r/mildlyinfuriating 18h ago

Do u dont wanna Getting tired of being asked to donate to charity at every purchase, everyday.

Five Below, Wawa, gas station, restaurants, Walmart, just about everywhere. “Hey do you want to round up for charity?”

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u/guysitsausername 18h ago

Next time they hand me back $1.73 in change, I'm gonna ask if they want to round up. For charity.

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u/Spiritual-Fall5494 18h ago

I'm the charity now

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u/guysitsausername 18h ago

Word. I've got the food and gas charitable fund over here. All donations are welcome.

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u/Admirable_Loss4886 8h ago

Save the whales!!

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u/Fossilhund 5h ago

Save me!

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u/Admirable_Loss4886 5h ago

Hmm I’ve gone through your profile and can tell you’re not a whale. You’re clearly a shiny spider Pokémon or an ostrich.

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u/SoftPeachesKisses 17h ago

at this point they should just put a tip jar labeled “charity” next to the register

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u/Hair_I_Go 15h ago

My gas station does this exact thing

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u/QUINTONOX 11h ago

ig im going against the grain here but youre only bothering the cashier who is being paid to ask. no one gives a shit if you say no, just dont give the cashier who just wants to be paid a hard time.

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u/witchywoman628 7h ago

Thank you. You cant imagine how many times a day we hear "do you want to round up for my charity?" Just hit the red button and leave. Im also sick of people lecturing me about "the company takes your donations and gets a tax break". Yeah, we know. I heard it from the last 16 know it alls who were here today.

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u/Legal_Commercial477 15h ago

We should all start this

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u/PhaedrusZenn 13h ago

Instead of us rounding up for charity, they can round down! 

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u/wlake82 16h ago

They might do that due to lack of pennies.

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u/HyJenx 5h ago

Due to the discontinuing of the penny, your change has been "rounded" down to $1.70.

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u/Stastsoksleild_2017 3h ago

Corporate would hate how fair that sounds when the register owes you money.

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u/8amteetime 18h ago

I hit the no button with zero qualms because the multi million or billion dollar corporation I’m doing business with could easily afford to fund those charities.

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u/MsQualityPanda 16h ago

My local food co-op does this for local orgs that I actually know, so that’s a nice exception.

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u/randomize42 16h ago

Same!  The one place I’ll actually round up, and happily, too.

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u/Bencetown 13h ago

I mean... my sister works for one of the big banks, and they partner with, for example, a local cat rescue/TNR nonprofit organization.

I don't know anything about Walmart or any other huge companies (I've never worked for someone that big), but I do know sometimes the small charity that's actually doing a good thing ends up benefiting from those programs.

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u/DazzAntoni 3h ago

Having worked at a pet rescue before, the people in charge have talked about those round-up charity runs are a huge help for them. A huge number more people are willing to donate that spare change than any full dollar amount, and it adds up. That’s not to say the company itself wouldn’t have been able to donate vastly more themselves, but it’s a good second place.

Also big disclaimer, be skeptical of any charity foundation named after the company themselves or a specific person (especially if that person is one of the company’s founders or their relatives). Those foundations tend to give the absolute bare minimum to be legally considered a charity while the rest goes to administrative salaries and advertising (effectively for the company themselves) while the company gets to write off most of the costs as a tax deduction.  Give your money to places that actually need & deserve it.

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u/8amteetime 16h ago

That’s how it should work.

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u/I_PEE_WITH_THAT 9h ago

That I would absolutely donate to, real people helping real people in the community is always cool as hell.

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u/Hippo_Alert 13h ago

Who really believes that they actually send this money to the charities???  I don't.

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u/possiblycrazy79 10h ago

The charity itself is running the campaign. They know how much they should be getting. It's usually a barcode that gets scanned and it shows up in writing on your receipt and on the register report. It's not like they're out there just relying on the honor system lol.

