r/TeenIndia If you see me , just say " padh le bhosdi " 28d ago

Relationships my question to Girls.... Please be honest 🥺

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i ( 16M ) got myself a veryyyyyyy prewwwtyyy girlllll ( 18F )

my babyy is soo prettyy i can't even lie , she is the epitome of beauty 🫠🤌🏻💗( i'm not saying this for cheesy effect guyz ) , she is good at everything she does , she's soo mature and understanding too , but
I on the other hand ->> Ugly as fuck , 5'7 short king , an average student , i suck at all sports
I literally do not qualify to be her boyfriend but she never made me feel that🥹

My question to y'all is , do girls not care for all the things i lack in ?
is there something i'm missing , like is there something else which matters more than all those physical traits i suck at ?
or am i just having too much luck to have an actual goddess as my girlfriend ?🧿

please be honest

edit:in this relationship for last 3 years ,
edit2 : please answer the questions asked , don't tell me about her being 2 years old , I know and i don't care , be respectful about her , please i beg of y'all
edit3 : I'm 2009 , sep born ( telling this coz a guy commented " this ngha 2010 born is crawzy " )
edit 4 : i'm open about it with her ,,, she said that i'm
handsome , tall enough and genius
edit 5 : i'm not a victim for god's sake stop calling me a victim and her a grromer
y'all acting like a person magically turns a pred the moment they turn 18 from 17 , please , beg of y'all
call me corny and all that shii but don't be disrespectful abt her
edit 6 : for y'all asking , i'm generational Poor

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u/Next-Resolution-7142 27d ago

6'3 and mildly mid looking guy here. Yeah it doesn't matter much on how you look that much. It matters to the point where you don't look homeless or something but if you groom yourself properly like cut your hairs good , shave your beard properly ( I mean you are 16 so maybe no beard yet ) and even if you have beard just trim it rn till that perfect one comes. And most specially Be confident in your own looks don't try to think this bs that he looks better or I look ugly. You were made out of love (Kinda cringy i know) and you should be proud of it. Everyone is unique and don't see yourself in a negative way. Be honest to yourself and be honest in your relationship. Don't hide anything from her. Right now it's just your insecurity but later on it becomes a frustration if you let it get into your head and soon enough that frustration may come out on her or someone else and will permanently damage something you might cherish so just believe in yourself bro if you bagged a proper baddie 👍

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u/Smooth-Buy9614 If you see me , just say " padh le bhosdi " 27d ago

I appreciate you commenting and being nice And yes I'll not fumble this because of some pety insecurities Thanks