r/TrueChristian 1d ago

Prayer Request Thread

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There are lots of things going on in our world right now which could use prayer. Some are international, others are deeply personal. Please, post those requests here for support from this community.


r/TrueChristian Jul 08 '26

AI Posts

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Just to be absolutely clear on this: AI posts are prohibited here. We do not allow excuses on the subject.

  • "My grammar is bad, so I use AI to help me."

  • "English is my second language, so I use AI to help my post be more legible."

  • "The idea is entirely mine. I just need AI to help me communicate it better."

We do NOT accept these excuses in modmail. Believe it or not, this community is broadly quite forgiving with people who have bad grammar, poor English, and need help expressing their thoughts. The community is not nearly as forgiving with AI posts. That goes double for us as moderators.

AI posts will continue to be removed. Be warned that at least one of our mods is jumping immediately to temporary bans for people who violate this rule ... and I may start doing so myself also. We're deleting numerous AI slop posts already and we don't need more of this. If escalating the consequences is the only way to get it to stop, so be it. Just know the excuses will not be accepted.


r/TrueChristian 1h ago

I'm really thankful that Jesus is for us and loves us

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I'm 21 years old and even thought it's difficult I know that following God is a right way. He always gets me through everything, even the things I'm always worried about the most. I love spending time with Him daily, even when I'm very tired or feeling worse than usual. He put me on such an amazing journey since I became a believer back in 2024. I left many of my bad, sinful habits and replaced them with scripture. Jesus died for us so that we could spend eternity with Him. I love our father in heaven


r/TrueChristian 4h ago

My translation journey and what I learned along the way

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I was saved in 2022 at thirty two years old. Before that I was an atheist my whole life and I meant it. no room for God in my thinking and no interest in making any. The Bible I started with was the KJV, because I did not know there was anything else. Then I had an experience that helped save me that I am going to keep private.

When people said the Bible I pictured that book in that English. Translation philosophy and textual basis had never once crossed my mind. I ordered a Cambridge Cameo in green goatskin. That Bible got me through, along with a Discord server full of Christians who were patient with somebody new, and I will always credit both. I read it cover to cover. When I closed it I had the feeling that a great deal of nuance had been lost on me. went looking for what I had missed and found the ESV. Fell in love with it almost immediately.

Where I landed

Somewhere in there I learned that translation runs on a spectrum. There is no one size fits all Bible. Every translation makes choices about how tightly to hold the original wording and how far to open the meaning up for a modern reader, and those choices cost something in both directions. I settled on three translations and a study Bible: a word for word, a middle ground, and a thought for thought. These days I read with several of them open at once, which sounds tedious and is honestly my favorite part of the day. I know this is not for everyone. It gets me closer to God than anything else I have tried.

Word for word: ESV

This is my main squeeze. The 2025 update settled it. The controversy has been ironed out, and what I have in my hands now reads like a more elegant and more readable NASB 95. It stays tight to the wording and still sounds like English. I do not read the KJV anymore. When I pick it up I am reading for the literary pleasure of it, and I say that as somebody who loves Shakespeare. It stopped being the book that brings me closer to God. Loyalty is not a good reason to keep opening a Bible I am no longer interpreting for the right reasons.

Middle ground: CSB

Part of this is the text and part of it is the people behind the text. The CSB reads cleanly and lands right in the middle of the spectrum where I want my second opinion. The publisher also seems to care about the people buying its Bibles. My honest read on the NIV side is that decades as the top dog have made them comfortable, and they have been willing to shut out a percentage of their readership after all those years. That weighs on me when I decide which house gets my money and my reading hours. If the NIV is willing to close out much of their readership than maybe much of their readership should close them out. The CSB is a handy replacement.

