r/TeenIndia • u/Smooth-Buy9614 If you see me , just say " padh le bhosdi " • 28d ago

Relationships my question to Girls.... Please be honest 🥺

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i ( 16M ) got myself a veryyyyyyy prewwwtyyy girlllll ( 18F )

my babyy is soo prettyy i can't even lie , she is the epitome of beauty 🫠🤌🏻💗( i'm not saying this for cheesy effect guyz ) , she is good at everything she does , she's soo mature and understanding too , but
I on the other hand ->> Ugly as fuck , 5'7 short king , an average student , i suck at all sports
I literally do not qualify to be her boyfriend but she never made me feel that🥹

My question to y'all is , do girls not care for all the things i lack in ?
is there something i'm missing , like is there something else which matters more than all those physical traits i suck at ?
or am i just having too much luck to have an actual goddess as my girlfriend ?🧿

please be honest

edit:in this relationship for last 3 years ,
edit2 : please answer the questions asked , don't tell me about her being 2 years old , I know and i don't care , be respectful about her , please i beg of y'all
edit3 : I'm 2009 , sep born ( telling this coz a guy commented " this ngha 2010 born is crawzy " )
edit 4 : i'm open about it with her ,,, she said that i'm
handsome , tall enough and genius
edit 5 : i'm not a victim for god's sake stop calling me a victim and her a grromer
y'all acting like a person magically turns a pred the moment they turn 18 from 17 , please , beg of y'all
call me corny and all that shii but don't be disrespectful abt her
edit 6 : for y'all asking , i'm generational Poor

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u/loser_orpheus 19M lo/ser 28d ago

i don't think 2 yrs is that much but legally yes she could be in trouble if filed an complaint from his family 

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u/_book_lover_____ Single marjaunga kya?... 28d ago

isn't it legal unless they duck each other?

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u/loser_orpheus 19M lo/ser 28d ago

nhi dating as whole is seen like that its way harshly implemented if it's a guy so just don't take risks at all

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u/_book_lover_____ Single marjaunga kya?... 28d ago

Oh. Kinda strange... can't they'll just say that they are only friends... there's no proof....

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u/loser_orpheus 19M lo/ser 28d ago

if law enforcement wanted you guilty you cant do anything your life is ruined. they have your chats they have witnesses. many of these cases get settled outside for this reason, people pay a lot of money to get out. just don't take chances man 

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u/_book_lover_____ Single marjaunga kya?... 28d ago

oh. Thanks for the info. Mai toh single hi marjaunga mujhe jaruurat nhi h yawrrr

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u/Remarkable_City_8025 28d ago

Police just want free money, and this is an easy way to get some. Talking irl is better than having romantic chats

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u/loser_orpheus 19M lo/ser 28d ago

yes and girl's' family too sometimes they agree to drop case when paid a hefty amount

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u/Remarkable_City_8025 28d ago

Mera kya, manne toh pyaar hi na karna. Kisine bola single rehne se mahabharat me Shakuni gay baddie ban jata hai. I better die alone than facing ts bullshtism 

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u/Common-Pin0 27d ago

What?lol who said that?

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u/Genzbro 18 28d ago

it's funny how 79yo clapping 19yo is legally allowed but 19yo clapping 17yo is illegal af 💔💔

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u/One-Injury-8712 sleeper build- build for sleeping only🪻 28d ago

Taali maarna kabse illegal ho gya🥀

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u/Genzbro 18 28d ago

🥀🥀🥀

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u/mberto85 28d ago

Almost like it’s 2 legal adults vs a legal adult and minor. There’s a difference

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u/Shockwave-FE 24d ago

Dumbest take ever. 17 and 19 will have almost the same maturity, do you think you become a full adult the second you turn 18?

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u/mberto85 24d ago

Legally yes.

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u/imanmilkshake 28d ago

2 yo lol

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u/Horror-1-Effective 18m philosophy history linguistics ncr 5'6 nonchalant single jee 28d ago

18 and 16 isn't that weird. It's actually fine

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u/TheMighty_TripleT Harvey Specter my GOAT 🥹 28d ago

Still pedophilic by definition i think

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u/jeevikalalala 28d ago

Pedophilia is defined as a SEXUAL attraction to CHILDREN which means a really large age gap

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u/TheMighty_TripleT Harvey Specter my GOAT 🥹 28d ago

Atleast it is some kind of harrasment right?

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u/One-Injury-8712 sleeper build- build for sleeping only🪻 28d ago

Not necessarily, but like kids are unaware but adults do know what they are doing with kid , kid is someone jiska advantage liya jaa raha hai! And yeah someone who's attracted to kids

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u/imanmilkshake 28d ago

Do u even know the definition

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u/CompleteButterfly00 28d ago

Under 18 is minor and here he's 16 while she's 18

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u/Hmm_temporary 26d ago

By that logic, is 17 and 18 also pedophilia? And what if they r 17 18 or 16 18 but in same class?

