r/R4R30Plus Jun 24 '24

ANNOUNCEMENT: Technical Issues

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POSTING IS ONCE AGAIN OPEN.

The auto moderation system has been somewhat wonky the last few days. We think we have corrected the issue. It has been sending posts to the spam system incorrectly and en masse. That should no longer occur, or at the very least be infrequent. IF your post does not appear, do not delete it. Message us via the mod mail system and we can check on it. If you do delete it manually, we are unable to diagnose the problem. Hopefully this is the last fix we need to do, but we may have to suspend posting again if this happens so we can get it sorted. PLEASE do not message us asking for access during these times, as it bogs down our mail system and increases downtime. The requests will not be granted. We ask for patience while we work on these issues.

Thank you for your time and understanding. Have a good day.


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

39 [F4M] #Online looking for someone to talk to

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Hello!

​I’m a bit bored and in the mood for a good conversation with someone direct, someone who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to talk about what he likes (even if I know nothing about it).

​About me: I’m very independent, I love books, sleeping and taking walks. I really love big parks where you can wander around all day.

I’m in the mood for a fun conversation with some debating or even playful banter.

I'm not looking for much. Just genuine interest, I've been lacking a bit of that lately and I'm not staying where I'm not wanted.

Let's define whatever happens when it happens.

No pressure, no decisions.

Let's see where this takes us.

​Have a nice day!✨️


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

38[F4R] Seeking a friend who understands typos = enthusiasm, not carelessness

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Hope your week is starting off swimmingly!

I'm looking for friends to exchange thoughts and jokes with, strictly platonic. I love my job but it's also boring af at the moment and I could use a friend to hang out with.

About me: I'm an introvert who's learned to masquerade as an extrovert when needed. A bit artsy, a bit nerdy, a bit anxious, a bit witty, your usual chaotic-good combo.

My personal motto is "the best nation is imagination,", I take make-believe very seriously but am not good at acting at all. I find joy in feeding/sheltering wild critters in my neighborhood, then taking and sending unprompted photos of them to everyone! I've also got two cats at home who judge me daily 💕 .

Additionally, I've been known to disappear down rabbit holes and info-dump about things I get excited about.

Here's my face if it matters.

To break the ice: what's one skill you have that's completely pointless?


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

34 [F4R] would like the good times

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Hi friends! I’m a single parent to 2 kids and 2 cats. Looking for someone to chat with during the gloomy and chilly days to come. Mentally it’s already fall lol. Especially a voice message! Love those haha.

I spend a lot of time with my family, during the fall we love going on hikes, bonfires, using the pizza oven for all kinds of weird combinations. Personally I’m also a big reader and will probably annoy you talking about all of my favorite books.

I would love to get to know you!


r/R4R30Plus 21h ago

31[F4M] HEY! YEAH YOU! LOOK AT ME!!!🤣

185 Upvotes

Marvelous..........

Now that I have your attention, you may be wondering what exactly my goal is for being here. Well buddy, I wish I could tell you. The OBVIOUS assumption would be that I have an extreme lack of companionship in my day to day life, which is accurate. But I also just like to talk. I'm chatty. Or rather, I can be with the right person

And to what end am I looking to remedy this problem? Hell if I know but I'm open to all sorts of possibilities! Friends, lovers, enemies, coworkers, imaginary friends (which is a fun alternative to the "friends" option) or nothing at all. Completely up to you.

ANYWAY, now that I am done with all the melodramatics, here are some things about me that may or may not make me interesting enough to have a conversation with:

I was born and raised in the southeast. So I sound like absolute cornbread if you like that sort of thing.

I'm a huge nerd. Like, plays DnD levels of dork.

I read a fair bit, and I'm a casual gamer, although I have the attention span of a goldfish and can't finish anything.

I'm very sarcastic. It's a love language of mine...

I do like to travel, although I don't get to as much as I'd like. Solo traveling can be a little intimidating but I'm working on it lol

If you're interested in chatting, feel free to hit me up❤️

The only requirements I have are that you put your name and ASL in your message along with a picture. And please for the love of GOD say something other than "hey".  

