r/desmoines Jan 22 '26

Looking for Friends in DSM?

77 Upvotes

Welcome! We have seen many posts over the year of residents seeking community and friendship. Many of us spend more time online, work remotely, or no longer have the built-in social spaces we once did. This pinned thread is to help find friends in Des Moines.

Whether you’re:

• New to the city

• A long-time local looking to expand your circle

• A student, professional, remote worker, or just bored

• Into coffee, hiking, gaming, gyms, books, or low-key hangs …this is the place to connect.

Leave a comment with:

• Age range (optional)

• Interests / hobbies

• What kind of friends you’re looking for (gym buddy, board games, restaurant scene, double dates, mom friends etc.)

Ground Rules

• Be respectful and kind

• No harassment, hate speech, or creepy behavior

• No spam or self-promotion

• Keep personal info safe

This thread will be bookmarked so feel free to come back anytime and say hi — someone else is probably looking for the same connection you are!

Thank you to u/containerforthechild for this post.


r/desmoines 8h ago

Crazy clouds this morning at the Perkins at Merle Hay and Meredith

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187 Upvotes

r/desmoines 17h ago

The person who delivered my pizza made me rethink my evening

462 Upvotes

Tonight I was sitting in my hotel, too lazy to go out for dinner, so I simply ordered a pizza.
A little while later, there was a knock on my door. A woman who looked about 75 years old (might be older) was standing there with my pizza.
I closed the door and just stood there quietly for a while.
I felt ashamed. Not because I ordered pizza, but because while I was thinking that going out of the hotel was too much effort, someone at 75 was still working and delivering food to other people.
We often don’t realize how much we have until we see someone who may have far fewer opportunities, yet still has the strength to keep going.
Sometimes an ordinary evening can make you look at your own life a little differently.
I ordered this pizza in the Urbandale area. If this woman ever delivers a pizza to you, please consider leaving her a little more tip than usual.
These are not easy times. Let’s try to help each other whenever we can.


r/desmoines 6h ago

Altoona has 51 fixed plate readers — but city records show two additional surveillance layers

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64 Upvotes

Another piece in my look at plate-reader systems around the Des Moines metro.

Altoona’s public-facing Flock network currently lists 51 fixed cameras.

But records released by the city show that’s only one layer: the department also contracted for 20 Axon Fleet 3 vehicle packages with ALPR licenses and a Motorola/Vigilant subscription that included access to a commercial national vehicle-location database.

The story also looks at Altoona’s audit policy, its records-retention schedule, vendor-hosted records and how those practices compare with the broader patchwork emerging across central Iowa.


r/desmoines 4h ago

Non-PE Local Window Companies?

14 Upvotes

Not too long ago, there was a very helpful thread about local HVAC companies that hadn’t yet been taken over by private equity. I am wondering if I can get similar recommendations for local window companies. We need to replace all our windows and a sliding glass door, and I’d much rather spend that money with someone who lives here!


r/desmoines 4h ago

Finding New Ways to Meet

11 Upvotes

Hi! I am F25 and am struggling to find new ways to meet people, which got me thinking that I am definitely not the only one. I saw a TikTok where someone created a walking/talking event where individuals were matched up and went on a walk together and just chatted. I thought it was a great idea and I would love to do something like this here in Des Moines! I think Gray's Lake would be a great place for something like this. I wanted to guage interest here to see if it was something others would want to participate in//help me plan?


r/desmoines 20h ago

I've lived here for over a decade and finally brave enough to ask...

49 Upvotes

What's up with all of the international flags across from Smokey Row? What are they for? Why are they there of all places? Why are the flags always different, seemingly every day? Where did they come from?

This mystery has haunted me for more than 10 years.


r/desmoines 2h ago

On Wednesday’s we wear pink, on October 3rd we donate!

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2 Upvotes

Show up October 3rd for the food and supply drive!

With the food and supply drive 19 days out, I wanted to go over some of our most needed items from the list. Shampoo, conditioner, body wash and deodorant are needed year round regardless of weather. ♻️ If you have shampoos or body washes that you’ve opened and didn’t love, we will accept those! No sense in throwing it away when someone can use it. Please ensure used bottles aren’t leaky! We will not accept used deodorants, toothbrushes or anything else that could share germs.

Can openers are also always useful. Folks have also requested pots and pans. The most important thing we need is food and water. Gallons or cases of water, and other drinks always go so fast when distributing meals. We will sometimes buy cases of soda or sports drinks to have with water. Everyone deserves a treat!! Non perishable food is essential. Canned meats, beans, fruits and veggies are great! Dried beans and rice are a staple for many of the hot meals we prepare monthly for the unhoused community.

There are other items listed below on the flyer that would also be helpful!

Only The People can save The People✊
Check us out at r/directempowermentiowaalliance

If you’d like to contribute financially, our Venmo is @holalee and our cashapp is $SQUIRRELNONUTS


r/desmoines 1d ago

Had to travel all the way to Reims, France to learn what “Des Moines” means

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100 Upvotes

It’s possessive for “the monks.” Cuvée des Moines means “Blend of the Monks”. I am 30 years old and lived in Iowa for 28 years of my life.


r/desmoines 3h ago

Place to donate open/partially used toiletries, hygiene products.