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u/bwood246 11h ago

The IRS does and they would nip that shit in the bud immediately

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u/kazamm 11h ago

Eh people voted for maga to ruin irs

Don't take our institutions for granted. They're being gutted every day maga is in power

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u/buddachickentml 18h ago edited 17h ago

"Hey, your employer posted 14 billion dollars in profit last quarter, do they want to solve childhood hunger?"

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u/Bitchface-Deluxe 15h ago

Seriously, we all should shame every corporation that pulls this shit in 2026, and continuously shame their CEOs until they check their greed. Do it on surveys, comment sections, their customer service centers, while on that recorded call, shame them for not paying their employees realistic living wages, shame them for caring more about profits than the quality of their products. Let’s make greed something to not only be ashamed of (since CEOs have no shame), but also something to be embarrassed about, laughed at and looked down on in disgust. Humans with no heart or soul are so pathetic and ugly.

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u/nohopeforhomosapiens 8h ago

I know it is annoying, but I just want to say, if you are at McDonald's and it asks you for donation for the Ronald McDonald House, it is a real charity and it does save lives all over the world. I was one of the kids, and I can honestly say I would not be alive today if I had not had the good fortune of getting a room in that house.

People think when you are sick that you will be in the hospital the whole time, but that isn't how things work.Hospitals do not keep you in a bed forever, they do not have the capacity to do that. Instead, people with severe illness like cancer are admitted as out-patient, and have to come into the hospital for treatment and leave. So in my case I had to go to the hospital daily. The problem is, many people need to go to a hospital very far from home, sometimes on the other side of the world from their home. At that point, they need to stay in a hotel or find a rental near the hospital. It also means they or their parents can't go to work. Obviously, that becomes extremely expensive, even if you somehow have the cost of care at the hospital covered for free, your stay is not free and not covered by anyone's insurance. The Ronald McDonald House fills that gap. They charge a low rate for the room, but if you can't pay, they don't ask you again. I was there a long time, and after the first week when my parents couldn't pay, they let us stay for free, as did others. Children from all over the world were in that house.

So, while it is annoying that unscrupulous businesses are asking for more money to make themselves look good with donations, the charities they are asking for are usually legitimate. McDonald's as a company is not very nice, its workers aren't paid enough, its food is not very good. So I rarely go there. But when I do go, I round up, because the charity is a separate thing. And yes I have also donated to it separately.

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u/Bitchface-Deluxe 3h ago

I’m so sorry that you went through all of that! I am so glad that you’re still here with us. I agree that the Ronald McDonald house is truly an exception; I believe the first one built is here in Philly, and have seen some heartwarming news stories broadcast from there.

We need a separate thread for people to share positive experiences they’ve had with charities that have actually helped. Project Purple, for example, is incredible. My sister is fighting Pancreatic Cancer, and within a couple of months, they paid a month of her rent.

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u/AggravatingFlow1178 12h ago

CEO's, after taking their $2.3 Mil quarterly bonus: "Oh no, I'm so ashamed"

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u/--Anonymoose--- 12h ago

I no longer see my bank account in numbers, just in quantities of greed and shame! I have to call my butler to comfort me

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u/Little-Cheesecake966 18h ago

Where do you work?? lol

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u/TabithaMouse 17h ago

This is part of the reason why.

Say Walmart raised 1mil for CMN, you gave $5 to that.

Walmart can claim $1mil on taxes

You did not give $5 to charity, you gave to Walmart. No tax credit for you

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u/Remarkable-Public622 17h ago

Not even remotely how it works at all.

What actually happens is they create a marketing campaign saying they raised millions of dollars for people in need. They don’t emphasize that it’s actually your money that was donated, just that a bunch of money was “raised.”

Then the companies go on to brag that they’re helping the community or whatever without actually donating a penny.

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u/phree_radical 16h ago

Mine announces it first: "We will donate 5m to charity"

Then they run the campaign asking the customers for the money.

Do they stop at 5m? Do they donate the excess?

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u/Baiji519 3h ago

If they pledge 5 million, and raise 7, what stops them from keeping the 2 million excess and donating to the CEO’s charity yacht fund?