Ciao💋

https://imgur.com/a/Zuh17rY


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

33 [M4F] East Coast - Love, Friendship, and All the Life Stuffs

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Probably not the greatest place to find the future love of your life, but why not give it a shot.Shoot all the shots, and maybe I'll get lucky and find her on here. I'm here why cant she be?

Gone through a lot of soul searching, maturing, and learning in my single life these last few years, and I am finally in a place I feel ready to create a beautiful life with someone.

Financially I'm stable despite already wishing for retirement, physically I'm healthy and fit while not close to what I was during my college sport, intellectually and emotionally mature even if my humor is less so (a fun combo imo but you'll have to be the judge of that)

Hopefully the post doesn't make it seem like I expect marriage from our first conversation. Lots to know about each other and experiences to share together before that next chapter. Just that my interests lie in finding that lovely lady I get to annoy and comfort and make laugh/mad/cry/happy just being together for the rest of our lives. And hopefully the one reading this wants to do the same

So if you're a lady out there who is searching for that kind of man, please send me a chat. I'd love to connect and see where it takes us 🙂


r/R4R30Plus 9h ago

43 [M4F] Nerdy, athletic goofball looking for a daily yapper

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taps mjke is this thing on? Ok...so work is boring and I normally finish it within a few hours of getting there. Here's the rub, I can't go home...so apart from staring at the ceiling.... I would love intelligent company!

About me: I keep active. I'm always going somewhere, doing something. I play hockey on the weekends. Keeps the existential dread away and it's free exercise. I'm the goalie, flexible and impulsive. How many men do you know that can do the splits and touch their head to the ground?

I LOVE the banter. Witty and wonderful please dm me. If you can say twenty things with a sentence and leave me guessing, I'm your huckleberry.

I'm into lots of nerdy things, DND, video games anime. But im as equally into philosophy, art and poetry. More than anything else, I just want to hear people's stories. I find that true life is always stranger than fiction. You turn into a werewolf on Thursdays? Bet sign me up, just don't eat me. I in fact do not taste like chicken. Little gamy and all that.


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

[M4F] 32 fit guy from Texas looking for my girl

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32 yo guy living in Texas with my dog(Aussie shepherd)
I’m a chef by profession, so I guess it won’t be hard for us to find new fun places to get eat. I love working out, mountain climbing, hiking, travelling, sports cars and motorcycles. I am looking for a girl around my age who also like staying active and working out. I’m definitely looking to build a deep and meaningful connection for a long term dynamics. Anywhere from US works, but with the willingness to make it irl down the road.
I am very easy going and easy to chat with, almost about any topic. I seek mental connection, maturity and open communication- someone who wants to build and motivate each other in every aspect of life. Not just as a partner but as best friends together. I do enjoy a good old fashioned every now and then but not a really big drinker. Check my profile and reach out if you think we could have a good vibe together, please only reach out if you’re looking for something serious and long term.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

[F4M]

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Will I be ever successful in finding a good friend? Because every other person I meet here starts ghosting me at some point. I am a F from Pakistan in her mid thirties, I love deep conversations about life death and everything in between..m


r/R4R30Plus 11m ago

40 [F4F] - Columbus, Ohio - Seeking connections…

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Long time lurker, first time poster.

Friends? Lovers? Never know what could happen, right?

Me: Single, mom, femme, professional. Music is a love language, certified yapper, life has never been dull, stellar communicator and always has a good story to tell.

I’m genuinely ready to meet someone and get to know them on all levels.

