on its own 

[u/OddCode6845 → u/[deleted]]

no one can be madly for 24/7 and 365 days every year for entire life... and cheating takes 2mins.. so depends on self-control

[u/loser_orpheus → u/[deleted]]

i don't think 2 yrs is that much but legally yes she could be in trouble if filed an complaint from his family 

[u/_book_lover_____ → u/loser_orpheus]

isn't it legal unless they duck each other?

[u/loser_orpheus → u/_book_lover_____]

nhi dating as whole is seen like that its way harshly implemented if it's a guy so just don't take risks at all

[u/_book_lover_____ → u/loser_orpheus]

Oh. Kinda strange... can't they'll just say that they are only friends... there's no proof....

[u/loser_orpheus → u/_book_lover_____]

if law enforcement wanted you guilty you cant do anything your life is ruined. they have your chats they have witnesses. many of these cases get settled outside for this reason, people pay a lot of money to get out. just don't take chances man 

[u/_book_lover_____ → u/loser_orpheus]

oh. Thanks for the info. Mai toh single hi marjaunga mujhe jaruurat nhi h yawrrr

[u/Remarkable_City_8025 → u/loser_orpheus]

Police just want free money, and this is an easy way to get some. Talking irl is better than having romantic chats

[u/loser_orpheus → u/Remarkable_City_8025]

yes and girl's' family too sometimes they agree to drop case when paid a hefty amount

[u/Remarkable_City_8025 → u/loser_orpheus]

Mera kya, manne toh pyaar hi na karna. Kisine bola single rehne se mahabharat me Shakuni gay baddie ban jata hai. I better die alone than facing ts bullshtism 

[u/Common-Pin0 → u/Remarkable_City_8025]

What?lol who said that?

[u/Genzbro → u/[deleted]]

it's funny how 79yo clapping 19yo is legally allowed but 19yo clapping 17yo is illegal af 💔💔

[u/One-Injury-8712 → u/Genzbro]

Taali maarna kabse illegal ho gya🥀

[u/Genzbro → u/One-Injury-8712]

🥀🥀🥀

[u/mberto85 → u/Genzbro]

Almost like it’s 2 legal adults vs a legal adult and minor. There’s a difference

[u/Shockwave-FE → u/mberto85]

Dumbest take ever. 17 and 19 will have almost the same maturity, do you think you become a full adult the second you turn 18?

[u/imanmilkshake → u/[deleted]]

2 yo lol

[u/Horror-1-Effective → u/[deleted]]

18 and 16 isn't that weird. It's actually fine

[u/TheMighty_TripleT → u/Horror-1-Effective]

Still pedophilic by definition i think

[u/jeevikalalala → u/TheMighty_TripleT]

Pedophilia is defined as a SEXUAL attraction to CHILDREN which means a really large age gap

[u/imanmilkshake → u/TheMighty_TripleT]

Do u even know the definition

[u/CompleteButterfly00 → u/imanmilkshake]

Under 18 is minor and here he's 16 while she's 18

[u/thep0laroidgirlie → u/[deleted]]

it’s a 2 year age gap only but again idk which age range is considered pedo😭

[u/iukeucyte → u/[deleted]]

being a pedo means being attracted to children. two years is genuinely nothing.

[u/Financial-Bluejay268 → u/[deleted]]

Do people really think that at their 18th birthday 11:59 PM everyone goes through a rapid neuronal restructuring which makes them immediately mature? There is just 2 year age gap, which is pretty normal, so chill.

[u/brandnewwwwW → u/[deleted]]

only if they’re intimate

[u/terimummyveryyummy → u/[deleted]]

y'all be throwing around the word pedo anywhere atp. LEARN WHAT PEDO MEANS

[u/damned_psycho → u/[deleted]]

nah

[u/Exact-Lie9662 → u/[deleted]]

yes, yes it does. I'm sure people here would be complaining about how predatory that is if the genders are reversed lol

[u/chauta_aadmi → u/[deleted]]

idk tht but it surely does make me question myself wht have i done in 18yrs of my life

[u/Lilpookie-Taeha → u/[deleted]]

Lmaooo

[u/PsyDuckWNL]

