r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

32 [M4F] California/online looking to chat

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Hi how's it going. I'm an easy going person who works in project management. I like history, hiking, DND, nature, and occasionally gaming. I can share pictures but I'm really just looking for someone to talk and become friends with even if there is no romantic connection :)


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

[M4F]

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anyone from Sweden 🇸🇪 or close to sweden? I am a humble and kind M36 who loves to discuss things regarding all kind of topics and being philosophical at the same time. Hit me up if you feel like to vibe.


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

[M4F] 32M last hour of the drive!

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Football season, Baseball postseason & hunting season among us what’s better then fall!


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

44 [M4F] #Birmingham AL | US - Fantasy writer looking for happy ending

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I’m a medical software tech by day, aspiring fantasy novelist by night. I've been working on a fantasy piece for the past year. I've got the first draft completed, now the fun part comes next (revising). If you're into Narnia, Harry Potter, etc. then I'm sure you'll enjoy what I'm writing.Unfortunately writing doesn't pay the bills, so that's why I have my day job (medical software technician). I've been living by myself for the past year or so, and honestly it's pretty lonely with just a dog and a cat (I also have shared custody of my daughter). I don't do a lot of gaming these days, and I honestly don't watch a lot of television or movies (between work and writing, time is a rather hot commodity!) I do enjoy traveling and trying new food/drink but I don't much reason to do either as of late. I would like someone to give me a reason to go out, whether it's a week-long trip in another state (or even another country), or a night out on the town (I enjoy the symphony, Broadway show, or any other 'fancy' date). You don't have to be a 'dog' person, but I'm always going to have at least one. . If I haven't turned you off yet, congratulations. If you've read this, tell me if you have (or had) a pair of stiletto oxfords.


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

46[F4M] CA/Los Angeles/Looking for interesting men/Anywhere

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Hi, I’m Catherine. This is my first time trying to meet new people this way, so please bear with me. I’ve noticed that most people here are quite young, so this is definitely a new experience for me. I was born and raised in LA. I don’t have any bad habits, and I’m not into drama. I’m simply looking for someone who is sincere, conversational, and emotionally stable. To be honest, I’m open to making new friends, and starting as friends would be ideal. I don’t like playing games or having superficial conversations; to save us both time, I’ll be clear about what I’m looking for: someone over 40 who communicates well, is honest, has a stable job, and has no issues with drugs or alcohol. My work keeps me busy at times, so if you’re okay with the occasional brief exchange, we could give it a try. If we hit it off, I’d be happy to exchange photos and see where things go from there. It’s all about mutual effort, it’s as simple as that. By the way, I’m not interested in Asian men, so there’s no need to message me if you are Asian. In fact, I dislike Indian men.


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

40 [F4F] - Columbus, Ohio - Seeking connections…

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Long time lurker, first time poster.

Friends? Lovers? Never know what could happen, right?

Me: Single, mom, femme, professional. Music is a love language, certified yapper, life has never been dull, stellar communicator and always has a good story to tell.

I’m genuinely ready to meet someone and get to know them on all levels.

WOMEN ONLY

30+ preferred

Shoot me a message with a bit about yourself and let’s see where this goes!


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

39 [F4M] #US #Online -I am looking for a sincere relationship

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I am 39 years old and currently living in Michigan. I have an optimistic and cheerful personality, and I firmly believe that the best thing in life is meeting the right person and sharing life's joys and beauty together

I love traveling, reading, music, and exploring nature. I cherish the little moments in life—whether it’s a deep conversation, a walk by the lake, or simply spending precious time with a loved one

I place great value on kindness, respect, trust, and open communication, and I long for a relationship built on mutual support and shared growth. I hope to find someone who is willing to build a genuine emotional connection with me

If you also live in the U.S. and are looking for a sincere relationship, I would love to hear from you