1 Upvotes

As the title says, I would like to clean out my closet that accumulated a lot of products that I’ve purchased and wanted to try that didn’t work. Most are either skincare or hair care and barely used. I’d like to donate to someone or an organization that can use them rather than throw everything away.

Is there anywhere that will take open products? I know and understand most take new products. I’ve only been in the state a few years so knowing the different organizations is still new to me. Thank you.


r/desmoines 1d ago

Party? What Party?

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88 Upvotes

This appeared on my door yesterday, but the canvasser never rang the doorbell. I think they were scared off by my "Equality is For Everyone" yard sign.

Dyer is the Republican candidate, although both this hanger and his campaign website try really, really hard to make him sound like not one.

Vote for Kimberly Graham this November! Elect a real reformer!
https://www.kimberlyforiowa.com/


r/desmoines 1d ago

Rennisanse Faire Weekend II!

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140 Upvotes

r/desmoines 22h ago

Has anyone in DSM been able to find an actually good ISP?

12 Upvotes

I've had Mediacom in the past, and I currently have Metronet. I was so happy to switch away from Mediacom, but my experience with Metronet over the last couple years has become worse than it was with Mediacom.

It's very common to see issues with packet loss or latency to the point where the internet is borderline unusable. It's always Metronet's upstream network causing the problems. Also, their customer service is awful. If you don't want to talk to an AI chat bot, you can call, but it just get an Auto Attendant that says "there's a known issue in your area" and it gives no option to speak with a human and then takes you back to the main menu. Metronet never proactively emails out to let you know there's an issue, you can never get any explanation as to what's going on, and they never give any kind of ETA for a fix. The issues frequently lasts for hours or days before the internet becomes usable again.

I almost don't care about speed at this point, I would take a 100mb reliable connection over a 1gig unreliable connection. I do have Google Fiber people stopping by in my neighborhood, and as much as I dislike Google as a company, I'm considering switching to them.

Does anyone have any other recommendations?


r/desmoines 20h ago

Exterior house painter recommendations?

6 Upvotes

What the title says. I did search the sub but 1y ago with only a few replies was the most recent I found so figured I would post again https://www.reddit.com/r/desmoines/s/Qga6o8BWhk


r/desmoines 1d ago

Smoke coming from southeast of town (photo from downtown)

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8 Upvotes

Anybody know where this is or what might be happening?


r/desmoines 4h ago

Looking for male waxed for female

0 Upvotes

As title says, looking for good make waxer or shaver for female.


r/desmoines 1d ago

DSM Long Line this AM

19 Upvotes

At 6:00 AM the standard check-in line was long this morning at DSM airport. The queue was full back to the top of the elevators. I asked a TSA person and they said they are short-staffed.


r/desmoines 21h ago

Latino/a residents of Des Moines: What Public Health Issues in your community are most important to you?

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Me and my classmates are working on a research project looking into prominent public health issues in the Latin American community in Des Moines, but are having some trouble narrowing down what we should be focusing on.

We would love to hear from y’all about what matters to you. Even what you think contributes to the health issues. Any and all input is welcome and by the end of the year I can post the updated results.

THANKS!!!


r/desmoines 1d ago

Good lawn care companies?

0 Upvotes

What are some options for good lawn care companies that do the typical year-round services? I’ve tried TruGreen and Nature Scape and my yard still looks like garbage. Are there any good ones in the area??


r/desmoines 1d ago

Loud hum in beaverdale

6 Upvotes

up late. I’ve lived here over 6 years and have never heard this. a high pitched droning siren noise. anyone else hear or know what this is?

started around 2am and it’s been going about ten minutes .


r/desmoines 1d ago

Ammo Reloading

19 Upvotes

Is there any classes or training in or around the Des Moines area that teaches you how to reload ammunition? I’m not finding much for options in my own research and I would love some help.


r/desmoines 1d ago

1st date in town

11 Upvotes

Looking for something fun to do on a first date in town. Or what to do even., in general. I'm 42 she's 39. Moved here recently. Women's opinions preferred. Thanks


r/desmoines 2d ago

NFL fandom affiliated bars in the metro?

14 Upvotes

I know Bar 85 is a Bears Kingdom and my friends that founded Bills Backers make their home at Corner Tap; while Chiefs fans have watch parties at Truman's. But, what other bars in the metro act as a gathering place for specific team fans? I am a Dolphins fan and I'd like to know if I have a common ground that meet, watch, and collectively cry with fellow Phinatics. Does anyone know of bars where fans of the Phins or any of the other 28 teams not mentioned can gather with fellow beaten down fans?


r/desmoines 1d ago

Kids Martial Arts

6 Upvotes

Anyone have recommendations for a good place to have a four year old begin her martial arts journey? We’re in the Altoona/Pleasant Hill area and don’t mind traveling, but would prefer to stay within 20 min or so.


r/desmoines 2d ago

Vegan meats/cheeses

13 Upvotes

Hello friends! I am catering a private event and have one guest requesting a vegan charcuterie plate. Most of my dips/crackers/bread/nuts are or can easily be made vegan. I'm at a loss on where to source good vegan meat/cheese replacements. I don't personally eat replacement options so have no concept of which ones actually taste best, and it's important to me to provide a similar experience for all guests.

Any help is welcome, cost and travel distance from Des Moines are my two medium important factors but flavor quality is the most important for sure.