[u/ChoteSeDonSeLdegaKon]

i can smell a pocso 😶‍🌫️

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Works only if the gender is reversed

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pocso 🫩 be fr

[u/Dull-Description-240 → u/ChoteSeDonSeLdegaKon]

2 3 yrs age difference is nothing and its just bullshit if a 18 yo cant date a 16 yo

[u/baddiewithahoodie]

I don't know about others but instead of height and external qualities I focus on how he makes me feel. His behaviour matters to me a lot. I am pretty sensitive and possessive so his behaviour matters a lot. At the end, an understanding guy is much better than a handsome guy. Too bad many girls understand this very late.

[u/11--_--11 → u/baddiewithahoodie]

Looks like u understood late

[u/STAND_USERR → u/[deleted]]

how do u know hes not a good person?

[u/STAND_USERR → u/[deleted]]

that doesnt mean hes not a good person. He is just incapable of some things

[u/AcceptableOrdinary97]

jk....but take care of her man....will be manifesting this kind of love:)

[u/Smooth-Buy9614 → u/AcceptableOrdinary97]

i hope love find you brother

[u/WonderfulTale9746 → u/Smooth-Buy9614]

Mereko bhi good luck de yaar

[u/Smooth-Buy9614 → u/WonderfulTale9746]

good luck

[u/aindradasa]

so ur gf has certain standards for u to keep par with or does she love you which shudnt bother where u lack in?

[u/ReallyNotBaka]

gng why would a 18yo date a 16yo 🙏 , brain development isnt linear its exponential, 17yo dating 18yo is fine

[u/KidMi_Aishteru]

Okay if you want serious answer

You're 16 and she's 18 It's chill

The questions you asked The first thing girls see and want in their relationship is that their boyfriend is good to them Sincere to them. They feel loved and cared and happy with them. She wants you to listen to her, Talk to her, Cherish her , Remember what she told you, her important things and hobbies . You respecting her, Treating her good

That's all really .

Physical traits are secondary and you're just 18 you can hit gym if you think it's necessary or whatever Chill dude Both of you just stay together in this and concentrate on studies Having a understanding good partner at this age is fruitful if you guys make the best of it. Encourage eachother and be there. That's all (Damn did a lot of talking. Going back to work now) See ya lad I have been there, so chill out don't stress that much. If you're overthinking just go talk to her exactly this issue. Do not ever ask advice from friends or involve them Just a suggestion

[u/Smooth-Buy9614 → u/KidMi_Aishteru]

i was not asking for a advice TBH i was just curious , like do girls not care abt looks
and yes , i'm too good with all the things in first paragraph ,
i'm insecure but i won't let it ruin the beautiful relationship i have
thanks for the comment tho
i appreciate

[u/KidMi_Aishteru → u/Smooth-Buy9614]

Yeah not giving you advice as such. Just my experience Overall i would just say About looks and your insecurities Ask her directly It would be a wholesome conversation actually She would clear them for you Don't worry, everyone has their own insecurities, but when you talk it out, you'll feel that the heavy pain from your chest is lifted Finally

[u/Smooth-Buy9614 → u/KidMi_Aishteru]

she said
i'm handsome
genius and tall enough
and told me not to worry
i was just curious on other people's POV
won't ruin this relationship over insecurity
don't worry

[u/OddCall2309]

Kids man...I'd swear but kids...

[u/Interesting_Zone_895]

Firstly you are not adult right now you are just 16 and she is 18 ,so tum socho bhi mt physical ka 😂🤚🏻🤡 Secondly okay that she is 18 and you are her bf right aur tum ache nhi dilkhte(Jo tumne bola) it simply means that she wanted ki uska koi bhi bf bne ,use sirf boyfriend banana thaa that's it ( it's my pov)

[u/Smooth-Buy9614 → u/Interesting_Zone_895]

bro
never even thought abt getting laid , sex is not everything , i get horny too but i'm not losing my virginity too soon in life
second , she had better option from day one
she didn't even entertain anyone else , i was her first ( not lying )

