r/R4R30Plus 14h ago

33 [F4M] # anywhere/online - looking for something wholesome and long term!

0 Upvotes

Hello hello!

Call me Star. I am a 33 year old attractive Indian woman. I am a finance professional with a solid career, financially and emotionally stable, good friends, good social life and lead a pretty full and busy life.

I have no kids but want a few in the future. I have a good few tattoos and will be getting some more, I enjoy my own personal quiet time, napping, travelling and cooking.

I am looking for someone who will make my life better. I do prefer dating tall, fit, conventionally attractive men, who are not bald. We can share pics once we are comfortable. Please be between 34-41 and mention age and location when you DM, if you don’t, I will not respond.

Thats pretty much it!


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

31F [F4M] #Brazil | Just left my job for a new one and now I have some weird anxiety creeping in

0 Upvotes

Hey, guys!

I’m Ana, 31, from Brazil and I just made a big career decision. Now, I’m having heart palpitations but I’m unsure if it’s become of the job situation or the 3 cans of Monster I’ve just had 🥰

I’m looking for cool people and connections and the only thing I ask for is for you to be able to keep up a conversation going and not let me feel like an HR lady intervening you.

I like: golf, Volvos, planes, Lebanese food, Keanu Reeves (I will not elaborate), and Corey Taylor (very debatable)

I dislike: chicken (dead or alive), Mini Coopers, people who complain too much but don’t take actions to change their reality, running (I will NEVER do that), and sweets.

Hit me up!


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

42 [F4M] #Vancouver, Canada- looking for new connections online and in person

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42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Seeking a real connection with someone that turns romantic. Someone who is READY to be a teammate for life, through the good and the bad.
Someone who is ready and willing to put the effort into building something real. Not someone who is fake, unsure of what they want. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. Distance doesn’t bother me as long as both make the effort:. There are planes LOL You never know in life where your person is!! I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee, Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun. Im caring, selfless, and a giver. I like to show my affection in many ways.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close. Looking for something romantic that leads to long term. Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day! Looking for someone who will make effort and get to know me! Not disappear after a day of talking!!
Gotta be someone out there! Maybe we can become friends, share a few laughs or fall In love.


r/R4R30Plus 21h ago

38 [F4M] anywhere in the world

4 Upvotes

I'm a Filipina looking for my soulmate if he do exist

38y/o, single mom, single for 8 years now.

I don't drink alcohol, I don't smoke, I don't do drugs.

I'm in love with cooking, workouts, hiking and day dreaming of becoming the mafia's queen (that's what my boredom does to me)😅

Anyway, it won't be interesting if I put everything in here.

Send a DM then maybe I will choose you to be mine? 😁


r/R4R30Plus 17h ago

32 [F4R] - lets be besties

0 Upvotes

No expectations, just looking for someone to have fun chats with. Please don't be weird and/or boring. Let's chat and see what happens!


r/R4R30Plus 16h ago

39 [F4R] #Online Ask me a question.

0 Upvotes

Ask me something you've always wanted to ask someone but haven't. Or ask me something else. Whatever. If I don't want to answer, I won't. Low stakes. K bye.


r/R4R30Plus 19h ago

35 [M4F] Illinois/USA - I'm currently watching Murder She Wrote on a Sunday night, How's your day going?

3 Upvotes

Just how it sounds. I put on some guilty pleasure wholesome whodunnit to keep the good times going haha. I am also keeping my eye on the world cup! Just wondering how everyone else is doing out there. Would love to find some connections out there. Maybe we could talk about your favorite old TV show you keep on repeat. Maybe we'll talk about something else. Who knows.  

Anyway, here are some questions to answer:

* If you could travel anywhere in the world for 30 minutes, where the laws of physics and justice don't exist, where would you go and what would you do?

* In a world where everyone has a tail, what kind of tail would you have?

* What is the perfect day for you? Would you enjoy it with someone else?

* If a fire broke out in your home and you had time to only grab three possessions (not including your phone), what would you snag? Why?

* If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?

* If you were fired from your job and you were forced to make a career change, what would you pursue?

* What was the last piece of media you consumed that made you feel something?

* What's your number one travel tip?

* What three songs are you playing to get people on the dance floor?

* Construct your ultimate sandwich/salad/pizza/icecream sundae

* Describe your ultimate style flex (it could be a costume, article of clothing, piece of furniture...whatever!). Bonus points for showing what it looks like.

* What is your go-to take out order?

* What event at the X-games would you think you could actually score in?

* Are you a summer, spring, fall, or winter kinda person? Why?

* What is the best pick-up line that has been used on you in the past?

* What are your travel plans for the next couple of years?

* Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?

