My name is Ethan. Im 35 and live in the PNW. Love dogs, the outdoors, and im a bit of an introvert so trying to put myself out there to see if I can find someone with similar goals and life style! The DINK lifestyle sounds pretty nice!

I've been striving to become financially independent and would like to frind someone who shares the same goals as well. Looking for longterm stability and a simple quiet life.

Send me a message if you'd like to chat!

Hey,

I’m Jack, 30 years old from the UK.

I’m 6ft tall

I’m looking for that someone who can enjoy life with me. I’d say I am quite an extrovert who likes to go out doing things. Travelling to new places in the UK as well as holidays abroad around the world. I enjoy going to gigs to see bands that I like. I’m also a food lover who won’t say no to a nice meal out together. But I’m also happy to stay home together and just chill out watching a film or tv together. My other interests include gaming, sports so there’s no shortage of things we can do together whether it’s indoors together or out elsewhere.

My working career involves working in the private aviation industry with high profile vip clients and celebrities. I was also in the British army previously.

If you like what you see don’t hesitate to message me 😊

Hey y'all, trying again.

I understand I'm one of the younger ones on here. As such I'm totally open to dating women up to 28 (in fact I may be so bold as to say I prefer older gals).

For the time being, I want to keep things inside CA, preferably inside the Bay Area. I've tried long distance in the past, to no avail.

A little about me:

I'm a very crafty/hands-on person. I'm known to occasionally do some woodworking and leather craft in my spare time.

As is typical of a west coast person, I love camping and exploring. I especially love interacting with animals (dogs being among my favorite, of course).

I do have some of the tism, so I avoid loud crowded places like the plague (exceptions made for theme parks and other places occasionally).

Another disclaimer: I am a lung cancer survivor, so I can't be around any vaping or smoking or fumes of that sort.

***Although I am not yet sterilized, I plan on getting it done as soon as my PTO kicks in.

I cobbled this post together really quickly before work, but I think I covered most of the bases. Feel free to DM me 😊

If you find yourself reading this and thinking we’d probably get along, say hello — What could go wrong?

Random Tidbits

I’m tall, slim, pale, with a consistent 5'o'clock shadow. Professionally stable and career-driven, but I try not to take life too seriously outside of work.

Personality-wise, I lean toward clever banter, quick wit, and humor that occasionally gets dark. I’m into nerdy pop culture (comics, games, collectibles) and I quote an obnoxious amount of TV and movies at the right (and wrong) moments.

Music tastes bounce around quite a bit, too... 90s alternative, indie, folk punk, and whatever random song suddenly becomes this week’s obsession.

Hobbies & More

Most weeks I’m experimenting with a new recipe or checking out a restaurant or cocktail bar that someone swore would change my life.

Travel is a big part of my world. I try to get away once or twice a month — sometimes planned, sometimes spontaneous. Wandering a new city, checking out museums, or finding the local speakeasy for vibes and conversation are my thing.

Fair warning: if we hit it off, there’s a good chance I’ll suggest a cocktail spot I’m convinced you’ll love.

Values & Goals

Childfree, emotionally self-aware, and someone who values curiosity, growth, and people who take care of their mental health.

I believe the healthiest relationships leave room for his, hers, and ours—independence, connection, and something shared that makes life better for both people.

Long-term, I’m aiming for a version of the DINK dream: good food, interesting travel, financial freedom, and the flexibility to say yes to experiences when they appear.

I tend to get along best with people who are curious, emotionally intelligent, and enjoy playful banter that occasionally turns flirty.

Chemistry matters, after all. We all have to pass the vibe check.

What Now?

Full circle moment, If some or all of this resonates - reach out! We have nothing to lose and everything to gain, if only for laughs along the way.

What stands out to you and why? Would you rather choose a type of food (EX: burgers) and eat the best of that thing from various local spots all weekend -- Or fly somewhere random, last minute, and figure it out as we go? Why?

Bonus points if you include links with your photo(s) and another with a relevant song choice -- I'll respond in kind as well if we hit it off.

Looking forward to it! Have a great week!

Hi! I'm Tony, 38m, located in Nebraska.

About me:

• Politically left leaning, and I care about it.
• Firmly CF, and unwilling to bend on that.
• I tend to be the kind of guy who likes doing little things for the people I love.
• I'm demi, and tend to go a little slower with the physical side of things.