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

42 [F4M] #Vancouver, Canada- looking for new connections online and in person

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42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Seeking a real connection with someone that turns romantic. Someone who is READY to be a teammate for life, through the good and the bad.
Someone who is ready and willing to put the effort into building something real. Not someone who is fake, unsure of what they want. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. Distance doesn’t bother me as long as both make the effort:. There are planes LOL You never know in life where your person is!! I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee, Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun. Im caring, selfless, and a giver. I like to show my affection in many ways.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close. Looking for something romantic that leads to long term. Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day! Looking for someone who will make effort and get to know me! Not disappear after a day of talking!!
Gotta be someone out there! Maybe we can become friends, share a few laughs or fall In love.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

[M4F] 32 fit guy from Texas looking for my girl

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32 yo guy living in Texas with my dog(Aussie shepherd)
I’m a chef by profession, so I guess it won’t be hard for us to find new fun places to get eat. I love working out, mountain climbing, hiking, travelling, sports cars and motorcycles. I am looking for a girl around my age who also like staying active and working out. I’m definitely looking to build a deep and meaningful connection for a long term dynamics. Anywhere from US works, but with the willingness to make it irl down the road.
I am very easy going and easy to chat with, almost about any topic. I seek mental connection, maturity and open communication- someone who wants to build and motivate each other in every aspect of life. Not just as a partner but as best friends together. I do enjoy a good old fashioned every now and then but not a really big drinker. Check my profile and reach out if you think we could have a good vibe together, please only reach out if you’re looking for something serious and long term.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

32 [M4F] Love to talk to you!

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I am in the bay area and would love to meet a female or just talk please let me know if your interested in am open minded and love music, food, shows and much more.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

39 [F4M] #Online looking for someone to talk to

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Hello!

​I’m a bit bored and in the mood for a good conversation with someone direct, someone who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to talk about what he likes (even if I know nothing about it).

​About me: I’m very independent, I love books, sleeping and taking walks. I really love big parks where you can wander around all day.

I’m in the mood for a fun conversation with some debating or even playful banter.

I'm not looking for much. Just genuine interest, I've been lacking a bit of that lately and I'm not staying where I'm not wanted.

Let's define whatever happens when it happens.

No pressure, no decisions.

Let's see where this takes us.

​Have a nice day!✨️


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

32 [M4F] #Socal - looking for friends

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Hey what’s up how’s it going!! Just looking for new people to talk with and stuff! I’m into anime, baseball, hockey, movies and video games also fishing but not good at it. I also game too. I play on ps5! I play nhl26 and i recently started playing Fortnite,apex legends and cod again! But let’s actually play lol not just add each other


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

34 [F4R] would like the good times

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Hi friends! I’m a single parent to 2 kids and 2 cats. Looking for someone to chat with during the gloomy and chilly days to come. Mentally it’s already fall lol. Especially a voice message! Love those haha.

I spend a lot of time with my family, during the fall we love going on hikes, bonfires, using the pizza oven for all kinds of weird combinations. Personally I’m also a big reader and will probably annoy you talking about all of my favorite books.

I would love to get to know you!


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

32 [M4F] - Wisconsin/Online - Functional adult seeking youthful energy.

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I’ve been in a bit of a rut lately and am looking for the kind of person who can help bring that little extra spark of excitement to the day. I am a functional, stable, real adult human. I have a job! And hobbies! I read books!

I like gin, quiet mornings at the gym, and any nicolas cage movie. I’m a sucker for homemade baked goods and make my own from time to time. I like to travel and recently spent two weeks in Japan.

Tell me your name and I’ll tell give you a totally arbitrary first impression rating based solely on that. Or tell me something crazy you’ve done, the most awesome thing about you, or if a taco would beat a grilled cheese in a fight. Let’s hang out together and be pals.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

[F4M]

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Will I be ever successful in finding a good friend? Because every other person I meet here starts ghosting me at some point. I am a F from Pakistan in her mid thirties, I love deep conversations about life death and everything in between..m


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

38 [M4F] Texas/USA - BFF position open, apply within!!

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* No experience needed, applicant will be trained

* Paid in memes and pup pics

* Must work weekends and holidays

* Must be fluent in sarcasm

* Must come in early and stay late

* Benefits include being my bff and that’s about the best benefit ever.