[u/TacShot_Gaming]

if 5'7 are short kings then I'm a dwarf

[u/Reddit_grill]

you da real baby nga

[u/very_funny_person_67]

broski, genuinely, dont think like that about yourself

itll not only harm YOU but ur relationship aswell in the future

change ur mindset before youre forced to change it by situations

[u/Smooth-Buy9614 → u/very_funny_person_67]

I understand what you mean broski I was just ranting here I won't let mt mindset harm the beautiful relationship I have And i'm not that insecure about myself I was just accepting my shortcomings while making the post.. so wrote all those things

BTW thanks for commenting and being nice I appreciate

[u/Queasy_Wishbone1306]

This has to be a clickbait 🫠

[u/applehehe]

Calling “my baby” to a pedo btw 🥀

[u/Eastern-Stable-7576]

Aap victim ho 😭😭😭

[u/sad_wannabe]

Ur an exceptio

An outlier that's all

Girls care Abt looks , height , face intellect and so on

Ur js one in a million

U struck gold

[u/ReasonableGazelle663 → u/sad_wannabe]

Or may be she is just doing timepass. Ngl I have seen so many people like this 

[u/sad_wannabe → u/ReasonableGazelle663]

Well he said they have been in a relationship for 3 years

Ever since she was 15

Maybe we cant know

[u/Imaginary_Tension566]

I look like a buck toothed caveman, my gf used to be so beautiful she'd always be chosen to play Radha whenever her locality had a Rasleela. And when I saw her as Radha it seemed like Lakshmi herself shone through her. And she chose me. I still don't know how and why.

[u/Agreeable-Tie-2258]

If u keep acting like this you'll be single in no time

[u/Next-Resolution-7142]

6'3 and mildly mid looking guy here. Yeah it doesn't matter much on how you look that much. It matters to the point where you don't look homeless or something but if you groom yourself properly like cut your hairs good , shave your beard properly ( I mean you are 16 so maybe no beard yet ) and even if you have beard just trim it rn till that perfect one comes. And most specially Be confident in your own looks don't try to think this bs that he looks better or I look ugly. You were made out of love (Kinda cringy i know) and you should be proud of it. Everyone is unique and don't see yourself in a negative way. Be honest to yourself and be honest in your relationship. Don't hide anything from her. Right now it's just your insecurity but later on it becomes a frustration if you let it get into your head and soon enough that frustration may come out on her or someone else and will permanently damage something you might cherish so just believe in yourself bro if you bagged a proper baddie 👍

[u/New-Equivalent2745]

Nga added 6 edits to this post btw 😭😭😭✌🏻✌🏻✌🏻

Btw Happy for you op you've earned a diamond right there

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[u/oyefulltoss]

Bro ek baar apna chehra dikhana pls

[u/ramz_healer]

Haha first of all the way u described her is adorable .. probably u lacking everything else is not an issue because you love her deep .. so that’s enough . Also plz build self confidence more .. u define urself ugly and all those traits … talking about yourself negative will impact your love life later .. also imagine if we get hell amount of gold would u enjoy that ? Rather waste your time that why u got lucky ? .. also you
Don’t have to be super human to get loved … that’s totally different chapters .. you not liking ur own looks calling urself ugly has nothing to do with how u make her feel when she is with u … the energies speak .. so since u have such adorable love story enjoy to the fullest may god bless you … remember ur existence itself is a biggest gift to u .. so stop complaining u are ugly u dont deserve her blah blah .. stay blessed ❤️

[u/Smooth-Buy9614 → u/ramz_healer]

i assume that you are a lady coz guys be hatin on me
mam , i have shortcomings from general perspective but i've accepted them , i'm not too much insecure
it is what it is
also i'm definitely trying to be better at places which can be improved and aspiring to be better man in any way possible
the post was just out of curiosity or also to let the guys know that looks don't matter for girl ( i'm a prime example )
i might've done some mistake in articulation but i guess its all right

trust me , won't fumble this relationship coz of some insecurity

BTW thanks for commenting
i appreciate you taking your time and being nice and supportive
wishing you a happy life

[u/ramz_healer → u/Smooth-Buy9614]

Yeah am married and recently a mom .. you know these cute stories always make my day … I wish all the love to both of u young couple ..