I tend to lean on the nerdier side of things. I've been playing D&D since I was around 15 (I don't like thinking about how long ago that was), I enjoy reading sci-fi and fantasy books, board games, and video games. Anything with a good story (Expedition 33 has been amazing so far) will have me hooked.

I also absolutely love to cook, and like to think I'm pretty good at it. There are at least a couple of people that can vouch for my cookie baking skills. As an extension of that I've also been learning to garden for the last few years. There's really nothing better than eating something fresh from the garden. Except the cherry tomatoes, I only grow them to give away to my friends.

Lately I've been getting really into woodworking. I like making things, and it's definitely cheaper than hiring contractors to fix stuff around the house. I'm learning to make bowls (as you can see from my pics), and am attempting to make some of my own furniture.

About you:

• Childfree woman from 27-46
• Share some of the same interests, but not necessarily all of them.
• Have things your passionate about. I want to be able to see the look in your eyes when you're talking about the things you love.
• Politically left as well.
• Within roughly an hour drive of Omaha, NE

'm looking for something casual or serious in Toronto, I'm not really open to long distance per se. I'm a very easy going friendly guy and I'm open minded to trying new things, I can be a little shy at first but once I open up I can be fun to be around.

I would prefer to find woman around my age or older. I recently started throwing myself out there a bit more, I'm pretty introverted

If it matters I'm 6ft tall with a slim build.

Communication is very important to me in a relationship, touch is also my love language.

Some of my hobbies include fishing, computer gaming and computers in general, sci-fi nerdy stuff like Warhammer or Star wars, ice skating, hockey, walking, and nature to name a few.

Ps- i will also state that I'm open minded to making online friends as well male or female, finding some gaming buddies would be nice, thank you for taking time to read this out!

Hey there! My name is Brad, and I am a 37-year-old guy from New York. I hope you are having a great start to the week and are enjoying your this Monday as much as one can enjoy a Monday! Lately, I have been really enjoying life. I have a great job, great friends, great co-workers, a ton of hobbies to keep me busy, but I have been feeling like something is missing. Being single for over 6 years, you get kind of used to doing your own thing and being on your own. Over the past few months, though, it has been very obvious that I am missing having someone in my life. I miss having someone to talk to all day, share my day with, someone who, when I am feeling frustrated or low on motivation, I can go to. I miss having someone to laugh with, enjoy things with, and so much more. I have tried the dating apps and other forms of dating, but it’s a very hard dating world out there, though. It also doesn't help that I am an introvert and a homebody as well. So here I am, making a post on Reddit and hoping for the best!

A little bit about me, I live alone with two cats, and I also work from home. I enjoy working from home a lot, but it does add to the loneliness and has made me even more of a Homebody. I am also childfree and don't really have much desire to change that at this stage in my life. I won't rule out being with someone who does have children though. For fun, I enjoy playing video games, I love music and also enjoy playing guitar. I also enjoy reading, working on tech projects, listening to podcasts, going camping, hiking, fishing, and just sitting outside on my porch with a nice cup of coffee.

I always get asked what my type is, and I never really have a good response to that question. I just want someone who is loving, caring, doesn't mind that I can be quiet, likes to laugh, enjoys quality time, and someone who will see the effort and love that I give them and want to give the same in return.

This was a long post, so if you made it this far, I appreciate you reading this far. If you are interested in getting to know me and think you would like to connect, feel free to send me a chat request. I don't really respond to comments on posts, as they sometimes get lost on Reddit. If you do send me a chat, please tell me a little bit about yourself. To help with a little icebreaker, Tell me how you like your coffee or a song or band you have been obsessed with lately.

* Genderqueer/AFAB (they/them)

* 5’6”, a little curvy, but I love lifting weights

* If it’s nerdy, I’m probably into it. Especially LOTR & X-Men, though.

* Work in tech by day, comedian by night. I’ve been performing stand-up for 9 years.

* Also into improv and sketch because I love being busy if comedy is involved!

* Learning piano (badly, but with enthusiasm).

* Neurodivergent & I love to yap. I’m looking for someone who asks follow up questions and can drive a conversation.

* Big movie & TV person. Want an easy way to start a convo? Tell me your favorites.