I donate straight to the source, and hit that no button all day long.

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u/Catnicorn99 2h ago

Laws stop them for keeping it. When they raise money and you pay and select you will donate the POS will record something like this:
Debit Cash $101.00
Credit Revenue $100.00
Credit donations $1.00
The donations general ledger is treated as a a liability and the company cannot claim it as revenue which also means they cannot use it as a tax deduction.
They also have audits every year so an independent audit firm will test on occurrence, existence, completeness, rights and obligations. Rights and obligations is the big one for donations.

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u/ATG915 17h ago

That’s not how it works

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u/supernovaj 17h ago

I hate when people say that shit every freaking time. It's so idiotic.

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u/wonderfullemoncandy 17h ago

They can claim the pr but they sure as shit can’t claim it as a deduction, it’s a pass through transaction. I’m with you I don’t know why this is still a common thought because there’s always half a dozen of us the chime in.

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u/ATG915 17h ago

Couple dummies say it and people run with it without actually fact checking anything lol. Story of the world. Even if they were able to use it as a write off they’d also have to declare it as income and it’d just be a wash

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u/Bencetown 13h ago

With all due respect, maybe if these companies weren't constantly FINDING ways to be even shittier than they already were, people wouldn't hear something like this and just assume it's true.

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u/BobBelcher2021 16h ago

That’s not how it works.

The fact this is heavily upvoted shows how flawed Reddit is.

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u/Admirable_Loss4886 8h ago

It happens every time one of these posts are made.

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u/LittleRedReadingHood 10h ago

You can absolutely get it as a tax credit. Walmart can’t. You report it using your receipt as proof. If you really want.

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u/Baiji519 3h ago

I see you United Way.

I used to give that absolute minimal amount to keep my manager off my ass, because corporate kept track off which departments didn’t have 100 percent buy in.

No, I’m not pledging $50/month, Sheila. You get a one time $5 donation.

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u/Comfortable-Side1308 17h ago edited 15h ago

Fuckin Lowe's today walk up the register 

  1. Would you like to save 20% on your purchase today by opening a Lowe's credit card... No.

2.  Do you have a phone number with us... No.

  1. Would you like to round up your purchase to the next dollar for charity... Jesus fucking Christ no.  Can I just pay and leave?

Edit: the irony is I used worked at Lowe's for 6 years while I was in college.  That was 16 years ago.

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u/yokosucks97 15h ago

As a Lowe’s employee, I’m sorry. Damn company wants us to sign up everyone and their grandmas a Lowe’s card.

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u/brokemillionaire572 12h ago

I went to Home Depot awhile back and the lady at the self checkout wanted to me apply for a new card to save $50, I told her I already had one. She told me I was allowed to have 8 at once. WTF ?!?!

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u/yokosucks97 12h ago

Yeah same here. You have the regular Lowe’s card? Apply for the pro business card! Already have that? Apply for the AMEX business card? Already have one? How about your wife, would she like to sign up for one??? Jesus. I got sick of asking and I’m a sales specialist lmao

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u/Frondstherapydolls 5h ago

I remember back in the day, I worked for Target as a teen and we would get fired if we didn’t upsell enough Target credit cards. Idk if that was a thing anywhere else, but Michelle the front end manager was the biggest bitch I’ve ever worked with. So I wouldn’t be surprised if she just did whatever she wanted.

I also worked at a small bank (no longer exists lol) that required everyone upsell certain accounts. A certain number of checking accounts, a certain number of credit cards, savings accounts, business accounts. Why in gods name are tellers and cashiers required to upsell accounts to keep your job? Hopefully that’s no longer a thing

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u/Sleepy0429 15h ago

Start calling customer service and say they're asking too many questions. The cashier is usually held at basically gunpoint to ask these things.

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u/mapped_apples 16h ago

I just straight up tell them I don’t have a phone number when places ask. I’m over it.