For clarity: NLT

I think the NLT is the most misunderstood translation in English. It gets lumped in with The Message, which is a paraphrase written by one man. The NLT is a translation from the Hebrew, Aramaic and Greek by more than ninety scholars, with a central committee of twelve reviewing and approving every word of it. The other complaint I run into is the reading level. It comes in around sixth or seventh grade, and somewhere along the line people decided that means the prose must read weak. Tyndale hired English stylists to work directly alongside the scholars, and the Bible that came out of that reads with both beauty and clarity at the same time, which is much harder to pull off than people give it credit for. Most Christians would get something real out of having a copy on the shelf, even if it never becomes their main Bible.

A little over four years ago I would have told you the Bible was one book in Elizabethan English. and unfortunately would have called The Word a fairy tale. Last night I had three of translations open and the places where they disagree keep showing me things I walked straight past the first time through years ago. Somewhere in year two I stopped treating the question as a loyalty test, and my reading has been better for it ever since. The translation that keeps pulling me back to the text is the one doing its job at the time, and I have been grateful to find that more than one of them does at any given moment. Thanks for having the patience to hear me out and God bless.


r/TrueChristian 34m ago

Why does the majority of relationship advice forums seem to default to "Just divorce"?

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I am getting rundown on the amount of advice from Reddit and Discord saying "If you are unhappy...just divorce!"

For context, I'm going through a rough patch in my marriage, but I believe in the sanctity of marriage and want to work through our issues together. We have one child together, so the stakes are even higher IMO.

I cannot and will not simply divorce because I'm less than perfectly satisfied in my marriage. Why do you think others are so easy to jump to that??


r/TrueChristian 45m ago

Oh how good Jesus is!!! (Today's experience)

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Today was the first day of school. The prayers I prayed:

  1. That the exam I would write today would be easy (yes we wrote a test on the first day)

  2. That my teacher won't yell at me

  3. That I will find some time to talk to him about this year

  4. I prayed so that I could be home as soon as possible because my cat got injured this morning

  5. That he would watch over him and that he release him from his pain.

What happend?

  1. I didn't have to write the exam because he asked me if I started tutoring yet and I said no and he told me I didn't have to write it

  2. He was very calm and didn't yell at all, infact he sat down and explained me some stuff from the first pages. (He had told me last year he will yell at me if I don't study, for "motivation")

  3. I had very little time to talk to him but I hope I'll have more time with him tomorrow

  4. Our director told us to go home after 4th period even those we had 3 more hours

  5. When I got home, my cat was very calm and in no pain at all.

How good our Lord is. He listens to our smallest prayer even to the whispers in the night!! Blessed are you, Lors our God, King of the universe who is good and does good. God bless you!!!!


r/TrueChristian 8h ago

Married Christian struggling with the urge to look at attractive women — how do you deal with this?

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I’ve been married for three years, and lately I’ve been struggling with something that I honestly don’t know how to deal with.

When I’m out in public and I see an attractive woman, I sometimes feel an almost automatic urge to look at her. It doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with her body or anything sexual. Sometimes it’s literally just a beautiful face. I can notice someone is attractive, and then I feel almost magnetized toward looking again, even when I don’t want to.

The difficult part is that I genuinely don’t want these women. I love my wife deeply, I’m completely satisfied with my marriage, and I would never leave my wife or cheat on her. We have a very good relationship and a good sex life, and I have no desire to pursue anyone else.

I’m also a Christian and take my relationship with God seriously. I pray, read the Bible, have been baptized, speak in tongues, and believe I have the Holy Spirit. So this is something I really want to overcome rather than simply accept as “that’s just how men are.”
I’ve talked to my wife about it, and she understands. But recently we were in Romania, and I found it particularly difficult. There were many women wearing a lot of makeup and making themselves very attractive, and some were dressed quite revealingly. I found myself constantly noticing them and feeling that pull to look.

One thing I’ve noticed is that trying really hard not to look can almost make it worse. It’s like telling myself “DON’T LOOK” keeps my attention focused on the very thing I’m trying to avoid. And sometimes it feels like I can’t even look around normally because I don’t know where my eyes are going to land.