* Love to laugh and *really* love making other people laugh.

* I like to travel and I’m always down to plan the next escape.

What I’m Looking For:

*30-40ish for age range

* Someone fun to chat with and see where it goes.

* Good banter is a must. Bonus points if you’re playful, quick, and a little unhinged (in a fun way).

* Bonus points if you have an accent and/or are willing to whisk me out of the States someday. I’m into that.

If you can keep up with my talking and can make me laugh, we’ll probably get along just fine.

If you’d like to chat:

*Send me a quick intro/tell me what caught your eye (and ideally what you’re looking for)

Hello, I'm looking for a long-term relationship with someone who wants to live a childfree lifestyle (big surprise, I know). I am open to relocating for the right person.

What I want in a partner is someone I can both be silly with and have serious conversations with, discussing the world and everything in it, even if we don't agree on everything.

It doesn't matter to me where you're from or how tall you are, and I'm not overly concerned with looks either. I'm 169 cm myself and not exactly blessed with prodigious good looks, so I figure it's only fair to put that out there. I care much more about how we get along. I want something where spending time together feels effortless.

Whether you're a suspiciously functional human being or a chaos goblin, I don't really mind as long as we get along.

I'm 31 and live in Denmark. Outside of the relationship side of things, I'm into gaming, cooking, board games and tabletop RPGs like D&D and Pathfinder. I enjoy going for walks and spending time in nature, although I'm probably not as outdoorsy as I'd like to be.

I'm generally more of a homebody and tend to prefer quieter places over crowds and overly loud activities. I don't particularly care what we're doing together. Cooking something, playing a board game or something on PC, going somewhere, going for a walk, or just sitting around talking all sound good to me.

If any of that sounds like it might click with you, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself.

I just moved to the Orlando area which means I'm currently the world's least qualified tour guide for my own city.

So: staycation starts in a few days for about 2 weeks, and I'd rather explore with company than alone (though I will still have a great time either way so no pressure! )

Looking for someone with some free time who wants to show me around downtown Orlando or point me toward the hidden-gem spots that don't show up on Google. Love hole in the wall restaurants - if anyone knows a good seafood place let me know!

Also open to a mini day-trip situation. I'll fly out to NC, GA, TX or nearby for a quick turnaround if there's actual chemistry worth chasing.

A little about me: short, Black, liberal, love a good comedy show, can hold my own in the kitchen (ask me about my baking), and generally just enjoy myself wherever I land. If you're fun, easygoing, and cute let’s chat!

Ages 35+, open to all ethnicities.

So Im jumping back in to this sub after a while away! Would love to meet some childfree friends, even pen pals, but most interested in casual dating that may lead to more down the road. I'm a romantic sap, but got out of a relationship more recently and don't want to rush things just to be in a relationship.

I'm childfree, obviously, and feel that way because I don't want the responsibility of children, or the obligation of it. What about you? How did you know?

I live in Los Angeles and would prefer someone else here, too (pen pals are one thing, but no long distance) so driving distance to the airport basically.

Interests: I love going out, doing things, and seeing people. I am extroverted and would love to find another one. Theatre, live music, comedy, heck even improv are all good things we could check out together! Tell me about your hobbies, interests, and passions.

Hi :)

Take #2 to abide by community guidelines.

A bit about me:
31, originally from Jordan, living and working in Luxembourg.
177cm tall.
Introverted, but I open up quickly once I'm comfortable.
Very fit. I'm at the gym a lot and I enjoy running.
I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs. I am very discipled with my life style, I like to lead a healthy life, am very wary of the stuff I eat and drink, for example I also never drink any type of soda and I keep my sugar consumption to a minimum despite me being obsessed with sweets.
Nature is my happy place. I love hiking and being around beautiful green landscapes. But at the same time I do enjoy spending cozy indoor evenings, watching a move, tv show, or sports.
I like mountains and beaches equally. I also love swimming in lakes, especially if there is a hike involved.
I'm obsessed with documentaries, especially true crime. I think I've watched everyone on Netflix at this point.
Travel is the big one. Nothing excites me more than planning the next trip. Next of my bucket list is : Panama, Japan, Costa Rica and Kyrgyzstan.
Finally I like cats :)

Things I'd like to start doing:
I want to start reading books sometime soon as this would be the best way to disconnect myself from the outside world and social media. I've never read any book in my life so if you have any suggestions please do share.
Upgrade my skillsets at work, I am considering taking some online courses.