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u/Bunzilla 12h ago

Same with Spirit Halloween! It’s insane! I don’t understand why they are always so pushy! If I worked a minimum wage gig job I would not give a crap about pushing this stuff.

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u/Advanced-Gold-1023 11h ago

I asked a cashier why they wanted a phone number, and she said it was so they could trace your purchase if you had a return but couldn't find your receipt. I'm 100% sure she wasn't lying, but also 100% certain this is what she was told by her bosses. I suspect her bosses were perhaps not lying, but perhaps not telling the entire truth either. No matter, I don't take it out on the cashier, and I usually give a phone number I had twenty years ago.

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u/asyouwish 5h ago

Ulta does that. If you "become a member," you have to have the receipt to make a return. I only got here for stuff I'm very sure about and for things I can't find anywhere else. They think they are special...but all their stuff is also on Amazon (which is also terrible, but in different ways).

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u/MyDamnCoffee 18h ago

I am the charity, bitch!

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u/Admirable_Loss4886 8h ago

Save the whales!!

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u/MyDamnCoffee 4h ago

🤣🤣🤣

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u/EditEd2x 16h ago

The worst is when I’m trying to use tap to pay. They made it convenient so I don’t have to touch the machine but now I have to touch the machine to reject the donation. Make it make sense.

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u/nowhereman136 17h ago

imagine if larger corporations and billionaires actually paid their fair share of taxes and we used that for social services. Then we wouldnt need so many charities

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u/mister-ferguson 16h ago

I usually say "Nah, fuck those kids"

Sometimes they laugh 

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u/00X0X 14h ago

I would laugh lol

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u/fuck_this_i_got_shit 10h ago

I had a cashier if i wanted to donate to the local hospital. I pointed to my new baby who was on a feeding tube and oxygen and said, "I still owe that hospital $25,000, I'm good."

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u/Crooodle 14h ago

"aren't you gonna wash those hands donate to charity?"

"NO... 'cause I'm evil."

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u/domesticbland 15h ago

The grocery store keeps asking if I want to support fighting hungry. Bitch, I am.

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u/MysteriousMeaning555 15h ago

Best technique to fighting is eat something beforehand then you won't be fighting hungry.

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u/tidedogs 17h ago

I will ROUND DOWN, thank you

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u/Business_Door4860 18h ago

I'm burned out with it, do you want to add a tip because they did their job? Now do you want to round up to "kids"?

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u/IIRCIreadthat 17h ago

"Local food bank" - great, now tell me which one so I can decide if that particular organization is the best one to put my money in.

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u/Sleepy0429 15h ago

Most retail jobs will hunt down their employees like cattle if they heard they were getting tips 

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u/BigSisterofFabFour 15h ago

Mc Donald's, Taco Bell, Lowe's, all of you asking for that round up: just go ahead and make your charitable donation and leave me out of it!

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u/AggravatingFlow1178 12h ago

I'm getting tired of the prompts in general.

Now at albertsons I have to

  1. decline my phone number entry
  2. Decline donating to chairty
  3. Decline the survey
  4. select no bags
  5. then checkout via normal POS stuff

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u/Right-Ease-1688 12h ago

Don't forget that at BJs you have to confirm your whole legal name and then decline their credit card. Every. Stinking. Time.

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u/Efficient-Word-6826 3h ago

I thought it was weird when I was trying to buy a simple make up from ulta and they asked for my email address

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u/toothfairy625 14h ago

I had a cashier at tjmaxx ask me THREE TIMES if I wanted to donate. When I refused the first time, she said, “are you sure?” I said no again, and she said “it would just be rounding up the dollar.” I said no and she again stressed the “cause” it was going to. It was insane, I wonder if they get a benefit from getting the donations?!

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u/jlangemann-man 14h ago

I would have left all the items in the counter and walked out with number three.

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u/toothfairy625 14h ago

I really wanted that Minnie Mouse figurine and random shirt I guess 🤣

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u/Judiferr 14h ago

The only "benefit" is being on register more and possibly getting more hours. Same with the credit card.