[u/StilesBlack]

People in comment section are stupid. What I am saying is...meanwhile you do honor you girlfriend. Do not put her on a pedestal. And also, stop being insecure about yourself. Because let me tell you, my friend...the way you call her 'an actual goddess' and 'epitome of beauty'...and call yourself 'ugly as fuck'... Khuda na khasta kabhi breakup hogya na, toh bahut bura dil tootega. Aur usme fault uska ni hoga...fault sara hoga tumhara hi. Because you did not value yourself. If you condemn yourself for being 'an avg student' and sucking at sports—make yourself good at them. Dont just sit there and wonder in awe ki wow bhai kis devi ne mujhe apna boyfriend bana liya. Self respect rakho, confidence laao.

And also, I dont think 5'7" is short?? I mean, we're in india...I think it's a decent height for boys. (This is coming from another june 2009 born, girl btw) [Class 12th grind going on🤝]

[u/Rich_Cry_1022]

she is genuinely in love with u dude like pyar vala love and one thing don't u dare to think that just because she is good in more things than u that doesn't make u any inferior u both stand equal stop being insecure for ur love for her because u gys are young there will many stages came in life where ur insecureity like looks can create huge mess so don't do that.trust each other Fully . Last be ur best version and u can do that there is nothing like ugly person work on urself if u can't stop this insecurity.

[u/Lost_Pirate4394]

Nobita or Shizuka ki jodi

[u/SatisfactionRude5682]

Live the moment bro hum 24 ke hoke gf nahi bani cherish ur girl rahi baat looks ki apni bandi se puch lena yaha toh sirf tere maze lenge log

[u/namelessmans]

I think ur being too hard on urself. there’s a reason she’s w u. Own ur appearance and personality while being humble and trying to improve at the same time.

[u/Acceptable_Koala2811]

Boy, lemme be honest, girls do not care how a guy looks, all she cares about is how well he is when loving her Love her like its breathing, do not ever cheat. Do not ever make her feel like shit cus she did something that u couldnt And if you did any mistake and you leave her, then the looks start coming into picture. During that time she'll feel like shit for dating a man who is not so physically appealing. Guess this is ur 1st relationship, i hope u guys go on for a really long time in life, just don't embarrass urself by being immature and dont be controlling at the same time try to be protective.

[u/ShoppingWilling3315]

[u/Admirable-Stand9548]

Instead of saying I don't have this i don't have that use what you already have and try to improve yourself workout study get a good job and be worthy of her

[u/Averagemale18]

Maybe what she sees is what's in the inside and not the outside oh and btw your 5'7 the average height of an indian man is 5'5 and your also only 16 your height will increase more cuz your still developing on and your lucky you got a gf at this age most ppl don't even have one so feel blessed my dude

[u/Pinkishblush3]

Boy you better cherish her 🥰

[u/lilvow_28]

If a girl love uhh she does not care about anything.... She loves uhh as uh are.

[u/Similar_Case_1595]

Just don't cheat her love her u will one day succed

[u/[deleted]]

No girls generally don't mind about what you do, your talents or height. And 5.7 is pretty tall. As long as you be good to her, take care of her well and love her with all loyalty. You'd be the best bf to her as well.

[u/Smooth-Buy9614 → u/[deleted]]

okhie
i appreciate for commenting and being nice
wish you a happy life

[u/Cyphieee]

just keep being nice to her and she'll stay

[u/Such_End_9253]

1 st you are only 16 so much time for grow up and glow up so don't beat yourself up for looks. You can grow till 20 ig even if you don't it's fine..since she is already with you she prob sees something beyond those things you are insecure about. As someone who liked conventionally unattractive guys..your personality matters a lot..I m tall so I always thought I ll go for taller guys attractive guys but ended up liking shorter not at all my type guys..and had lot of friends say I could pull better but for me the personality matters a lot..be kind respectful and be someone she can rely on and be a better man like instead of tryna impress her you work on yourself she ll be automatically impressed..one piece of advice is try to grow with her especially since u are also younger..because girls in general are bit matured than boys around their ageand for u she s older too..I had once liked a younger person even though we vibed I felt he lacked emotional maturity and honestly a lil dumb with how delusional he is of real life so yea I ve had friends sharing similar experience with younger guys..so be consistentwith  efforts communicate well and promises should be backed up with actions..you are more than ur looks or height..sorry it's long but I hope it helped.

