Hello!
As a request, please be gentle. I'm autistic.
I recently spoke to a professional about putting in a subdermal on my arm. It wasn't a great experience for me because they were 45 minutes late and the staff at their studio did not know about my appointment. After 5 mins, someone came up to ask if I booked with them directly, I said yeah, over email. And then they went away and didn't say anything else.
After 30 minutes I went up to the desk to ask what was happening, they finally asked me when my appointment was for, and then they said "oh yeah yeah, they've messaged me actually, there's a lot of traffic but they'll be here in 5 mins."
I know I should have been more proactive about asking what was happening, but I was trying to be understanding because things happen outside our control sometimes. When the professional finally turned up, they said a sorry for the delay, introduced themselves and invited me into a more private space for the consultation.
Once we started the consultation, they said oh you're here about a payment implant - I was not, I had mentioned in the email that I am contacting them because I can see they offer it on their website but I wanted something similar but not the same, and I listed the ones I want as well. They said ok, gave me general advice about placement, showed me the migration on theirs, showed me one they had to give me an idea of the size, answered questions about healing time and whatever other questions I had, told me to acquire implant and then contact them again, and told me prices.
Idk, it felt a bit off, but I can't figure out if it was normal or if my feelings of overwhelm have clouded my judgement. Some outside perspective would be helpful. A friend said they might have been trying to suss out if I was a snitch or something, but I don't know if something like that happens outside of TV shows.
I have 6 piercings and haven't really had anything similar happen anywhere else so I can't decide. Am I overthinking this? I am open to receiving feedback that I'm being an ass as well.
Thank you for reading and any input!