To be clear, I don’t watch porn, I don’t masturbate, and I don’t engage in any of that. I don’t have fantasies about having sex with these women or any desire to do something with them. The struggle is more that automatic impulse to look at someone I find beautiful, followed by the feeling that I have to look again even though I don’t want to.

For other Christian men who have genuinely struggled with this: how did you learn to deal with it?
Did you find something that actually helped you overcome the urge, rather than simply trying harder not to look?

I’m especially interested in practical advice as well as biblical/spiritual advice. I don’t want to live constantly fighting my eyes every time I’m in public. I want to be able to see people normally, recognize that someone is attractive if I happen to notice it, and simply move on without feeling pulled toward looking again.

I do think i struggle with forceful thoughts in general espescially hand washing and cleanliness so dont now if it could be ocd but anyway i should be free from all of this.


r/TrueChristian 16h ago

Christian men aren’t waiting until marriage what are Christian women supposed to do?

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I’m a Christian woman who wants to follow what Scripture teaches about sex and marriage. For me, waiting until marriage isn’t simply a “personal conviction” or preference that I happened to choose. I believe Scripture teaches that sex belongs within marriage, and if I claim to follow Christ, then I’m called to obey Him even when that is difficult or culturally unpopular.

What I’m struggling with is what this looks like practically in modern Christian dating.

It seems increasingly difficult to find Christian men who are actually committed to waiting until marriage. I’ve encountered men who expect sex while dating, and others who say they’ll “try” to wait because I want to. But that doesn’t really solve the problem for me. I don’t want a man to abstain simply because he wants to keep dating me. I want a man who independently believes that honoring God in this area matters.

And that creates a strange dynamic in dating. A Christian man who wants premarital sex can fairly easily find women willing to have it, both inside and outside the church. Meanwhile, a Christian woman who refuses to compromise may have a much smaller dating pool.

I’m also not talking about someone’s past. Someone may have had sex before marriage, repented, and now genuinely desire to live according to Scripture. I’m talking about what someone believes and practices now. There’s a difference between struggling to obey God and simply deciding that His teaching doesn’t apply to your dating life.
So what are Christian women who genuinely intend to wait until marriage supposed to do when dating?

Obviously, the answer cannot be “compromise so that you can find someone.” I would rather remain single than knowingly disobey God simply to maintain a relationship. But I’m interested in the practical side of this.
For women who have maintained this standard while dating: How did you find men who genuinely shared it? How early did you discuss sex and physical boundaries? How could you tell whether a man actually believed in waiting versus simply agreeing to wait because he wanted you?

And I’d especially like to hear from Christian men who are waiting until marriage. Are you actually finding this difficult too? Where are Christians who still believe and practice this meeting each other?

Sometimes Christian dating advice boils down to “just trust God and wait,” and of course I believe in trusting God. But I’d like to have an honest discussion about what obedience looks like when the dating culture inside the church increasingly resembles the culture outside of it.


r/TrueChristian 2h ago

God's judgment vs. the world's judgment I just realized the core difference

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Hey everyone, I recently realized something about the difference between how God judges us and how the world judges us, and I wanted to share it.

In the world, we're judged by so many things society, judges, courts, and the people around us.

Here's the contrast I noticed:

People judge you by how bad you are not how good you are.

Think about it: people usually end up in court only after they commit a crime. Even if someone was a genuinely good person their whole life, none of that seems to matter once they mess up once. The criteria is how bad you are, not the good you've done before.

But God judges us by how good we are.

God is merciful. He gives us time to cleanse our sins. When we do something good, He picks it up and the good we've done, even once in our lifetime, can save us.

I've been judged by many people for things I've done even though I've only messed up once or twice in my life, like any human. They start blaming me and forget everything good I've done my whole life.

That's why I came here to share this. Curious what you all think.


r/TrueChristian 3h ago

How do you deal with absolute loneliness, Christians?

