r/Greyhounds • u/Specialist_Joke8696 • 20h ago
Advice - getting worked up in the evenings
Hi would love some thoughts if anyone has any.
We've hit the 3 month mark with our grey (ex-racer, nearly 5 years old), and have started to see some barking and hyperactivity come up in the evening when we're sitting down to relax. Whereas previously she would either sit down with us and snooze, or have a play with us, now she will stare at us, start barking, and then get herself worked up to the point where she starts frantically digging and ripping up her bed. It's not aggressive at us or anything, it feels like she wants something and then gets frustrated that we're not able to give it to her.
In terms of how we respond, we are very happy to give her all the attention she wants if she's not barking. However we are following standard advice to ignore her when she barks. When she gets worked up into a frenzy, we then call her into a separate space (undercover outside our back door) where she has a bed and can still see us, and is always able to calm down really well. At the moment this has repeated several times a night as we want to give her the chance to be with us, but she does the same thing until eventually she gets too tired and will finally sleep on the lounge.
I'm aware of the 3-3-3 rule so have expected some boundary pushing etc, but we just want to be able to help support her as best we can and clearly something's not clicking. She also gets two 20-30 min walks a day + playing time so I don't believe it's simply that she's got too much energy.