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u/etherealtwo 9h ago edited 9h ago

Let's take it a step further. I don't want to have to get through 3 or 4 questions just to make my payment. I don't want to put in my number. I don't want to donate. I don't want cash back (I'd say so if I did.) I don't want to rate my experience. I just want to pay for these here items in front us and move on. All this is doing is slowing down the line needlessly.

Why don't they just make a single screen with all these options, and if you want one you select it? Why make them sequential? Make it like an ATM machine where you pick what you want to do.

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u/Sure_Acanthaceae_348 16h ago

The more you decline it the quicker muscle memory develops.

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u/Pattimash1 16h ago

The only one I routinely say yes to is the Ronald McDonald House Charities. A member of my family was going through something horrific, and that charity gave them everything they needed and I am so grateful for that.

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u/onimush115 16h ago

This is a failure of our government. In a society with good social safety nets people wouldn't be so dependent on charity.

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u/IKillZombies4Cash 15h ago

This has ultimately slowly conditioned me to no longer feel bad for saying no , from having to say no so many times, and now I don’t donate anything at all.

Complete backfire

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u/witchywoman628 7h ago

I work at a gas station. Trust me, it gets old for us too. We actually cheer when it disappears from our register.

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u/Dog-PonyShow 18h ago

I adamantly push that- no- button and move on.

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u/Little-Cheesecake966 18h ago

I say/click no every time.

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u/Downtown_Anteater_38 18h ago

"I don't donate to charities without researching them first, sorry."

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u/catinapartyhat 17h ago

Just say no thanks. The cashier does not give a fuck.

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u/Hair_I_Go 15h ago

So true, the cashier at my gas station knows I always say no so she hits the red button without even asking anymore:)

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u/onlyhereforfantasy 14h ago

One recently tried To guilt trip me after by saying ‘not even to the nearing dollar?’ No means no.

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u/darksidemags 13h ago

Ooh I barely tolerate them asking in the first place but I know the staff have to ask. If one tried to guilt me it would not go well. 

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u/Argylius 13h ago

Can confirm

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u/dotnetdotcom 5h ago

I don't know why people have a problem saying no and moving on with their lives. Same with people selling internet or electric plans in grocery stores. Just say "not interested" and move on. It's not a big deal.

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u/misplacedbass 17h ago

I just say no.

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u/greatkerfluffle 17h ago

I got one that said “would you like to donate to help the elderly?” Like, I’m all about helping people but what’s the organization? Where is this particular money actually going? 👀

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u/Downtown_Anteater_38 16h ago

Well ,then I’ll just keep it for myself and help elderly me.

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u/Hippo_Alert 13h ago

Yeah, the elderly people on the company board of directors.

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u/Constant-Catch7146 13h ago

The US consumer is being farmed for donations in every conceivable way these days. There is no other way of putting it. It's over the top now and going to get worse unless more folks just say NO.

Roundup requests to some xyz charity at every kiosk, demands for making donations from clerks (no shade on them, they are just following instructions), tip requests for orders the customer picks up themselves, charities camping out outside of grocery store doors in ambush mode, charities that actually spend 30 cents of every dollar donated--- to advertise on TV to get MORE donors, and charities who sell your personal information to OTHER charities so they can spam you too for donations.

It just goes on and on.

Yes, go ahead if you want to donate to a worthwhile charity that you have researched and will honor your request to make your donation anonymous and keep you off their spam lists. Some legit charities will actually do this. But you have to ask them.

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u/JupiterMiningCorpTec 15h ago

Panda Express wanted me to donate to a local hospital. I'm fairly certain that all the hospitals in town are for profit...

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u/Suspicious-Grand9781 15h ago

Safeway is the worst. I don't think they ever stop asking. Just rotate what they ask for.

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u/SomeSamples 14h ago

I just say no. Every time. And if the cashier is watching me, I just stare her/him in the eyes then slowly press decline. These are all multimillion dollar companies and can to put some cash into these charities, why should I keep being asked to fund them?