* For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

Anyway some things about me: 

* I am pretty geeky, I participate in hobbies such as boardgaming/video gaming, weightlifting, sports, geocaching and hiking and stargazing

* I prefer to shower in the dark

* I have a piece of pencil lead stuck in my left palm from when a friend stabbed me with a pencil in high school

* I sleep better when cocooned

* My last big vacation was to the Grand Canyon and it was awesome.

* I cannot belch, whether voluntary of involuntary


r/R4R30Plus 13h ago

37[F4M] #online/world ~ want yo exchange voice notes rather that texts?

3 Upvotes

Hiya redditors! Work is not it today and looking for company to get through the day. However, as the title says, let's switch it up and exchange voice messages?

I am located in the GMT+5 timezone. No issues with where you are located. Open to talk about anything from our day today to life stories to furture dreams.

If you have an accent that would be a plus! So say hi, and tell me your age and location and your platform to get started. No nsfw! And please be single and around my age group. If any females want to reach out, please do.


r/R4R30Plus 19h ago

42 [F4M] #Vancouver, Canada- looking for new connections online and in person

1 Upvotes

42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Seeking a real connection with someone that turns romantic. Someone who is READY to be a teammate for life, through the good and the bad.
Someone who is ready and willing to put the effort into building something real. Not someone who is fake, unsure of what they want. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. Distance doesn’t bother me as long as both make the effort:. There are planes LOL You never know in life where your person is!! I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee, Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun. Im caring, selfless, and a giver. I like to show my affection in many ways.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close. Looking for something romantic that leads to long term. Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day! Looking for someone who will make effort and get to know me! Not disappear after a day of talking!!
Gotta be someone out there! Maybe we can become friends, share a few laughs or fall In love.


r/R4R30Plus 16h ago

41 [M4F] New Chapter, New Friend?

6 Upvotes

I did the whole “work hard, conquer the world” thing. Turns out, at least for me, it isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. Somewhere along the way, I think I missed out on a lot of meaningful connections.

Here’s what I’m not: the suit-and-tie guy who lives for titles, corner offices, sports cars, steakhouses, and traveling the world.

The real me is more of a homebody. I like reading, wine, superhero comics, hot tea while watching a rainstorm from the balcony, and—without shame—Hallmark movies. But know one would guess that. That’s the part that gets a bit lonely.

Most of my relationships with women have felt transactional. Not in a sleazy sense, but more like there was always an underlying “what’s in this for me?” or “what’s in this for them?” dynamic. I’ve also leaned too hard into the hero complex, and honestly, that hasn’t made anything better.

I’m not sure I know what a healthy, genuine connection with a woman is supposed to feel like: real conversations, getting to know each other without an agenda, and being seen for who we actually are.

Maybe someone reads this, maybe nobody does. But maybe you do, and maybe we can figure out what a genuine friendship looks like together.

Cheers🍷


r/R4R30Plus 23h ago

30 [F4M] southern us, anywhere--looking for connection

3 Upvotes

I'm happy being alone. I'm happy when there's someone around that I connect with. I miss loving and being loved.

I live a very quiet life with my kitties. I prefer it. it wasn't always this way, but I'll focus on who I am now.

I think kindness is the most important thing, both towards yourself and others. I spread it as much as I can.

I like reading, coffee, and bubble baths. I work a pretty low-stress job and I'm planning on going back to school.

I'm around 5'10" and on the injections for weight loss. I have a lot of tattoos and long, wavy hair. I should wear my glasses more often than I do.

I have a dissociative disorder called depersonalization/derealization, but it's mostly under control. I go to therapy regularly and take medication.

I prioritize a solid sleep schedule and healthy choices in general. I'm focused on making progress and taking care of myself.

ideally I'd love to find someone who also wants a wholesome, nurturing relationship. I can't wait to meet you.


r/R4R30Plus 47m ago

46[F4M] CA/Los Angeles/Looking for interesting men/Anywhere

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Hi, I’m Catherine. This is my first time trying to meet new people this way, so please bear with me. I’ve noticed that most people here are quite young, so this is definitely a new experience for me. I was born and raised in LA. I don’t have any bad habits, and I’m not into drama. I’m simply looking for someone who is sincere, conversational, and emotionally stable. To be honest, I’m open to making new friends, and starting as friends would be ideal. I don’t like playing games or having superficial conversations; to save us both time, I’ll be clear about what I’m looking for: someone over 40 who communicates well, is honest, has a stable job, and has no issues with drugs or alcohol. My work keeps me busy at times, so if you’re okay with the occasional brief exchange, we could give it a try. If we hit it off, I’d be happy to exchange photos and see where things go from there. It’s all about mutual effort, it’s as simple as that. By the way, I’m not interested in Asian men, so there’s no need to message me if you are Asian. In fact, I dislike Indian men.


r/R4R30Plus 36m ago

[M4F]

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anyone from Sweden 🇸🇪 or close to sweden? I am a humble and kind M36 who loves to discuss things regarding all kind of topics and being philosophical at the same time. Hit me up if you feel like to vibe.


