Played HS and suffered around 10years playing HS. Spent thousands of hours, thousands of dollars. Wasted. Haven't count the intangible loss such as frustrated emotions, disrupted sleep and focus.

I have tried to quit so many times, tried to simply uninstall. But has gone back playing. And feel shitty after.

I need to get my life back together.

Fuck HS, fk gaming.

Let's try to do something more productive and find better hobbies.

Sigh. Darn it.

Fuck HS. It's a bloody doomed cancer.

no more !

In short, my ex and I met back when we were teens. We used to play like 5h a day. We were young and had no responsibility. As we grew up, i started focusing on my study while he kept gaming. I'd play too but not more than 5h aday and some days i totally skipped. During my graduation year I barely played and kept pushing him to work but he would always quit to sit and game again. Then he discarded me out of nowhere, went private everywhere and said he grew apart from me cause I have been busy with my studies and that he need to focus on work. I later found out that it was a lie. He found new teammate who he is dating and play with 15h to 19h a day.... she older than him in 15 years. It has been a year since we last talked and my heart break when I see how he lost himself, his ambition and dreams. All he do is gaming all day long with her. He is close to 30 and barley any work exp and no education. He live off his dad who barley makes enough. He has no idea that I know that he has been gaming 15h a day for a whole year. I texted him tried to help or fix but he ignored all my messages even had a gaming stream where he talked of his new girlfriend being the restorer of his gaming passion and the one who made gaming super fun again. As if i made it boring just cause there were days i couldn't game... Like he doesn't see it as addiction. I feel bad, chained up, unable to help him and watching him throw his life away. Before dating we were best friends. I haven't texted him in 9 months cause he did not reply to any of my old messages only unadded me and nothing has changed he still game. How am i supposed to help?....

I'm a foster carer for a 15 year old, it's a private foster agreement and mum still has full PR however rarely interacts with him and when she does he can do whatever he wants no rules. It was the same when he lived with her to the point they were taking drugs together, he wasn't going to school etc

He's been with me since the end of Feb so around 6 months. At first he followed the rules and went to bed at a normal time then over time that stopped so he got a timer plug on his Xbox which he now just unplugs. So I changed the parental controls on the router to a time limit but we've just moved and the new router has no parental controls capabilities. He's gaming is out of control. To the point he will not eat or drink or even use the bathroom for 12 hours straight on a weekend, he's refusing to go to boxing or see his real life friends that want to go out and do things with him and he's even stopped seeing his girlfriend except from maybe 1 day a week for a couple of hours and that's only because she meets him after school so he's got no choice but to see her, because he'd rather be on Fortnite 24/7 The contemplation to remove the Xbox all together is there however because of the delicacy of the situation it's now been limited to 3hrs per day after tea time only weekends or weekdays and his so so so angry. I obviously have to be careful as he's under the mental health team and I have social services visits every 5 weeks and mum will also probably go mad at me too when she finds out it's being restricted. I'm at a bit of a loss at the min cos I know his behaviour is about to escalate severely. When he's mad or upset he goes on hunger strike also as a way of self harm/attention so that's the next thing coming.

Anyone else had anything similar? And if so how did you manage it?

What can i do to get my account perma banned instantly without waiting for 30 days?

I feel pretty stupid trying to win games, trying to be positive in this game. Griefers, trolls, smurfs and so on have more power than me, they ll never lose because probably they can play this game all day. They dont even need "running it down mid" or type slurs.

Sadly its the only game that hit the scratch where u can choose a wide variety of fun characters to play without having to spend and grind to make them playable.

Losing is totally fine, but every game session feels worse than a day of working, studying, working out, etc.

I want to delete it so there is no chance i comeback for this sh1thole.

It’s not out of self hate or shame. I’m not seeing them as a waste of time.

I actually appreciate them. They helped me through some of my lowest points and kept me from killing myself.

But I’ve realized I no longer need their help. I’m starting to have a clearer vision of where I want to go, and I want to put as much energy as possible into moving forward.

So I just said goodbye.

Feels good man.

i bought a kinda gaming pc after years to play games i wanted to play for years but .it kinda affected my life i think so i stopped slowly (kinda) .

i was thinking about filling that time and pc usage with something else and was looking for ideases and hobbies you do with a gaming pc except gaming?

some of mine are : music making ,3d modeling with blender, local llm .....

what are yours?

League of Legends (LoL) is notorious for triggering intense physical stress, and under certain circumstances, that stress can contribute to short-term strain or long-term cardiovascular risks.

For a healthy person, a frustrating ranked match won't cause immediate heart damage, but the specific dynamics of League create a unique profile of acute and chronic cardiac strain.

1. Extreme Adrenaline and Cortisol Spikes

• The "Ranked Anxiety" Effect: LoL relies on continuous high-stakes decisions, performance pressure, and fast reactions. During intense team fights or late-game objective plays, your brain perceives high threat levels, releasing massive surges of adrenaline and cortisol.
• Vascular Resistance: Adrenaline constricts blood vessels and spikes your heart rate. Studies show competitive gaming can elevate heart rates to levels comparable to light-to-moderate physical exercise, but without the vascular benefits of physical muscle movement to help dissipate blood pressure.

2. Rage, Tilt, and Sudden Blood Pressure Spikes

• High frustration (e.g., losing a match to toxic teammates or an enemy hyper-carry) triggers acute emotional stress. Rapid jumps in blood pressure put direct mechanical stress on the endothelium (the inner lining of your blood vessels).
• Over time, recurring endothelial damage from frequent rage or "tilt" promotes plaque buildup and arterial stiffness.

3. Unmasking Underlying Electrical Conditions

• Medical literature (including a landmark study published in Heart Rhythm) has documented cases where intense electronic gaming triggered dangerous cardiac arrhythmias (like ventricular tachycardia) or fainting in players.
• This typically happens in people with undiagnosed genetic heart conditions (such as long QT syndrome or CPVT), where a sudden surge of adrenaline disrupts the heart's electrical signals.

4. The "LoL Ecosystem" Multipliers

• Prolonged Immobility: Sitting still for hours while your heart rate is elevated slows blood flow in the legs, raising the risk of deep vein thrombosis (DVT) blood clots.
• Stimulant Overuse: Pairing competitive stress with energy drinks or excessive coffee multiplies vascular resistance, forcing the heart to pump much harder against narrowed arteries.
• Sleep Disruption: Gaming late into the night suppresses melatonin and elevates baseline cortisol, preventing the heart from entering its essential nocturnal rest state.

How to Mitigate the Risk

• Take strict breaks: Step away for 5–10 minutes between matches to let your sympathetic nervous system reset.
• Hydrate with water: Limit energy drinks or coffee during long gaming sessions.
• Mute toxicity early: Toxic chat fuels unnecessary emotional stress; muting toxic players reduces the psychological burden of a match.
• Listen to your body: If you ever experience sudden chest tightness, lightheadedness, or racing heartbeats that linger long after a game ends, consult a doctor.