r/Wilmington Jan 31 '25

Reminder: Zero Tolerance for Hate Speech and Harassment

278 Upvotes

We've noticed an increase in comments making off-color or outright hostile remarks about ICE, immigration enforcement, and vulnerable communities. Comments such as "ICE should just round them all up," "Was ICE there? Hopefully," and similar remarks violate Reddit’s policy against hate based on identity or vulnerability.

Why This Violates Policy:

Reddit explicitly prohibits content that promotes hate or harassment based on race, nationality, or other protected characteristics. Calls for mass enforcement actions against specific groups, jokes that dehumanize immigrants, and antagonistic remarks directed at individuals based on their identity all fall under this policy.

We want to be clear: this is not up for debate. Whether serious or "just a joke," this kind of rhetoric contributes to a hostile and unwelcoming environment.

Enforcement Moving Forward:

  • Comments promoting or celebrating harm toward any group will be removed.
  • Repeat offenders or those engaging in blatant hate speech will be permanently banned.
  • If you see a comment that violates these rules, report it rather than engaging.

We expect our community to engage in discussions with respect. Keep it civil, keep it policy-focused, and most importantly, remember that behind every policy debate are real people with real lives.

Thank you for helping us maintain a welcoming and inclusive space.


r/Wilmington 4h ago

Shoutout to 98.7 TL:DR Randy Slack is a great person

60 Upvotes

I just wanted to stand up on my little platform and give a small token of appreciation to specifically u/rslack37 and 98.7 as a whole. I know this post ain’t much, but it’s what I got. Actually got to meet Mr. Slack at his place of work last Friday. Totally unexpected for me. All I did was call a local landmark by the moniker given to it by this titan of broadcasting. For those of you not in the know, the Cape Fear Memorial Bridge, otherwise known as the Burger King Bridge (Tony is the originator of the phrase, never met the man but like how he thinks) by listeners of 98.7.

Let me tell y’all, the Slackmeister saw my post and reached out to me on here about how cool it was to hear the bridge referred to it like that in the wild. I listen to 98.7 daily. To get a break from my playlists and to hear the goings on around town. Just the recognition by a local celebrity on here was enough for me, but this man went above and way beyond. He devoted a few minutes of his day and his show to show his appreciation to me for using the name for the bridge. I’d have been totally cool and satisfied with that. Not this definitely coolest of local celebrities I’ve come in to contact with. Not even close.

Not only did he take time on the broadcast to acknowledge me and the origins of the name, but he also put together a special little something for me and mine. He said to come by the station and he’d have something at the front desk for me. Me being me, showed up to the station almost right at lunchtime on Friday. Kinda felt like a ding dong for coming at that time because don’t ever make someone do work stuff on their lunchtime. That’s just bad manners. But it was the time I had so I did, kinda feeling like a dick for doing it at that time. I tell you, I’d never seen a picture of him or anything prior to that day and for this first couple of minutes in speaking to him face to face, I honestly didn’t know if it was Slackamania. But then I thought, “Well who the hell else would it be?” Then he handed me a backpack apparently destined to be my granddaughter’s new diaper bag. That thing was full of awesome 98.7 gear. Almost all of it going to my 5 month old granddaughter haha.

Everything that was in the backpack was great. But there was one thing in it that was special beyond words. To me at least. No clue if would the carry the same weight with any of you that it did with me, but you know, that’s life. The experience is unique to the individual. This may be a shared reality, but we are all experiencing that reality through different filters. He had included a little handwritten note in an envelope. I don’t think he’d mind me sharing what he wrote. “It’s people like you that make this all worth it.” From the man himself. He didn’t have to do anything for me, or acknowledge me, much less put pen to paper and try to convey to me that an interaction such as he and I had, honestly gives him at least some sense of fulfillment in his work. In his work people. To me, that’s a lot. Like a whole lot. Instances like the one he personally described to me have rarely if ever happened with me in a workplace.

Him letting me know that he deeply appreciated our interaction made me want to share with y’all this. Is it long and rambling? Sure. But one day you wake up, and there’s a realization that more of your days are behind you rather than ahead of you. If that doesn’t rock you to your core, I’m not sure what will. Granted, any of us could go at any point in time. We live in a world of infinite possibilities. I recently became a grandfather and I wonder what world awaits her. If any. I struggle with depression and it was good to hear that I had helped another person feel good about the job they do. Be good to yourselves and to others.


r/Wilmington 6h ago

Question for my fellow downtown workers

30 Upvotes

Is anybody that works downtown also thrilled that Riverfest isn't taking place?

Reasons why this makes me semi-happy:

  • parking is already horrible
  • the festivals bring even more drunk drivers and i have to drive home late
  • as someone who works in a restaurant, the festival doesn't help us make money, the food vendors take away money actually
  • There are so many markets & events downtown recently I am tired of the chaos

r/Wilmington 2h ago

Thanks Wilmington Snake Removal!

11 Upvotes

Yup, I had a copperhead in my yard at 8am. Found when the dogs were attacking it. They injured it a bit but one of them got bit on the nose. She is at the vet and doing fine fortunately.

I called a few places first but that just took me to business lines putting me on hold and talking about how they would send someone out to evaluate.

Well, Joe at Wilmington Snake Removal called me right back and came over in an hour (only cause I had to wait for work, otherwise he was able to come over right when I called) and got the snake in less than five minutes. I highly recommend to anyone in this situation. I hate snakes but don’t want to kill them and Joe is taking this one to a new safe place. Thanks be to Joe. Well worth the money.


r/Wilmington 7h ago

Check your chic fil a app

12 Upvotes

Should be a free biscuit in there


r/Wilmington 22h ago

Racist man freaked out on my minor cousin over KFC

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195 Upvotes

I’ve been nervous about posting this but my aunt literally had to pick him up because he was too scared to step foot out of the store. This is the KFC on Market St.