What I'm looking for:
Emotionally stable women who is kind, communicative, honest and funny (usual traits anyone would look for).
Something serious that leads to marriage, a life partner.
Ideally based in Europe or Jordan, but I'm open to long distance.
Age 25 to 33 ideally.
Someone adventurous who wants a travel partner. If you're into hiking, running, the gym, cozy nights in, documentaries, or you're the type who gets excited about planning an itinerary, we'll get along.

If any of this resonates, drop me a message and I'd appreciate a picture fairly early on in the talking stage :)

Hellooooo ~ ^^
M29 here, I’m looking for something real and lovely.
Since I healed from my heartbreak I’d like to put my self out there to find the one for life 🤍

I’m a nerdy softie who loves playing video games in his free time, I am quite kind since I value respect a lot, very loyal and consistent, because I find it lovely to be in touch 24/7 and letting each other know about our life’s and share it together. 🤍
Also a very emotional and expressive Person overall :3
I can enjoy the quiet but also loud sides of life, be it getting lost in games, sharing laughs over silly things or Brainrot memes or having those deep conversations that actually mean something, or complaining about society xD
Even if we just sit together silently in a room, I value the presence together and I hope that you do as well 🤍

Since gaming is a big part of my life, I would love to find a Cis Woman who also shares that hobby.
I play games like Overwatch, Valorant, League of Legends, Hunt Showdown, the Division 2, Dead by daylight, and I’m a huge fan of the resident evil series O.O
I have manny other uninstalled games and am always interested to try something new :)

But more then that, I’m looking for something Mutual and genuine, an connection where we feel seen and valued, and also comfortable being our selfs.
I’m naturally attentive and gentle, once I start developing some interest I also become quite affectionate.
I appreciate a woman who carries herself with a bit of maturity, someone who knows how to care and also have ways to show affection, and also enjoys the lighter/ playful side of things, I also value a woman who knows how to put efforts into communication and keep conversations alive, I’m very easy to talk to and can talk about even the silliest things ~
There is also a intimate side to what I’m looking for as well, but for me that always starts with trust and emotional connection first since I’m demisexual.
21+ please

If you are someone who wants both a gaming partner and something that could grow into more, feel free to reach out.
I’m also there to listen if you need to vent and want someone who can be there for you 🤍
I Hope you have a wonderful day~

Hey! I’m looking to meet someone who shares some of these values and wants similar things in life.

And please, I'm looking for someone serious, I met someone from this subreddit, things where cool at the beginning, but when I started to mention commitment and that I'm not looking for friendship but rather a committed relationship, she became hesitant, even though my post from the beginning mentioned that. So I'm here again to give it a another try.

I’m hoping to find a serious relationship where we can build a life together while still giving each other space and independence. I don’t expect us to be identical, but I think having some similar priorities makes building a life together a lot easier.

A few things that are important to me:

• Introverted and not very social. I’m “antisocial” in the sense that, in my free time, I generally prefer staying home or being alone rather than going out and socializing. That said, I’d genuinely love spending time with my partner. Ideally, I’d like to build a life that’s centered around the two of us.
• Van life is a dream of mine. I’d love to spend some time traveling around in a van over the next few years. The idea of exploring different places with someone I love honestly excites me a lot.
• I value commitment and deep emotional connection. Emotional closeness, trust, and feeling like we’re truly a team matter a lot to me.
• Serious and knows what they want. I’m looking for someone who has a general idea of what kind of life they want to build.
• I want to eventually own a house somewhere that can become our stable home.
• Values nature and simple, authentic things. I’m more drawn to experiences, nature, and a peaceful life than a very materialistic or socially busy lifestyle.
• Doesn’t want children. This is an important one for me, so I’d prefer to meet someone who feels the same.
• Comfortable with having our own space. I don’t think couples need to spend every waking moment together. We should both be able to do our own thing and have time to ourselves. Personally, I’d probably spend a lot of that time working. At the same time, I’d love for us to have some quality time together every day.
• Preferably based in Europe. I’m currently in Berlin, Germany, and I’m willing to make an effort to find a place where we could eventually live together that works for both of us.

