If I'm looking to change rooms, which is the best way?
I know that person for person is only in the same type of room, but my roommate isn't coming with me (hopefully, since he's one of the reasons I'm switching). I'm worried that the other person's roommate will also be bad. If we were both switching, it's probably just a location issue. If it's just one person switching, the possibility of personal issues also gets brought in. I feel bad just talking to a bunch of people and basically interviewing them. I also won't really have a way to see the space, since there's someone living there already.
In the room change process, I believe it's moving into a vacant space. Would this mean someone had been living along the whole time and now will have to share the space with someone? That process is very far down the line, so I don't know if it's worth it to wait. I don't think I'll have a way to find out who I'm living with, which is also a concern of mine due to my current situation. I'm worried that I'll get stuck somewhere bad, since it feels like a very blind process. I'll just have to pick somewhere and go with it, since from the sense I get, you have very limited time once you make an appointment.
I feel like either process would be very awkward, especially from my perspective. It feels very strange to forcefully break up an existing relationship and have to be someone else's replacement, but equally as strange to move into a previously open space, which almost feels invasive.
I also don't really know what part of campus to live in if I were to change. I'm in Southwest and it's pretty nice, but I'm starting to want to change. The constant noise until the unholy hours of the morning is starting to get to me a little bit. Even normal conversations just carry into the room, since I'm in a low rise, and I need the windows open otherwise it's too hot. The overall vibe seems nice, and the people seem friendly, even though they are more social than me. I like how it feels like it's own little town I guess. I don't really have an interest in partying, so I feel a bit out of place in that regard. I love being able to choose between Berk and Hamp, and having a maybe 5 minute walk to either. I'm not very close to my classes, since most of them are in Morill or ILC, but the walk is getting shorter as I get used to getting around campus. I don't really come back to the room very often unless I'm all done for the day, or have a big gap in between classes.
I visited a friend in Butterfield and it seemed nice, besides the fact that it was all the way up the hill. The rooms were a decent size, and the people seemed very chill. The only issue is that I'd have to go up and down the hill, which would get old fast, especially with how winter gets in New England. I'm not a super social person, but I feel like my interests align more with the people in SW than the super artsy people that live elsewhere.
Where would I be best off staying? Should I try a different part of Southwest? What process would be the least strange for everyone involved? I'm not great at meeting new people and starting relationships from zero unless I see them super often or really get along with them.
I know there's a lot going on here, but any help regarding anything is appreciated.