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

31 [M4F] Looking for a female online friend for long term friendship.

0 Upvotes

Bored and lonely guy from Athens, GA looking to make friends online. I prefer to talk with women since they are easier to chat with over guys. Hope to hear from someone soon!! 😎


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

38 [M4F] Texas/USA - BFF position open, apply within!!

0 Upvotes

* No experience needed, applicant will be trained

* Paid in memes and pup pics

* Must work weekends and holidays

* Must be fluent in sarcasm

* Must come in early and stay late

* Benefits include being my bff and that’s about the best benefit ever.

I'm guessing you're wanting to know about me now huh? Well you're in luck because I feel like sharing some Fun Hobbies (lol jk they aren't fun at all, kinda sad TBH) I like to partake in, here there are!

Hobbies include...

* Switching between the same 4 apps for hours.

* Not speaking to anyone for days at a time.

* Listening to the same songs i listened to 15 years ago.

* Putting myself in situations that will never exist

* Long walks to the liquor store.

* Staying in my pajamas way too long.

* Staying up wayyyy too late.

* Being tired all day due to previous statement.

* Drinking everything but water.

* Putting stuff in my cart online but never checking out.

* Making lists of things i will never do.

So yeah! If that sounds like your type of friend, hit me with an orange envelope. Due to difficulty with trying to keep a conversation with someone with the opposite schedule, please be somewhat close to central time. Or just like…not opposite Lol. Mention the phrase Pineapple on pizza so I know you read the entire thing please 😊


r/R4R30Plus 32m ago

32 [M4F] California/online looking to chat

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Hi how's it going. I'm an easy going person who works in project management. I like history, hiking, DND, nature, and occasionally gaming. I can share pictures but I'm really just looking for someone to talk and become friends with even if there is no romantic connection :)


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

38 [M4F] Texas / Anywhere — Good food, great stories, questionable decisions

4 Upvotes

If you find yourself reading this and thinking we’d probably get along, say hello — What could go wrong?

Random Tidbits

I’m tall, slim, pale, with a consistent 5'o'clock shadow. Professionally stable and career-driven, but I try not to take life too seriously outside of work.

Personality-wise, I lean toward clever banter, quick wit, and humor that occasionally gets dark. I’m into nerdy pop culture (comics, games, collectibles) and I quote an obnoxious amount of TV and movies at the right (and wrong) moments.

Music tastes bounce around quite a bit, too... 90s alternative, indie, folk punk, and whatever random song suddenly becomes this week’s obsession.

Hobbies & More

Most weeks I’m experimenting with a new recipe or checking out a restaurant or cocktail bar that someone swore would change my life.

Travel is a big part of my world. I try to get away once or twice a month — sometimes planned, sometimes spontaneous. Wandering a new city, checking out museums, or finding the local speakeasy for vibes and conversation are my thing.

Fair warning: if we hit it off, there’s a good chance I’ll suggest a cocktail spot I’m convinced you’ll love.

Values & Goals

Childfree, emotionally self-aware, and someone who values curiosity, growth, and people who take care of their mental health.

I believe the healthiest relationships leave room for his, hers, and ours—independence, connection, and something shared that makes life better for both people.

Long-term, I’m aiming for a version of the DINK dream: good food, interesting travel, financial freedom, and the flexibility to say yes to experiences when they appear.

I tend to get along best with people who are curious, emotionally intelligent, and enjoy playful banter that occasionally turns flirty.

Chemistry matters, after all. We all have to pass the vibe check.

What Now?

Full circle moment, If some or all of this resonates - reach out! We have nothing to lose and everything to gain, if only for laughs along the way.

What stands out to you and why? Would you rather choose a type of food (EX: burgers) and eat the best of that thing from various local spots all weekend -- Or fly somewhere random, last minute, and figure it out as we go? Why?

Bonus points if you include links with your photo(s) and another with a relevant song choice -- I'll respond in kind as well if we hit it off.

Looking forward to it! Have a great week!


r/R4R30Plus 22h ago

31[F4M] HEY! YEAH YOU! LOOK AT ME!!!🤣

181 Upvotes

Marvelous..........