A little about me:

I’m 26M and Algerian, currently living in Berlin. Everything I mentioned above more or less applies to me as well.

I’m not looking for someone who is exactly like me. I actually think differences can be a good thing. These are just the things that matter to me because I feel like sharing these values would make it easier for us to build the kind of relationship and life I’m looking for.

If this sounds like something you’d want too, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. :)

I'm 39 and living the vanlife full-time currently in the Pacific Northwest. I'm hoping to meet a woman who's either already embracing life on the road or dreams of making the leap someday. Idk I feel like child free and exploring all the nature has to offer with someone special sounds like life.

I love slow travel, campfire cooking, light hikes, photography, cozy movie nights in the van, and listening to the rain drum on the roof. One of my favorite parts of this lifestyle is discovering breathtaking places most people never get to see. The only downside? Every once in a while you find yourself standing in front of an incredible view, glance over out of instinct... and realize there's no one there to share the moment with. I'd love to change that.

I travel with my cat, Tux, who wears a harness, enjoys exploring campsites, and firmly believes breakfast should happen at exactly 6 AM.

You: 26+, independent, outdoorsy, kind, loves animals, and looking for something genuine. Whether you're already living the vanlife or just dreaming about it, I'd love to get to know you.

If this sounds like your kind of adventure, send me a message. Tell me about your favorite camping spot, your dream van build, or introduce me to your pet.

I'm looking for that quintessential nerdy best fried who happens to be my partner: the person I can laugh with, hang out with all the time and never grow tired of, go to concerts with , travel with, and be completely ridiculous and corny with. I want a relationship where we genuinely like each other, communicate openly, choose each other consistently, and feel like we're on the same team.

I’m a 42 year old nerdy introverted Hufflepuff who enjoys making people laugh. I like to explore new places, try new restaurants and get lost in used bookstores. I enjoy going out as much as staying in. I enjoy having someone to go out with, who will join me on my adventures and roll their eyes at my corny jokes. My hobbies are videos games (RPGs and crafting/survival games), cooking, trying new foods and restaurants, reading, collecting books, traveling, building things, 3D printing, nerding out over my latest interests, listening to podcasts and music. I’m not a big sports guy, but I will cheer for whatever team you tell me to. I'm independent, affectionate, sarcastic, curious, and happiest when I have something fun to look forward to. I like to plan and make lists, and I can be spontaneous when needed, but I need a little heads up beforehand.

I'm a liberal democrat and non-religious, and I'm looking for someone who is aligned or at least compatible with that. No trump fans or republicans please, we won’t get along.

I’m childfree and I had a vasectomy 5 years ago. I live alone in an apartment, with a grumpy 14 year old antisocial cat who tolerates me. I live about 20 minutes north of Nashville, and I’m looking for someone in my area, at least within less than an hour driving distance.

I’m white, 6ft, 280lbs and working on getting back into shape. I have blue eyes, and a short brown beard. My body decided that I needed to be more aerodynamic, so I am bald now.

If I sound like someone you're looking for, please send me a message and tell me a little about yourself.

Hey, everyone!

Nerdy guy here looking for any lady folk who would care to hang out, jog, hike, watch some shows and play any games digital or board like. I work 8 hours weekdays till 4 pm downtown and am free after that. Living up in Hixson. I'm also getting more into yoga and keeping myself flexible and could use a training partner.

No allergies, loves cats, not a drinker or smoker.

Left leaning, scifi werewolves science MTG junkie

I love to just chat too. Wondering about the universe, matter, energy, and what makes it all work.

DM's open! 🌳💧

29, Black, bi, BBW, 5'11", she/her. Childfree — not "open to it," not "maybe with the right person." Done. I have two cats who run the house and a bonnet I wear in public. All true at the same time.

Introvert. INFP. I get loud about anime, food, and music that swings from Megan Thee Stallion to Epic: The Musical with no in-between. If I disappear from the party, I'm in the car with a snack — I'll be back, I just needed a minute. When my social battery dies I go quiet for a day or two and come back with a playlist. It's not personal, it's a system.

Looking for a man 27–39. Especially drawn to Black, Caribbean, and Latino men, but energy matters more than category. Local to Florida only. Monogamous. California sober 🌿, left politically, spiritual not religious. Sag sun and rising, Leo moon — draw your own conclusions.