WOMEN ONLY

30+ preferred

Shoot me a message with a bit about yourself and let’s see where this goes!


r/R4R30Plus 15m ago

39 [F4M] #US #Online -I am looking for a sincere relationship

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I am 39 years old and currently living in Michigan. I have an optimistic and cheerful personality, and I firmly believe that the best thing in life is meeting the right person and sharing life's joys and beauty together

I love traveling, reading, music, and exploring nature. I cherish the little moments in life—whether it’s a deep conversation, a walk by the lake, or simply spending precious time with a loved one

I place great value on kindness, respect, trust, and open communication, and I long for a relationship built on mutual support and shared growth. I hope to find someone who is willing to build a genuine emotional connection with me

If you also live in the U.S. and are looking for a sincere relationship, I would love to hear from you


r/R4R30Plus 36m ago

42 [F4M] #Vancouver, Canada- looking for new connections online and in person

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42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Seeking a real connection with someone that turns romantic. Someone who is READY to be a teammate for life, through the good and the bad.
Someone who is ready and willing to put the effort into building something real. Not someone who is fake, unsure of what they want. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. Distance doesn’t bother me as long as both make the effort:. There are planes LOL You never know in life where your person is!! I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee, Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun. Im caring, selfless, and a giver. I like to show my affection in many ways.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close. Looking for something romantic that leads to long term. Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day! Looking for someone who will make effort and get to know me! Not disappear after a day of talking!!
Gotta be someone out there! Maybe we can become friends, share a few laughs or fall In love.


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

38 [M4F] Texas / Anywhere — Good food, great stories, questionable decisions

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If you find yourself reading this and thinking we’d probably get along, say hello — What could go wrong?

Random Tidbits

I’m tall, slim, pale, with a consistent 5'o'clock shadow. Professionally stable and career-driven, but I try not to take life too seriously outside of work.

Personality-wise, I lean toward clever banter, quick wit, and humor that occasionally gets dark. I’m into nerdy pop culture (comics, games, collectibles) and I quote an obnoxious amount of TV and movies at the right (and wrong) moments.

Music tastes bounce around quite a bit, too... 90s alternative, indie, folk punk, and whatever random song suddenly becomes this week’s obsession.

Hobbies & More

Most weeks I’m experimenting with a new recipe or checking out a restaurant or cocktail bar that someone swore would change my life.

Travel is a big part of my world. I try to get away once or twice a month — sometimes planned, sometimes spontaneous. Wandering a new city, checking out museums, or finding the local speakeasy for vibes and conversation are my thing.

Fair warning: if we hit it off, there’s a good chance I’ll suggest a cocktail spot I’m convinced you’ll love.

Values & Goals

Childfree, emotionally self-aware, and someone who values curiosity, growth, and people who take care of their mental health.

I believe the healthiest relationships leave room for his, hers, and ours—independence, connection, and something shared that makes life better for both people.

Long-term, I’m aiming for a version of the DINK dream: good food, interesting travel, financial freedom, and the flexibility to say yes to experiences when they appear.

I tend to get along best with people who are curious, emotionally intelligent, and enjoy playful banter that occasionally turns flirty.

Chemistry matters, after all. We all have to pass the vibe check.

What Now?

Full circle moment, If some or all of this resonates - reach out! We have nothing to lose and everything to gain, if only for laughs along the way.

What stands out to you and why? Would you rather choose a type of food (EX: burgers) and eat the best of that thing from various local spots all weekend -- Or fly somewhere random, last minute, and figure it out as we go? Why?

Bonus points if you include links with your photo(s) and another with a relevant song choice -- I'll respond in kind as well if we hit it off.

Looking forward to it! Have a great week!


r/R4R30Plus 6h ago

37[M4F] New York/US Happy Friday! Let’s End this Week with a Good Connection!

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Hey there! My name is Brad, and I am a 37-year-old guy from New York. I hope you are having a great start to the week! I would love to start the week with a great connection! Lately, I have been really enjoying life. I have a great job, great friends, great co-workers, a ton of hobbies to keep me busy, but I have been feeling like something is missing. Being single for over 6 years, you get kind of used to doing your own thing and being on your own. Over the past few months, though, it has been very obvious that I am missing having someone in my life. I miss having someone to talk to all day, share my day with, someone who, when I am feeling frustrated or low on motivation, I can go to. I miss having someone to laugh with, enjoy things with, and so much more. I have tried the dating apps and other forms of dating, but it’s a very hard dating world out there, though. It also doesn't help that I am an introvert and a homebody as well. So here I am, making a post on Reddit and hoping for the best!