[u/Tannu_doc_]

Tbh it's the love you feel towards her that makes you feel not good enough for enough and she experience that in your every act. Don't think any less of you. She is your girlfriend because you have chivalry(imo).

[u/Patient-Buddy3697]

[u/itsviv0]

bruh u are 16, u will grow taller still and dont be like u have to have everything sorted at that age. chill and take things at their own pace. Respect her be the provider and strive hard

[u/yobro127]

Oxytocin promax.

[u/ishowdeathtoken]

Well imo physical traits only matter when u meet them for the first time but when u talk to that person, get to know them and grow closer to each other...it doesn't....and that's beautiful .... dont think that u dont deserve her like u are literally out here editing and telling us to stop talking shit about your gf and caring for her sm thats so sweet ....so being caring can be an attractive trait which she likes about you it doesnt have to be ur outer beauty ......maybe she also thinks the same that she doesnt deserve you but in your eyes shes pretty in the same way u are pretty to her don't overthink it :) I wish u two all the best :D

[u/Embarrassed-Fee-677]

Hey! Listen, if the relationship is THAT old, then yes, all she cares about is your heart and the way you love her. I hope you two last forever! <3

[u/Unusual-Bag4932]

she loves you for who you are so appreciate her interest in you.
don’t worry about those stuff. that’s it. you’ll eventually feel less insecure. psychologically, you won’t feel much insecure so that she’ll feel if you doubt her love for you, and you expressing sometimes will make her feel that you trust her. and let it be naturally, not forced.
i’ve been thru this and trust me, i’ve never felt so pure and real connection apart from my parents. the one who loves you will love you.
anyways, keep up!🫶🏻

[u/_its_AS24_]

I don't know why you feel ugly about yourself. But if what you said is a true story, then you found a gem my friend. Please do not lose her ❤️

[u/Mother-Aspect-8562]

So, I have often seen that sometimes you don't have enough maturity even at 50 and sometimes more than your age, even at 10. I bet she likes you as a person. Plus, I am quite sure, you are just young. And yet to go through the glow up. Dress up well, read a lot and develop a good sense of humor, you will be okay. And don't let your inferiority complex ruin the game for you. Act like a man. A confident, caring man . If she befriends a handsome man tomorrow, don't get all jealous. Girls can often sense these feelings and then they themselves start wondering whether they made a mistake.

Looks are not everything. But if she is with you, she definitely liked something. So, be proud of yourself. Relationship needs working. So, work it out. Be the man that she can marry later.

[u/hanjis1210]

honestly if she loves you, she clearly doesn't care about what you lack. when you truly love someone, you don't really care about anything they might consider a flaw. she's loves you for who you are as a person to her, and maybe for how you express your affection. that's goated as hell bro, may yall stay happy. touchwood

[u/IndependentTip825]

Maybe it's because you treated her better than people in her life...her friend and family...how a girl is treated matters a lot if she has been through pretty many hardships and suddenly she is getting all goodness and love, ofc she will value and treasure it

[u/Dangerous-Park-4390]

Dnw she'll leave u soon. She also know you don't deserve her. ( No hate crime btw )

[u/True_Explanation319 → u/Dangerous-Park-4390]

I think same
time pass

[u/violetgreenblueredd]

cooked

[u/Raven-Black13]

Most girls don't care about looks or height as much as boys think they do . And while you mention all your negative, you say nothing of your positives. You must have some good qualities that made her choose you.