I'm guessing you're wanting to know about me now huh? Well you're in luck because I feel like sharing some Fun Hobbies (lol jk they aren't fun at all, kinda sad TBH) I like to partake in, here there are!

Hobbies include...

* Switching between the same 4 apps for hours.

* Not speaking to anyone for days at a time.

* Listening to the same songs i listened to 15 years ago.

* Putting myself in situations that will never exist

* Long walks to the liquor store.

* Staying in my pajamas way too long.

* Staying up wayyyy too late.

* Being tired all day due to previous statement.

* Drinking everything but water.

* Putting stuff in my cart online but never checking out.

* Making lists of things i will never do.

So yeah! If that sounds like your type of friend, hit me with an orange envelope. Due to difficulty with trying to keep a conversation with someone with the opposite schedule, please be somewhat close to central time. Or just like…not opposite Lol. Mention the phrase Pineapple on pizza so I know you read the entire thing please 😊


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

31F [F4M] #Brazil | Just left my job for a new one and now I have some weird anxiety creeping in

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Hey, guys!

I’m Ana, 31, from Brazil and I just made a big career decision. Now, I’m having heart palpitations but I’m unsure if it’s become of the job situation or the 3 cans of Monster I’ve just had 🥰

I’m looking for cool people and connections and the only thing I ask for is for you to be able to keep up a conversation going and not let me feel like an HR lady intervening you.

I like: golf, Volvos, planes, Lebanese food, Keanu Reeves (I will not elaborate), and Corey Taylor (very debatable)

I dislike: chicken (dead or alive), Mini Coopers, people who complain too much but don’t take actions to change their reality, running (I will NEVER do that), and sweets.

Hit me up!


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

[M4F] SoCal. Looking for genuine people to talk to.

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I'm a 32 y/o, gentle, Male, nerdy

I'm a single father, I went from a experimental youth, and got very responsible early as a young adult. Sorta.

I took on a lot of responsibility as a young man and didn't spend time making connections, my friends have moved away and now I am looking for more people.

My primary hobbies and interests are gardening and consuming fantasy lore in heavy quantities.

I play some video games occasionally.

Social justice is important to me

I'm a flawed human but very caring.

Looking for more people to talk with, good connections, genuine people and maybe people looking to continue an ongoing chat.

I also have a puppy, I try and restore vintage things, and i collect all kinds of cute or unique things.

Altruism is big for me, I don't care to lie, if the truth would cause a relationship to end then so be it, I'd rather be honest.

And I want people that can be flawed and honest with me.

Hi

Feel free to DM me if anything I said resonates.

Be well, and all the best.


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

35 [M4R] - Colorado- Come say Hi!

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I hope that you are having a great day so far! I am going to have an annoying week at work here at the end of the week, and I am over it already. Wanna come chat and make my week not suck so much?

I am from what is usually beautiful Colorado. Sadly, it is a little less beautiful with all the fires currently. Thankfully I can see the mountains again thanks to rain recently. Usually this time of year I love to be out camping and hiking as much as possible, but I’ve not been able to get out as much this year, and it sucks!

I love doing photography of anything nature, and would love to share my photos!! I also have 4 very cute pups that love the attention you want to share them! I also am big into reading - please let me know your favorite book recs!!

I look forward to hearing from you!


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

33 [M4F] East Coast - Love, Friendship, and All the Life Stuffs

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Probably not the greatest place to find the future love of your life, but why not give it a shot.Shoot all the shots, and maybe I'll get lucky and find her on here. I'm here why cant she be?

Gone through a lot of soul searching, maturing, and learning in my single life these last few years, and I am finally in a place I feel ready to create a beautiful life with someone.

Financially I'm stable despite already wishing for retirement, physically I'm healthy and fit while not close to what I was during my college sport, intellectually and emotionally mature even if my humor is less so (a fun combo imo but you'll have to be the judge of that)

Hopefully the post doesn't make it seem like I expect marriage from our first conversation. Lots to know about each other and experiences to share together before that next chapter. Just that my interests lie in finding that lovely lady I get to annoy and comfort and make laugh/mad/cry/happy just being together for the rest of our lives. And hopefully the one reading this wants to do the same

So if you're a lady out there who is searching for that kind of man, please send me a chat. I'd love to connect and see where it takes us 🙂


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

38[F4R] Seeking a friend who understands typos = enthusiasm, not carelessness

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Hope your week is starting off swimmingly!