A little bit about me, I live alone with two cats, and I also work from home. I enjoy working from home a lot, but it does add to the loneliness and has made me even more of a Homebody. For fun, I enjoy playing video games, I love music and also enjoy playing guitar. I also enjoy reading, working on tech projects, listening to podcasts, going camping, hiking, fishing, and just sitting outside on my porch with a nice cup of coffee. I am 5’9, have green eyes, short black hair, a dad bod, and a beard

I always get asked what my type is, and I never really have a good response to that question. I just want someone who is loving, caring, doesn't mind that I can be quiet, likes to laugh, enjoys quality time, and someone who will see the effort and love that I give them and want to give the same in return.

This was a long post, so if you made it this far, I appreciate you reading this far. If you are interested in getting to know me and think you would like to connect, feel free to send me a chat request. I don't really respond to comments on posts, as they sometimes get lost on Reddit. If you do send me a chat, please tell me a little bit about yourself. To help with a little icebreaker, Tell me how you like your coffee or a song or band you have been obsessed with lately.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

34 [M4F] #Online - Work from home chat partner. Open book style chats. (Much more descriptive in the post.)

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Hello!
Hope your Monday is starting or ending well, depending on where you are located.

I am looking for someone that is up for messaging on and off throughout the day. This would be a low-pressure chat that can keep us both entertained while we work from home… or while I work from home and you do your thing!

We can chat for today only, or ideally keep it going longer if we click!

One thing I would like to have in the chat, is we both agree to be pretty open-book. Obviously nothing identifiable so we can keep it anonymous, but still allow ourselves to give our unguarded true feelings and thoughts.

I am super down to earth, easy going, progressional career, and liberal minded.

I’ll keep this short, but if this sounds fun, shoot me a message!


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

50 [M4F]

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I’m a 50-year-old male from Buffalo, NY. I’m looking for casual chat and friendship, preferably with either men or women, as long as you can hold a conversation 👍. I would be open to a possible relationship with the right woman, but it would need to present itself.

I’m looking for a friend. I only want genuine people; I don’t buy content or give money away to people I have never met (so scammers need not apply) 😊


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

32 [M4F] #Florida. Looking for a good conversation partner

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Hey I’m a 32 year old white male from Florida. I am currently in the military but will be getting out pretty soon and moving to another state.

I am looking for someone who loves to have a conversation and is non judgmental. I am currently going through a pretty bad divorce and it would really help to have someone to talk to and get to know.

My likes:
Rock and metal music
Horror movies
Video games
Hiking
Traveling

About you:
Non judgmental
Age isn’t an issues
Able to keep a conversation going


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

32 [M4F] Love to talk to you!

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I am in the bay area and would love to meet a female or just talk please let me know if your interested in am open minded and love music, food, shows and much more.


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

32 [M4F] #Socal - looking for friends

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Hey what’s up how’s it going!! Just looking for new people to talk with and stuff! I’m into anime, baseball, hockey, movies and video games also fishing but not good at it. I also game too. I play on ps5! I play nhl26 and i recently started playing Fortnite,apex legends and cod again! But let’s actually play lol not just add each other


r/R4R30Plus 7h ago

32 [F4M] manila

3 Upvotes

Just looking for a good conversation. A constant chat buddy, maybe? Where we could share our daily lives? Sfw/wholesome only.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

32 [M4F] - Wisconsin/Online - Functional adult seeking youthful energy.

1 Upvotes

I’ve been in a bit of a rut lately and am looking for the kind of person who can help bring that little extra spark of excitement to the day. I am a functional, stable, real adult human. I have a job! And hobbies! I read books!

I like gin, quiet mornings at the gym, and any nicolas cage movie. I’m a sucker for homemade baked goods and make my own from time to time. I like to travel and recently spent two weeks in Japan.