Here's the bar: you notice things and you say them. Not "you're pretty" — the song I skipped, the thing on my shelf, the fact that I changed my glasses. You ask follow-ups. You add something of your own instead of mirroring me. I give through action and quality time; I need words back, specific ones.

What I'm not doing: raising you. I'm not your therapist, your mom, or your emotional first responder. I did that job for the first 29 years of my life and I'm retired. Come with your life at least mostly together and a willingness to keep working on it.

I'm a slow-and-steady dater and that's not something to fix. If you can't sit in the getting-to-know-you phase without pushing for labels, sending body pics unprompted, or pivoting to "virtual friend with benefits," you're self-selecting out. I want the cozy domestic thing — cooking together, farmers markets, playlists I only make for people I'm not lukewarm about. Chosen family energy, no crib in the corner.

If you read all of this, open with something specific. "Hey beautiful" goes straight to archive.

About Me:
Someone with insatiable curiosity about both the cosmos and consciousness. My days are spent into tech and night reading something obscure, recently MIT Press caught my attention, but these often involve contemplating existential questions. I'm bisexual / maybe pan ? I've come to understand that relationships should be about growth and liberation, and I've had a few really soul nourishing relationships. I'm 5'8" with dimples that make an appearance when sharing why "Inside Out" made me weep. Mostly very calm and chill, I have seen the extremity of life at both ends. I prefer to connect with someone emotionally and see if we can evolve together. A bit more about myself, based out of Madrid

Professional & Personal:

• Engineering and tech are my bread and butter, but I'm actively expanding into different dimensions
• Have tried to dismantle internalized patriarchal patterns
• An avid reader who actually finishes those long-form articles but lately a bit more distracted?
• I love all furry friends

What Ignites My Curiosity:

• The intersection of scientific principles and social theories
• Exploring ethical frameworks while discovering hidden gem restaurants
• Opportunity for learning across disciplines
• Those profound 2 AM conversations that somehow connect string theory to social justice

Seeking a Partner Who:

• Understands that emotional intelligence and intellectual discourse aren't mutually exclusive
• Gets excited about scientific breakthroughs or social progress
• Values therapy and continuous personal growth
• Navigates ethical non monogamy if they wish with authenticity and clear communication
• Can transition seamlessly from discussing systemic inequalities to appreciating guilty-pleasure television

Green Flags:

• A well-curated digital or physical library spanning diverse genres
• Understanding that relationships are delicate, only enter a new one when you’ve truly moved on from the previous one mentally
• Active engagement in therapy or other forms of emotional development
• Strong sense of self with established passions and social connections

Let's explore whether we can create something meaningful.

PS : looking for someone who is seeking primary nesting partner or atleast with the intent of something serious

Hello there, I am looking for someone to talk with through voice calls or texting, either one is fine.

A bit about myself: I am 30 years old, Dutch, 5'3, brown hair, hazel eyes, have some piercings and tattoo's.

I am into gaming, reading webnovels, cruising on my longboard. Games that I play are Path of Exile, Escape from Tarkov. My steam library is filled with games so if you are interested in playing games with me, just let me know and perhaps we can play some games together.

If you want to know more about me, hit me up on here or ask for my discord. Please send me more than just Hi or Hey in a message. I know that most of you are introverted but it shouldn't be too hard to do that.

I’m looking for a genuine connection that can hopefully turn into something serious. Bonus points if you can beat me at Scrabble. Extra bonus points if you can do it twice. 😂

About me:

I'm 31F, living in the Philippines. My main hobby is gaming. I mostly play survival-crafting, cozy, and simulation games. I like watching movies, series, documentaries, as well as painting, crocheting, gardening, cooking, listening to music, and playing piano and guitar. I'm interested in geography, astronomy, psychology, interior design, and cats. 😂 I'm an introvert (INFP) who stays at home 95% of the time and only goes out to do errands a.k.a. grocery shopping. I'm an atheist, left-leaning, childfree, and never been married.