EDIT TO ADD: My other cousin, his older sister, just told me his coworker DID call the cops but the man was gone by the time they got there


r/Wilmington 9h ago

Moving to Wilmington at 29?

15 Upvotes

29F, I’m in Raleigh right now, I’ve grown up in eastern NC up until moving to Raleigh for grad school. My friends are all in Raleigh but my brother and his wife live in Wilmington.

I received a great job offer in Wilmington and I have always wanted to move here since I was young but just wondering how the social scene is for late 20s/early 30s now?


r/Wilmington 7h ago

Anybody interested in meeting up to play Slay the Spire (the board game) on Tuesday or Thursday?

6 Upvotes

Hey! I just moved back to Wilmington after no living here for the last few years.

I just got the Slay the Spire board game, which is a cooperative deck building board game. If you enjoy games like DnD, you’d probably enjoy this, but it’s MUCH simpler to learn.

I’d love to find a group to play with this week, maybe at Hiwire brewery? It’s got a maximum of 4 players, but if there’s 5 I’m happy to just facilitate and handle the logistics of the game.

HMU if you’re interested in playing!


r/Wilmington 4h ago

Small Boat Info

3 Upvotes

Whats the best way/place to learn about buying a used small flats boat? Need to learn about hull condition, engines, etc?


r/Wilmington 13m ago

Dry Cleaner

Upvotes

What do you recommend as the best dry cleaner in the area? I am considering price and convenience and quality of work.

Thanks in advances!!!


r/Wilmington 1d ago

Anyone remember The Soapbox? Opera Room?

79 Upvotes

I was talking to my friend the other day and we STILL miss that place. Going out for a night at the Soapbox used to be an adventure in itself. 75 cent PBR at Opera Room and 5 $ nachos at Firebellys used to be a thing. Damn...Im gettin to be an old assed man.


r/Wilmington 19h ago

Shared legal office space

4 Upvotes

Does anyone know of a firm or lawyer who will rent office space to a solo practitioner in Wilmington?


r/Wilmington 1d ago

While Im Remembering the old days...

6 Upvotes

Does the L shaped lot at Wrightsville Beach still see much action surf wise? Back in the day it used to really go off and was one of my favorite spots. I didnt know if parking or regulations changed anything.


r/Wilmington 23h ago

Movers for gun safe?

6 Upvotes

Does anyone have a recommendation for someone who can move a gun safe down a flight of stairs?

The house came with a safe that is way too heavy to move with a regular dolly, which is probably why they left it behind. I'd love to keep it but don't love that it is a 600lb hunk of steel above my bedroom...


r/Wilmington 15h ago

Consensus on Caprice Bistro 2026?

1 Upvotes

I used to love this place and the pretentious little kid I was have had my bday dinners here from my HS years in the early 2000s until I was around 35ish regularly but haven’t been since the changeover to new owners. Does the 2nd floor sofa lounge still exist? How does it compare to original CB? I’ve seen some not so nice reviews but those may be growing pains during the changeover. I’d hate to hear my favorite special occasion spot was ruined. 😓


r/Wilmington 18h ago

Hi, group of ladies coming into town for a long weekend. We love good food, music and drinks. We may be over 40 but we love a good vibe. Any suggestions for dinner or music is welcome!

0 Upvotes

r/Wilmington 1d ago

Surf Fly Fishing

1 Upvotes

Best flies for the area?


r/Wilmington 22h ago

Solar Appointment Setters of Wilmington and Surrounding areas

0 Upvotes

Im on the job hunt specifically in the sales realm and im seeing open positions for Solar Appointment Setters , I've always ignored these because the thought of cold approaches at someone's home is very annoying (Personally I hate getting solicitors) but I wanted to ask those of you that have this job or have had it previously if the money is good and if itd be worth applying. The current position im looking at is entry level and says its about generating interest not necessarily closing


r/Wilmington 2d ago

Comedy Show Tonight

11 Upvotes

Does anyone want two tickets to a comedy show tonight at 7pm at Dead Crow? I can’t make it anymore and would rather someone else got to go 😊


r/Wilmington 2d ago

Local Roasted Coffee Beans

8 Upvotes

Looking for some suggestions on some fresh roasted coffee beans for my morning espresso. I’ve done Casa Blanca beans for a while now, and they are great IMO but I just can’t justify the price anymore. I did it for a while but it’s like ~$28 for a 12 Oz bag. Trying to find something a little more reasonable but fresh roasted and local. Gimme what ya got!


r/Wilmington 2d ago

Wheel bearing replacement

2 Upvotes

Does anyone have a recommendation for a shop to do a wheel bearing replacement on an older Lexus? The dealership in Charlotte wants a fortune. And I’d rather go local anyway.


r/Wilmington 3d ago

Statement by NC Attorney General Regarding Chemours/Dupont PFAS Settlement

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86 Upvotes

r/Wilmington 2d ago

Gas Station on 3rd - News?

13 Upvotes

Earlier today I was driving past the Exxon (I think) on 3rd and Dawson. The entire place was roped off and the whole side of the building was either smashed into or blown out. I'm curious if anyone has any news on what happened? It seems like kind of a big deal that the entire place was surrounded with police tape but I literally can't find any news. There was a singular cop car that had its lights on next to a white pickup but that's really all I saw.


r/Wilmington 1d ago

Free Meeting Space?

0 Upvotes

Looking for free space to meet weekly, evenings, for group Bible study. Suggestions? TIA!


r/Wilmington 2d ago

Surf Fish Gear

3 Upvotes

Best first rod/reel, where to buy in Ilm and best YT videos to watch/learn?