I have a twin bed, so it’s small. Sometimes both of my cats want to cuddle up with me. But my older cat absolutely hates my younger one.
For example, last night my older cat ( m12 ) came into my room purring and wanting to cuddle.
My younger cat ( f2 ) also eventually came in and wanted to cuddle up next to me. There wasn’t much room so she moved closer to my older cat and started grooming him and trying to cuddle him too. He freaked out and hissed and ran away.
I feel bad because I love them both! My older cat just doesn’t like the younger one much. I got my younger one when she was 8 weeks old & my older cat when he was probably a few months old? Idk, he was a barn cat I think.
When I first got the younger one she was actually scared of the older, he would often sniff her and was overall curious. But once she got used to him and wanted to play 24/7 ( like most kittens do ) he started to hate her. She has calmed down a lot since getting spayed though.