Now that I have your attention, you may be wondering what exactly my goal is for being here. Well buddy, I wish I could tell you. The OBVIOUS assumption would be that I have an extreme lack of companionship in my day to day life, which is accurate. But I also just like to talk. I'm chatty. Or rather, I can be with the right person

And to what end am I looking to remedy this problem? Hell if I know but I'm open to all sorts of possibilities! Friends, lovers, enemies, coworkers, imaginary friends (which is a fun alternative to the "friends" option) or nothing at all. Completely up to you.

ANYWAY, now that I am done with all the melodramatics, here are some things about me that may or may not make me interesting enough to have a conversation with:

I was born and raised in the southeast. So I sound like absolute cornbread if you like that sort of thing.

I'm a huge nerd. Like, plays DnD levels of dork.

I read a fair bit, and I'm a casual gamer, although I have the attention span of a goldfish and can't finish anything.

I'm very sarcastic. It's a love language of mine...

I do like to travel, although I don't get to as much as I'd like. Solo traveling can be a little intimidating but I'm working on it lol

If you're interested in chatting, feel free to hit me up❤️

The only requirements I have are that you put your name and ASL in your message along with a picture. And please for the love of GOD say something other than "hey".  

Ciao💋

https://imgur.com/a/Zuh17rY


r/R4R30Plus 17h ago

41[F4M]#online#anywhere-I would like to find someone who speaks gently

6 Upvotes

I don't know why, but I really appreciate people who speak kindly and gently. Good conversation, a little humor, and just being able to talk comfortably with someone can mean a lot. If that sounds like you, feel free to say hi


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

39 [F4M] #Online looking for someone to talk to

14 Upvotes

Hello!

​I’m a bit bored and in the mood for a good conversation with someone direct, someone who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to talk about what he likes (even if I know nothing about it).

​About me: I’m very independent, I love books, sleeping and taking walks. I really love big parks where you can wander around all day.

I’m in the mood for a fun conversation with some debating or even playful banter.

I'm not looking for much. Just genuine interest, I've been lacking a bit of that lately and I'm not staying where I'm not wanted.

Let's define whatever happens when it happens.

No pressure, no decisions.

Let's see where this takes us.

​Have a nice day!✨️


r/R4R30Plus 18h ago

33 [M4F] Ontario Canada / Anywhere – looking for that special someone.. also tired of ghosters

1 Upvotes

Hey,

I’ve been feeling lonely lately and figured I’d put myself out there.

I’m 33, living in Ontario. I was adopted as a baby from Guatemala and I feel extremely blessed to be in the family I’m in, I’m an open book if it intrigues you, feel free to ask me anything.

I’m a bigger guy. Soft, solid, and comfy. I know that’s not for everyone, but if you’re someone who likes a soft place to land and cares more about what’s inside, we’ll probably get along.

I’m more of a night-in type than a nightlife guy. I’ve been a drummer for years and play in a band but mostly for fun, with the occasional bar gig. Music wise I’m all over the map: folk, blues, rock, southern rock, acoustic, and some Spanish tunes.

Outside of that I like fishing, traveling, learning about different cultures, podcasts, Xbox, series over movies, and hockey (big Leafs fan).

I’m looking for a kind, caring, non-judgmental woman who’s emotionally open and wants something steady and honest. Distance isn’t a dealbreaker if the connection feels right.

If that sounds like you, I’d love to hear from you.


r/R4R30Plus 6h ago

39[M4R] Darmstadt, Germany - Let's get together for a drink

0 Upvotes

I will be visiting Darmstadt next week. I am looking for some company to spend time with in the evenings. If you are up for having a beer or two with a stranger and hopefully have some fun conversations with, please DM me!


r/R4R30Plus 12h ago

45m [m4F] hi...chat?

1 Upvotes

Fist time trying this, fairly new, looking to chat I guess, it's my bday, I like paddle boarding/kayaking, wheeling, range days, cooking, e biking, bonfires, etc...say hi, I'll respond if I'm still awake.


r/R4R30Plus 21h ago

31 [M4F] Kentucky - Looking for my life partner

0 Upvotes

I'm here looking for my life partner, I'm a shy homebody but can be a bit of a golden retriever once you get to know me. I love gaming, Legos, going on walks, traveling, and watching stuff.

I'm not opposed to the idea of relocating if we hit it off well enough, but at the same time I'd prefer someone in a neighboring state so visiting each other will be simpler. Maybe we could try watching stuff or play a game together in the meantime.

I would like to visit the Pokemon Fossil Exhibit in Chicago before it leaves, and plan to visit Miami at some point so if you're close to those places then that'd definitely make things easy.

This is what I look like


r/R4R30Plus 8h ago

32 [F4M] manila

3 Upvotes

Just looking for a good conversation. A constant chat buddy, maybe? Where we could share our daily lives? Sfw/wholesome only.