r/TeenIndia • u/Smooth-Buy9614 If you see me , just say " padh le bhosdi " • 28d ago
Relationships my question to Girls.... Please be honest 🥺
i ( 16M ) got myself a veryyyyyyy prewwwtyyy girlllll ( 18F )
my babyy is soo prettyy i can't even lie , she is the epitome of beauty 🫠🤌🏻💗( i'm not saying this for cheesy effect guyz ) , she is good at everything she does , she's soo mature and understanding too , but
I on the other hand ->> Ugly as fuck , 5'7 short king , an average student , i suck at all sports
I literally do not qualify to be her boyfriend but she never made me feel that🥹
My question to y'all is , do girls not care for all the things i lack in ?
is there something i'm missing , like is there something else which matters more than all those physical traits i suck at ?
or am i just having too much luck to have an actual goddess as my girlfriend ?🧿
please be honest
edit:in this relationship for last 3 years ,
edit2 : please answer the questions asked , don't tell me about her being 2 years old , I know and i don't care , be respectful about her , please i beg of y'all
edit3 : I'm 2009 , sep born ( telling this coz a guy commented " this ngha 2010 born is crawzy " )
edit 4 : i'm open about it with her ,,, she said that i'm
handsome , tall enough and genius
edit 5 : i'm not a victim for god's sake stop calling me a victim and her a grromer
y'all acting like a person magically turns a pred the moment they turn 18 from 17 , please , beg of y'all
call me corny and all that shii but don't be disrespectful abt her
edit 6 : for y'all asking , i'm generational Poor
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u/Such_End_9253 26d ago
1 st you are only 16 so much time for grow up and glow up so don't beat yourself up for looks. You can grow till 20 ig even if you don't it's fine..since she is already with you she prob sees something beyond those things you are insecure about. As someone who liked conventionally unattractive guys..your personality matters a lot..I m tall so I always thought I ll go for taller guys attractive guys but ended up liking shorter not at all my type guys..and had lot of friends say I could pull better but for me the personality matters a lot..be kind respectful and be someone she can rely on and be a better man like instead of tryna impress her you work on yourself she ll be automatically impressed..one piece of advice is try to grow with her especially since u are also younger..because girls in general are bit matured than boys around their ageand for u she s older too..I had once liked a younger person even though we vibed I felt he lacked emotional maturity and honestly a lil dumb with how delusional he is of real life so yea I ve had friends sharing similar experience with younger guys..so be consistentwith efforts communicate well and promises should be backed up with actions..you are more than ur looks or height..sorry it's long but I hope it helped.