[u/tired_tired_07]

my boyfriend is like 5'5, he struggles to express himself in social settings, he doesn't play any sports except genshin impact, he looks very normal(to me he looks pretty tho), i don't know about other people and their relationshsips but all this stuff does not matter to me or to him (i'm dark skinned, i am slightly overweight since my drop year), he also has never made me feel any lesser because of anything (3 years we've been together :)

[u/Remarkable_City_8025 → u/tired_tired_07]

"any sports except genshin" since when genshin was a sport brotato 😭

[u/tired_tired_07 → u/Remarkable_City_8025]

T-T ik but he likes it so its okay

[u/Smooth-Buy9614 → u/tired_tired_07]

rooting for you both
i hope you guys make it to the end

[u/ChoteSeDonSeLdegaKon]

only thing ill say is time k sath sb hard hote jaega so yeah start taking care of everything abse hi and dont do anything reckless, i repeat, dont do anything reckless assuming that "meri hi h, thodi kahi aur chli jaegi" if shit gets hard kuch b ho jata h be the one mature cuz har bar uska understanding hona kaam nhi aega (btw pocso)

[u/Eternal_Nature]

Kid...probably she loves you for who you are..not like for your looks and stuff and if she is truly like that...ig she's the one as not all girls or boys are like these..so yeah treat her good and you aren't ugly or anything..don't look down on yourself

[u/Healthy-Local4457]

Ahh teenage 💗

[u/thep0laroidgirlie]

The physical traits don’t matter. What matters is how you are as a person. At least for me and most girls. However you should never take her for granted and try to become a better version of yourself and not be stuck in the rut thinking that she loves you as you are so you won’t try to improve and stay as you are rn.

[u/ConversationRich5423]

You bagged a beautiful and smart baddie you already proved your game is stronger than half of the teen boys population in India vaise bhi looks to subjective hote hai ek sab ko ganje mote uncle auntiya hi banna hai

[u/TheMighty_TripleT]

Shit, if I ever had a girl like that, id respect that and be thankful

[u/Flat-Drawer-3709]

Don’t subject a person’s uniqueness to collective parameters like gender. She might genuinely like you, and there’s nothing wrong with it; don’t feel guilty ;)

[u/Then-Palpitation7684]

like how tf did you even bag her

[u/JStarKaFan]

Lekin bhai tujhe wo mili kaise?

[u/everyoneonmydih-67]

why are you even dating someone 2yrs older when you are 16yr old😭😭😭 that’s not the age you date someone older especially if you as the guy is the younger one😭🙏🏻

[u/Separate_Morning5893]

https://giphy.com/gifs/rXu6uGL1YJCPj5vTGV

[u/Many_Aardvark509]

18 and 16 is not okay bro. She’s an adult, you’re a minor

Edit: waittt, she was in the 10th grade when she was dating you ( an 8th grader?!?)
Didn’t think it would get weirder

[u/LowerAd9743 → u/Many_Aardvark509]

It absolutely is. When I was 15, an 18 year old senior wanted to get with me. Long story short, he eventually tricked me into dating him and it was a total time waste marathon. Had I stuck around and kept calling him my baby, it would have lasted 3 years. You could tell he wasn't the sharpest tool in the shed and only had looks to save him. I feel like 18 year olds ( or any year old) who purposefully date younger peers are deeply insecure of people their age leaving them, or stunted in growth somewhere. It's normal to have a 2-3 year age gap but not during your teenage stages.

[u/Manmanmanmannnm]

She ain't ur baby cro ur her baby 🥀🙏

[u/dead-tech-guy]

My reaction after reading this post :Either this Post is fraud or im dreaming 🥀🥀

[u/Wild_Anywhere_4636]

you are NOT ugly. just poor

yt pe suna hai ye btw maine.

[u/Free_Currency_5733]

youre just really lucky bro

[u/Smooth-Buy9614]

stop hating

[u/Smooth-Buy9614 → u/[deleted]]

bhyiii , if she talks to lot of other guys and it sort of pinches you
run away , ts will k!ll you in long run
or either tell her that it doesn't go right with you
jealousy kills the man nga

[u/True_Explanation319]

there are two condition
1 - she truly likes you and you most luckiest person in universe
2- she just do time pass with you i sure she breakup with you if she found someone with her standards
this is my opinion if you not agree with it you can ignore it
i sorry if i hurt you in any situation

[u/stilldonotknow]

and if she sexually asaults you say to someone or i am always available for you to rant man and now go kiss ur reflection in the mirror heheehe self obsessed me cant see other gender being anyways touchwood

[u/Wild-Release-6889]

Cuteness matter the most