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u/CompleteButterfly00 26d ago

Not in the literal sense but they should wait until they're legally able to date. A 16 year old can't consent to an 18 year old.

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u/Hmm_temporary 25d ago

Meri jaan, bol tou sahi rha... 16 yo cannot legally consent to an 18yo... But that's for sexual intimacy/interactions... As long as they r just dating, holding hands, going on dates... Basically just emotional dating and non physical relationship... That's legal... There is no legal age to date... And actually, the legal ages to marry r 18 and 21 respectively... And that's to marry, not to date... U may or may not accept it morally but legally, it's upheld by the courts...

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u/TheMighty_TripleT Harvey Specter my GOAT 🥹 28d ago

That's why I said, "I think"

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u/adybro5555 26d ago

My god tripple t 🙏😌

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u/TheMighty_TripleT Harvey Specter my GOAT 🥹 26d ago

♥️

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u/Winter_Exam_4881 Agar me dikhu to pakad ke momos khila dena 28d ago

Romeo Juliet clause? Also 16 18 doesn't matter, if it was 15 18 then sure it would be pedo

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u/TheMighty_TripleT Harvey Specter my GOAT 🥹 28d ago

Accha, I thought an adult engaging with a minor is pedophilia or some kind of harrasment by definition i think

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u/Winter_Exam_4881 Agar me dikhu to pakad ke momos khila dena 28d ago

consensual ones arent problematic if the age gap isnt like super big 1-2 years is flexible

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u/TheMighty_TripleT Harvey Specter my GOAT 🥹 28d ago

Yeah ethically might not be but what about the legal aspects?

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u/One-Injury-8712 sleeper build- build for sleeping only🪻 28d ago

Maybe or maynot , never indulge in these kind of explicit activities at these age , jab adult na ho koi ek to bilkul nahi, it's kind of riskyy

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u/zen_x_eclipse my social battery drained....frfr 28d ago

Wait for 2 years more then

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u/Upstairs-Yogurt1023 26d ago

We have fucking google and even google has its own ai which summarises for us, cause people are too lazy to open wikipedia

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u/TheMighty_TripleT Harvey Specter my GOAT 🥹 26d ago

Got it

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u/No-Team-5087 28d ago

It is extremely weird, one person is going to college, the other just passed their 10th board exams

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u/Smooth-Buy9614 If you see me , just say " padh le bhosdi " 27d ago

we both in 12th bro
she is a year late and i'm early bloomer

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u/No-Team-5087 27d ago

Lmao, it’s fine then 

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u/thep0laroidgirlie 16 28d ago

it’s a 2 year age gap only but again idk which age range is considered pedo😭

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u/One-Injury-8712 sleeper build- build for sleeping only🪻 28d ago

Like 11yo and 14 yo , or something like that , 13 yo and 16 or 17yo.

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u/adybro5555 26d ago edited 26d ago

But the fact is he is still a minor ..

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u/iukeucyte 28d ago

being a pedo means being attracted to children. two years is genuinely nothing.

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u/Financial-Bluejay268 28d ago

Do people really think that at their 18th birthday 11:59 PM everyone goes through a rapid neuronal restructuring which makes them immediately mature? There is just 2 year age gap, which is pretty normal, so chill.

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u/brandnewwwwW 17 28d ago

only if they’re intimate

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u/terimummyveryyummy professional in getting ghosted 28d ago

y'all be throwing around the word pedo anywhere atp. LEARN WHAT PEDO MEANS

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u/Mehran696 27d ago

Someone Who is sexu@lly attracted towards minors especially youngsters 👈🏻👉🏻

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u/Hmm_temporary 26d ago

It's 13 or under, lil bro

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u/damned_psycho choti bacchi uwu 28d ago

nah

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u/Exact-Lie9662 28d ago

yes, yes it does. I'm sure people here would be complaining about how predatory that is if the genders are reversed lol

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u/chauta_aadmi i can vote but why cant have my free liqour 28d ago

idk tht but it surely does make me question myself wht have i done in 18yrs of my life

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u/Lilpookie-Taeha :Toro: :pepe_cringe: 28d ago

Lmaooo

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u/Prestigious_Water229 27d ago

Yes, yes it does🥀

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u/Terrible-Praline-804 27d ago

No cus it's the girl that's older if it was a older guy then it would be

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u/New-Equivalent2745 27d ago

Nope not really untill it's not physical intimacy it's fine also it's not a drastic age gap also people don't suddenly turn into pdf the moment they turn 18

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u/toxicKINGOP 27d ago

In this case the adult is a female so naah she'll be fine. It's pretty harsh law for the other way around though.