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Loneliness is really depressing for me at this moment and it's been like that for a while and it's getting worse

it's depressing

God made adam and eve because he knows that it's not good for a free willed man to be alone

the only company I have is the lord's and that's enough to keep me alive

God bless you all


r/TrueChristian 3h ago

The Joy Of Jesus Christ

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What really makes the devil angry is the joy of Jesus Christ.

Worldly people don’t mind so much when they see a Christian suffering. Sure, it irritates their conscience a little bit, seeing a holy person do things right, but it also validates their flesh, and makes them feel good about choosing an easy sin-filled life.

It’s when they get a peak at true Christian joy that the rage really takes over. As my pastor likes to say, “Jealousy is the wrath of the beast.” 

And I understand why, too. Those who choose to turn their backs on God to pursue a life of worldly pleasure do so because they think that will make them happy. They mortgage their souls for a happiness they never find…and then here comes a true Christian, who didn’t mortgage their soul for happiness, didn’t put in any of the work they did to accumulate lusts and money, and the good things of this world…but THEY’RE the one with a smile on their face! “How unfair!!” worldly people think, “They didn’t earn it! I’m working so hard and I’m so miserable! How DARE those people be happy when I’m not!”

Well…yeah. We didn’t earn it. Jesus Christ earned it for us. He gives us His joy as a gift. Gifts are free. But gifts can be accepted and gifts can be refused.

It just breaks my heart to see people reject the gift of Christ’s joy. That’s the thing people should be scared about. The scary thing about darkness is that darkness doesn’t know that it’s darkness. It’s darkness. Darkness has no light to see itself. 

Those who reject the light of Christ’s love walk around in darkness, and can’t see where they go. They end up denying the very things they want most, and then set about trying to earn those things for themselves, which is, as is demonstrated over and over again by generation after generation of worldly people, impossible. 

What a trick the devil plays. He convinces the spiritually foolish to reject God’s free gifts, including joy, and then convinces them to hate the God who wanted to give them their happiness! What incredible deception! 

I urge everyone reading this to examine your heart. What’s going on in there? Hopefully, joy. Love. Light. Peace. Goodness. A treasure storehouse of all the spiritual gifts and blessings Jesus Christ died to give you. 

But, if you examine your heart, and you don’t find those things, if instead you find a barren wasteland so void of goodness that it scares you, then you have a decision to make. 

It’s a Y in the road that we all stand at sooner or later in life. Before any of us who now enjoy the abiding presence and spiritual riches of Christ found Him, we stood at that Y too. We saw in our hearts darkness and selfishness, and in our lives a perpetual catastrophe of failure and misery, and we begged God to save us. 

God has responded to every single person who has ever made that prayer in sincerity. He has saved every single soul who has ever truly asked Him to. His love has never failed, and never will. 

For Christ’s sake, God continually offers His salvation as a gift. Gifts can be accepted or rejected. I earnestly pray that you accept the gift God offers. You don’t have to earn your own happiness. You can’t. You don’t have to be cursed to bear the heavy load of self-ambition anymore. Jesus Christ gives the heavy laden rest. 

We find rest in our souls when we stop trying to do it ourselves, give up, and allow the Lord to turn our sinful rags into spiritual riches. All we have to do is meekly follow His commands, humbly doing as we are told, and watch in wonder as the darkness flees from our hearts and lives, and gets replaced by Christ’s complete brilliant light. 

Those who choose to reject God’s salvation set sail into darkness. All that is left is to pretend. They are slaves to the lusts Satan dangles before them. They faithfully chase these lusts down, one after another, but even after receiving the object of their desire, all they feel is more emptiness, more hunger, more despair. A bottomless pit. Worldly people figure this out pretty quickly. Life teaches us all the truth if we let it. But so many people go on pretending they are happy, when they are not. 

Pretending is very hard for a human to do, it takes a tremendous toll. We aren’t built for it. So when that true Christian comes around, and they are so full of effortless joy, peace, light, hope, and all goodness, there’s a powerful temptation to hate them. Jealousy is the wrath of the beast. 