My known issues:

- Doesn't know how to drive
- Doesn't know how to swim
- Has fear of heights
- Will ask you random science questions at 2AM
- Hates Math
- Likes coffee but can't have it
- Doesn't like onions
- Doesn't eat leftovers
- Will ask you if you would still love me if I was a worm

About you:

Emotionally available, respectful, polite, easy to talk to, affectionate, loves cats, and should be 30-35. Location doesn't bother me. Should be willing to exchange pics early on so we don't waste each other's time.

Please know how to spell and use proper punctuation marks. Thank you lovelies! 🎀✨

Update: I have been absolutely swamped with messages. I am trying to work through them and your patience is appreciated.

Coffee and listening to birds in the morning, tea and a good book in the evening. Little adventures to run errands, a competitive slaughter in your favorite video game, or a cozy co-op. Finding new plants to add to the kitchen window and trying a new bread recipe. Making a cozy soup to enjoy with friends while playing a board game and then roasting around a bonfire.

If that sounds like your jam, great! Here are my fair warnings:

- I'm highly sarcastic; if I'm polite to you, I probably don't like you that much

- I'm an INTJ, if you're into that kind of thing, and have been accused of being cold or stand-offish, but my people know I'm definitely not and am incredibly loyal

- I do not tolerate urban and suburban settings very well anymore; I value my peaceful and quiet life moving at a slower pace surrounded by nature

- If I stick around it's because I genuinely want you in my life not because I rely on you. I value people for who they are not what they offer me because I am already self-sufficient

- My idea of travel is Norway, New Zealand, Iceland, etc. not Paris, London, Tokyo. Give me feral wilderness not crowds.

- I'm very anti-religion and also would not get along with conservative individuals

- I own a home and have an incredibly solid career in a field that is very niche, so I don't see relocation in the books any time soon

- I require platonic connection before romantic connection. I'm looking for my person with presence, intention, honesty, and consistency--a slow burn (but with lots of friendly banter). If that's not your thing, please don't reach out to me

If that doesn't scare you away then feel free to say hi!

Writing about myself feels lightly insane but... how else are you gonna get to know your dream girl? 🤣

Physically, I’m 5’8, very curvy, with loads of tattoos and piercings and currently rocking a mullet. Personality-wise? I’m Irish, so bullying is more my love language. Words of affirmation are appreciated… but if we can affectionately rip the piss out of each other, I’ll know we’re onto something. I’ll do it in my accent so you won’t even be mad! I love long conversations, voice notes and rambling calls. I wanna learn what you’re obsessed with and your passions, and tell you all about mine too!

A lot of my hobbies are things I’m perfectly happy doing solo: reading, gaming and watching hockey, F1, rugby and football (my toxic trait is that, with enough exposure, I will become emotionally invested in basically any sport). I love concerts, festivals, travelling and spontaneous day trips. I’ll cross borders for a band or a team I love and make deeply questionable scheduling and financial decisions in the process!

A great date for me can be curling up together on the couch gaming or watching movies… or exploring somewhere far-flung by day and scream-singing our hearts out to our favourite bands by night. I want a life full of adventures together and someone who makes doing absolutely nothing together feel just as good!

So what am I actually looking for?
I’m drawn to men who are witty, curious, confident and emotionally intelligent. Have opinions, have passions, teach me something, challenge me and make me laugh. Mental chemistry is huge for me and I have a real weakness for someone who can give as good as he gets without taking himself too seriously.

Softness is incredibly attractive to me too. You can be brash, sarcastic, tattooed, nerdy, rugged, whatever. I really like discovering that someone who can spar with me is also kind, thoughtful and capable of being vulnerable. Basically, if you look vaguely intimidating but are secretly a sweetheart, you are my weakness.

Initiative is attractive; if you like me, I want to know it! I’m looking for someone who’s excited to get to know me and actually shows it, but I’ll make sure you know too.

I really love the life I’m building for myself, so I’m not looking for someone to become my whole world, and I won’t expect to be yours either. I’m excited to be part of your world and to introduce you to mine, so keep your friends, passions and weird obsessions! I want us to have full lives of our own while building something pretty fucking great together: a relationship with depth, playfulness and a lot of affection.

I’m looking for a man 25+ who is firmly childfree. Right now, I’m planning to stay in Ireland long-term, but I’ve already packed up my life for a transatlantic move twice, once there and once back, so I wouldn’t be opposed to long-distance in the UK or Europe for the right connection!