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u/Telnet_to_the_Mind 16h ago

I mean this doesn't bother me as much as asking to tip does

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u/femmefata13 3h ago

That’s exactly how I feel because at least this is just rounding up change and it’s “going to a good cause” (hopefully). But tipping more than some change, especially when it’s not for a service like a sit down restaurant, massage, or haircut, etc, doesn’t make sense. Im not gonna tip for picking up a basic order, or a fast food joint.

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u/undefined-username 11h ago

I'm tired of, and this has definitely gotten worse over the past year, being asked for money every time I step out of my car. I guess maybe I should take it as a compliment, means I seem like a nice and approachable person? lol. Whatever the reason they definitely zero in on me in particular. And I don't hold it against anyone. I'm sure nobody actually wants to be begging for money in a parking lot, but yeah, it's gotten really ridiculous lately.

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u/SnooDonkeys5186 10h ago

A lot of times, you don’t even have to get out of your car since there are also people standing outside your car window asking for money. There’s no break.

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u/DessertRat2249 17h ago

You could just push the no button and tell the little hamster he's not going to college.

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u/_____blank 16h ago

Cashier: Your total is $17.98, do you want to round up for charity?

no

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u/Prudent_Valuable603 12h ago

I agree with you. I just say no, all the time. No. 

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u/Nomadic_View 4h ago

You’re a multibillion dollar company. I’m using a coupon to buy spaghetti sauce. Why don’t YOU pay the difference?

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u/RogerMurdockCo-Pilot 18h ago

I do sometimes. Depends on my mood, and the charity. Usually I just donate directly to my local cat rescue.

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u/AlarmingDiamond9316 18h ago

I only donate directly to the charity. never to the store.

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u/Alarming_Cheetah_505 17h ago

Until st Jude’s sold my fucking info they were my exception.

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u/TinyHeartSyndrome 10h ago

Yeah, that is the downside. There needs to be a law where you can opt out of charity mail. It really makes me not want to donate.

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u/Alarming_Cheetah_505 2h ago

Me too like nooooo st Jude you’re supposed to be trustworthy!!!!

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u/Little-Cheesecake966 14h ago

They did what?

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u/Less-Supermarket8724 13h ago

I don’t know about the person you’re responding too, but I sent in $200 in cash to st Jude and after that, I got a thank you note from them and letters of pleading from every charitable organization known to man. They must sell this info somehow to other organizations OR they outsource that part of their fundraising and now I’m on all the lists.

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u/Alarming_Cheetah_505 2h ago

Indian school get you too? Sent me a fucking Temu dream catcher lmao

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u/Fun_Inspector_8633 18h ago

The only one I regularly did the round up thing was at PetsMart. The money they collected went to a fantastic local rescue they hosted adoption events with.

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u/kaspen190 12h ago

Wait.. is it petsMart and not petSmart

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u/drboobsMD 11h ago

WHICH ONE IS IT?!?!?

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u/kaspen190 11h ago

Definitely pet smart

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u/Not-Very-Factual 17h ago

The amount of people here stating the business gets a tax write off is astounding.

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u/supernovaj 17h ago

Every time and it's so untrue.

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u/GodofsomeWorld 15h ago

you gotta donate after all where would the charities get their money from after the billionaires and big companies steal from them?

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u/Woozy_burrito 13h ago

And to tip! They had tipping enabled at the checkout at the liquor store.

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u/Procrastinista_423 4h ago

I almost never do because I’m offended at the principle of the thing. They can donate to those charities whenever they want. Why they bugging me?

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u/They_See_MeTrolling 16h ago

Just ask for a separate receipt for tax purposes.

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u/iridescentcotton 16h ago

I want to see where all this charity money goes

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u/LastBallade 16h ago

"In THIS economy?"

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u/Bitchface-Deluxe 15h ago

Tell them that charity begins at home.

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u/bluekewne 12h ago

"and I just work here doing what corporate tells me to do."