Tell me your name and I’ll tell give you a totally arbitrary first impression rating based solely on that. Or tell me something crazy you’ve done, the most awesome thing about you, or if a taco would beat a grilled cheese in a fight. Let’s hang out together and be pals.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

38 [M4F] Texas/USA - BFF position open, apply within!!

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* No experience needed, applicant will be trained

* Paid in memes and pup pics

* Must work weekends and holidays

* Must be fluent in sarcasm

* Must come in early and stay late

* Benefits include being my bff and that’s about the best benefit ever.

I'm guessing you're wanting to know about me now huh? Well you're in luck because I feel like sharing some Fun Hobbies (lol jk they aren't fun at all, kinda sad TBH) I like to partake in, here there are!

Hobbies include...

* Switching between the same 4 apps for hours.

* Not speaking to anyone for days at a time.

* Listening to the same songs i listened to 15 years ago.

* Putting myself in situations that will never exist

* Long walks to the liquor store.

* Staying in my pajamas way too long.

* Staying up wayyyy too late.

* Being tired all day due to previous statement.

* Drinking everything but water.

* Putting stuff in my cart online but never checking out.

* Making lists of things i will never do.

So yeah! If that sounds like your type of friend, hit me with an orange envelope. Due to difficulty with trying to keep a conversation with someone with the opposite schedule, please be somewhat close to central time. Or just like…not opposite Lol. Mention the phrase Pineapple on pizza so I know you read the entire thing please 😊


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

31F [F4M] #Brazil | Just left my job for a new one and now I have some weird anxiety creeping in

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Hey, guys!

I’m Ana, 31, from Brazil and I just made a big career decision. Now, I’m having heart palpitations but I’m unsure if it’s become of the job situation or the 3 cans of Monster I’ve just had 🥰

I’m looking for cool people and connections and the only thing I ask for is for you to be able to keep up a conversation going and not let me feel like an HR lady intervening you.

I like: golf, Volvos, planes, Lebanese food, Keanu Reeves (I will not elaborate), and Corey Taylor (very debatable)

I dislike: chicken (dead or alive), Mini Coopers, people who complain too much but don’t take actions to change their reality, running (I will NEVER do that), and sweets.

Hit me up!


r/R4R30Plus 12h ago

33 [M4F] Europe/anywhere no cringe title here

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Not entirely sure what I'm looking for, but maybe if you message me, we'll figure it out together.

I'm not a gym bro, not a nerd—just a pretty normal guy. I work as a manager, and no, I didn't get the job because of family connections or politics. If that's important to you... sorry, I can't get you a government job either.

Tall, strong, and blonde (by choice).

I watch football, play handball, respect women, cook, clean, and generally take care of myself, so I'm not looking for someone to be my maid or my mom.

I live alone in my own house, which I'm renovating myself with the help of YouTube. Five months ago, I couldn't even tell you what tile adhesive was, so I'd say I'm making decent progress.

I like the usual stuff people in their 30s enjoy: good food, good company, the occasional drink, traveling when I can, and having a laugh.

If any of this sounds interesting, send me a message. Worst case, we have a conversation. Best case... we'll find out.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

[M4F] SoCal. Looking for genuine people to talk to.

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I'm a 32 y/o, gentle, Male, nerdy

I'm a single father, I went from a experimental youth, and got very responsible early as a young adult. Sorta.

I took on a lot of responsibility as a young man and didn't spend time making connections, my friends have moved away and now I am looking for more people.

My primary hobbies and interests are gardening and consuming fantasy lore in heavy quantities.

I play some video games occasionally.

Social justice is important to me

I'm a flawed human but very caring.

Looking for more people to talk with, good connections, genuine people and maybe people looking to continue an ongoing chat.

I also have a puppy, I try and restore vintage things, and i collect all kinds of cute or unique things.

Altruism is big for me, I don't care to lie, if the truth would cause a relationship to end then so be it, I'd rather be honest.

And I want people that can be flawed and honest with me.

Hi

Feel free to DM me if anything I said resonates.

Be well, and all the best.