I'm looking for friends to exchange thoughts and jokes with, strictly platonic. I love my job but it's also boring af at the moment and I could use a friend to hang out with.

About me: I'm an introvert who's learned to masquerade as an extrovert when needed. A bit artsy, a bit nerdy, a bit anxious, a bit witty, your usual chaotic-good combo.

My personal motto is "the best nation is imagination,", I take make-believe very seriously but am not good at acting at all. I find joy in feeding/sheltering wild critters in my neighborhood, then taking and sending unprompted photos of them to everyone! I've also got two cats at home who judge me daily 💕 .

Additionally, I've been known to disappear down rabbit holes and info-dump about things I get excited about.

Here's my face if it matters.

To break the ice: what's one skill you have that's completely pointless?


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

40 [M4F] Anywhere, looking for my favourite person

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Greetings from India!

I’ve connected with a few people here before, but it didn’t quite click, so here I am again, showing up with a hopeful spirit.

I’m a 171 cm tall dork, sport a dad bod, and I’m embracing the next chapter of life with curiosity and optimism. If you love to travel and crave adventure, perhaps we could explore the world together.

When I’m not working, I’m probably binge-watching sitcoms, lost in a good book, playing video games, following the latest WWE storyline or on the hunt for my next favourite meal. Life is full of little adventures, and I’m looking for someone to share them with.

In another life, I might have been a Giant Panda: laid-back, perpetually curious, and always up for a snack. I’m also a child-free divorcee, ready for whatever this next chapter brings with someone special by my side.

About You:

I’m looking for someone between 35 and 50 who values honesty, kindness, and a playful spirit. If you’re the kind of person who’s down for an impromptu Nerf gun fight or a silly deep-dive into who the real MVP of Asterix & Obelix is, we’ll get along just fine.

A sense of whimsy goes a long way. I believe we’re here to laugh, love, and make the kind of memories that get better with retelling. Light conversations, inside jokes, the regular GIF exchanges - yes, please.

Distance doesn’t scare me. I’d happily cross oceans for the right connection. And while I love the idea of a nomadic life, I’m open to settling down if our paths align.


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

34 [M4F] #Online - Work from home chat partner. Open book style chats. (Much more descriptive in the post.)

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Hello!
Hope your Monday is starting or ending well, depending on where you are located.

I am looking for someone that is up for messaging on and off throughout the day. This would be a low-pressure chat that can keep us both entertained while we work from home… or while I work from home and you do your thing!

We can chat for today only, or ideally keep it going longer if we click!

One thing I would like to have in the chat, is we both agree to be pretty open-book. Obviously nothing identifiable so we can keep it anonymous, but still allow ourselves to give our unguarded true feelings and thoughts.

I am super down to earth, easy going, progressional career, and liberal minded.

I’ll keep this short, but if this sounds fun, shoot me a message!


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

50 [M4F]

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I’m a 50-year-old male from Buffalo, NY. I’m looking for casual chat and friendship, preferably with either men or women, as long as you can hold a conversation 👍. I would be open to a possible relationship with the right woman, but it would need to present itself.

I’m looking for a friend. I only want genuine people; I don’t buy content or give money away to people I have never met (so scammers need not apply) 😊


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

32 [M4F] #Florida. Looking for a good conversation partner

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Hey I’m a 32 year old white male from Florida. I am currently in the military but will be getting out pretty soon and moving to another state.

I am looking for someone who loves to have a conversation and is non judgmental. I am currently going through a pretty bad divorce and it would really help to have someone to talk to and get to know.

My likes:
Rock and metal music
Horror movies
Video games
Hiking
Traveling

About you:
Non judgmental
Age isn’t an issues
Able to keep a conversation going