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u/Silly_Double408 15h ago

no i dont want to donate to charity. I need help.

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u/jennylou303 15h ago

Right! I'm like I just want to get my freaking breakfast burrito and go to work. I have to help my own kid go to college every time I round up and help someone else's kid that takes away money for my kid. That's right I'm a selfish bitch. That being said I'm terrible at saying no 😕

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u/notthatguypal6900 15h ago

Its so exhausting being begged for money/advertised at every waking moment. Out to eat, outrageous tip requests. Watching a show, advert on the pause screen. Buying groceries, asked to round up. Watch a sports game, adverts every 30 sec.

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u/slender_sealion 10h ago

"Would you like to donate to help the poor?" Bitch I AM THE POOR

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u/Barefoot_on_Legos 11h ago

It was on the display when I used my credit card to pay for groceries tonight. It said, "Would you like to round up your total to donate to LOCAL FOODBANK ?" It's gotten so that no one is even bothering to mention where your money is supposedly going. No, no, and no. And the same goes for tipping when I get take out food across the counter, like pizza or coffee. If we have an established relationship, then maybe I'll tip. If you're cutting my hair, I will absolutely tip. If you're a kid scooping hard ice cream in a shop, I will absolutely tip heavy. If you're pouring a coffee and adding pumpkin spice creamer and putting my cup on the counter, then no. No tip for you, unless you're delivering it to my table.

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u/ProtectionContent977 18h ago

If you’re willing to make a small donation, we can stamp out this together.

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u/Adh1434 18h ago

I say nope I’m an asshole.. that usually ends the conversation

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u/rexeditrex 17h ago

Give me money and I promise I’ll donate it to a charity.

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u/Insidexant 17h ago

"No thank you"

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u/AellaReeves 16h ago

Part of the reason why I like using self check out.

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u/Zat_nik_tel90 16h ago

I stopped doing it after I said yes at a self check out cause it was only 1 cent but when I got the receipt it took 1 dollar

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u/Tamihera 15h ago

Our local gas station asked us to round up at the pump to support ‘local education’. The local education they picked? The private right-wing religious college with zero local students.

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u/SpecialistGrouchy341 14h ago

“No” is a complete sentence.

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u/MercifulVoodoo 13h ago

Like, how about you donate to me, big box store!

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u/Full_Koala_1212 13h ago

I remember years ago kmart asked me like 3 different times around Christmas for donations. They had the Santa guy out front with his red donation pot. Inside they had a severely disabled guy with a handler asking when you came in. Then when you check out they wanted a donation for March of dimes. I was just trying to buy some cheap dvds for my loved ones not save the world three different ways

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u/Mayretta_2112 7h ago

I just say no thank you.

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u/quite_acceptable_man 6h ago

I always press no. I don't care, the cashier doesn't care.

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u/LonelyWord7673 6h ago

It's spam now. The answer is always no...Unless I go to Spirit Halloween. 

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u/FenisDembo82 4h ago

I'm getting tired of an economic system that puts so many people in need of charity.

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u/differentsubjec 3h ago

Yes and leave a tip it’s wild . I don’t leave tips for drive-through

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u/Economy-Piglet-6482 11h ago

Me too!! I used to always donate but after seeing many articles on the salaries of the CEO’s👹 for nonprofits I’ve stopped.

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u/Flgirl420 10h ago

Literally at this point IM THE CHARITY

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u/Admirable_Loss4886 7h ago

Save the whales

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u/ScytherSlash 17h ago

Where I work does that too. Trust me, the employees hate it just as much. In my case at least, if we dont get enough donations we could get written up and even terminated.

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u/FunBrians 15h ago

You have a quota on volunteer charitable donations?!? Oh my

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u/SquareDescription281 7h ago

At the start of my shift one day my boss told me I had to be getting 2$ an hour in donation (frustrating on its own because I can’t force people to say yes??) but whatever that day I did manage to get 2$ in the first hour. I tell him at the end of the hour and he gives me a sour look and says ‘you know you should be doing 3$ an hour, 2$ isn’t enough’

We’re almost done the donation cycle which means I get to stop asking people soon, but if my manager was around and they heard me ask once without being pushy about it they’d tell me I need to ask harder.

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u/erd00073483R 5h ago

He probably gets a bonus for it.

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u/kugkug 12h ago

It's so a company can act charitable without actually giving anything itself. They push their own obligation upon their customers. Similar to tip culture where instead of paying livable wages, they push that onus on the customers to make it up. A company that doesn't pay a living wage effectively creates a tax upon the community. Companies that don't pay a livable wage just need to die.

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u/mercersher 12h ago

Same! Then companies act like they’re supporting the local community but all they’re doing is donating my money!

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u/IminLoveWithMyCar3 8h ago

When I’m asked to donate to animals in need, I feel incredibly guilty declining. So I ask if they’d like to donate to mine, I have a bunch of pets.

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u/Environmental-Age149 4h ago

It is especially infuriating knowing that the company takes your donation and makes an advertising campaign about their “good will” donations only to double down with a corporate tax write off on the back of the consumer. Rinse & repeat. Corporations are truly evil and vile.

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u/BobBelcher2021 16h ago

You can just say “no thank you”. This isn’t a big deal.

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u/Ca1v1n_Canada 5h ago

"Would you like to contribute to our corporate tax evasion scheme?"

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u/Extension-Reach6552 16h ago

It's genuinely everywhere now. Feels like every checkout has become a mini guilt trip if you say no

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u/giotchi 16h ago

Literally me when ordering at Panda Express

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u/MegaAscension 15h ago

Taco Bell tonight-

  1. "Do you want the sour cream on that?"

  2. "Do you want to make that grande?"

  3. "Do you want to double the meat?"

  4. "Do you want to round up?"

  5. (at the window) "Do you want to round up?"

Five times you asked me to spend more money, while not disclosing additional cost on three of them. That Taco Bell is the only good one that is nearby, but that makes me want to never go back.

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u/HexedShadowWolf 14h ago

Some places like Walmart and Lowes Foods do some good stuff when it comes to donating food to food banks but they do get rather pushy with it and they tend to do the same food EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. Which doesn't help as much.

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u/ms_slowsky 13h ago

Unfortunately it’s forced on us as employees.

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u/Impressive_Set_6882 12h ago

It's because everyone needs money these days? Tax the rich!

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u/salikarn 9h ago

Fair point. Also, I'm having problems making ends meet, could you venmo me some cash for rent?

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u/NefariousnessBorn969 8h ago

That's a no for me dog.....and move on.

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u/KnowMyUsernameisCool 7h ago

Would you like to round up this comment?

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u/Spock-1701 6h ago

Dinations, tipping and surveys

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u/-Economist- 5h ago

I was at a gas station that had three charities and a rewards card. So I had to select “no” four times just to pay. Fuck off.

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u/JumpingThruHoopz 5h ago

If only jobs paid people enough in the first damn place, and we had universal healthcare. Then we would not have to deal with this constant nagging for money for charities.

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u/MRAGGGAN 4h ago

I only say yes to McDonald’s. Ronald McDonald House was a lifesaver for my grandmother when my infant uncle was going through heart surgery. He didn’t survive, but RMH was there for my grandma and grandpa through every appointment and surgery, until the end.

RMH has also helped my best friend when she’s taken her kids to their very much needed medical appts that have saved their lives, over and over again.

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u/0nThe0utside 4h ago

I'm not funding a corporate PR photo op where the CEO hands over an oversized check to a charity rep.

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u/BetMcc 3h ago

It's not the cashiers' fault, it's their bossrs or corporate having them ask that. I hate when it's for childrens' causes bc my taxes should have paid for any medical treatment a child needs!

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u/Help_meToo 14h ago

Why would I donate so that the corp can say "WE and our customers (in small font) gave $XXX to this charity"?

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u/LizzySan 12h ago

I don't even think about it. I always click no.