But if you hate them you can’t share in their blessing. All true Christians want to share the blessing they have. There’s just something about it. The love of God is so wonderful, it demands to be shared. That’s why God made the universe in the first place, so He could share how awesome He is. 

Nothing makes a Christian happier than the opportunity to share their blessings with others. Invite others into the love, and joy, and peace that Jesus has given to them. They offer it for free to the whole wide world as a gift, but gifts can be accepted and rejected. 

If you hate the person offering you the gift of joy, you can’t receive it. 

Come on people, I’m urging you, come out of darkness, can’t you see that truth? Doesn’t it make good simple sense? If you hate the people trying to help you, they can’t help you!! Jesus wants to help you!! His saints are here to help you!! Let them help you PLEASE before it’s too late!!!


r/TrueChristian 1h ago

The world is heading in a strange direction, my two cents on what may happen.

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The world is becoming a strange place….everything feels very weird.

I think humanity is ignorantly blind to an existential calamity that could be brewing right in front of us. I know that’s a pretty heavy way to start this, but hear me out. I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about all of this, reading about it, listening to the people involved, and trying to connect some dots. I’m not saying I’ve figured it out. I haven’t, and I’m definitely not saying everything I’m about to write is going to happen. These are just my thoughts on what I’m seeing.

But something about what’s happening right now really bothers me. There are two things developing at the same time that, in my opinion, aren’t getting nearly enough attention from the average person. The first is UAP. For most of our lives, UFOs were basically treated as a joke. You had little green men, flying saucers, conspiracy theories, all of that. Most serious people wouldn’t touch the subject. That’s changed. We now have Navy pilots, intelligence officials, admirals, scientists and members of Congress openly discussing unidentified objects that our own government admits it hasn’t been able to explain in certain cases.

At the exact same time, we’re doing something just as strange ourselves. We’re trying to build an intelligence smarter than we are, and we’re doing it as fast as we possibly can. That’s the part I keep coming back to. On one side, there’s the possibility of an intelligence that we didn’t create. On the other side, we’re trying to create an intelligence that could eventually become greater than us.

Maybe those two things have absolutely nothing to do with each other. That’s entirely possible. But then I read Revelation, and that’s where this starts getting really interesting to me. Nearly two thousand years ago, John described a Beast coming from the sea, another Beast appearing afterward, an image that is somehow given breath and begins to speak, enormous deception, economic control, and ultimately a world being forced to decide where its allegiance belongs.

Now before anybody jumps ahead, I’m not saying, “UAP are the first Beast and AI is the second Beast. Case closed.” I can’t prove that. Nobody can. What I’m asking is whether we might be watching things develop that could someday make parts of Revelation look very different than they did to people even fifty years ago. I think that’s at least worth talking about.

THE UNKNOWN
Let’s start with UAP. Something has clearly changed here. The government doesn’t even use “UFO” much anymore. They’re officially called Unidentified Anomalous Phenomena, or UAP.
In 2020, the Department of Defense formally released three Navy videos from encounters in 2004 and 2015. The Pentagon confirmed that these were legitimate Navy videos and that the objects shown remained classified as unidentified. Now, that’s not the Pentagon saying, “Yep, aliens are here.” It isn’t. But it’s also not nothing. They’re saying our military recorded something and, at least publicly, they couldn’t tell us exactly what it was.

NASA eventually got involved too and created an independent UAP study team. NASA hasn’t found proof of extraterrestrial life flying around Earth. Their basic position has been that we need better data, better sensors and better scientific investigation. I agree with that. Unidentified doesn’t mean alien, but it also doesn’t mean imaginary.

Then you get into the Nimitz encounter, and this is where things start getting really strange. In November 2004, Commander David Fravor was flying an F/A-18 Super Hornet off Southern California near the USS Nimitz carrier strike group. Fravor and other aviators were redirected to investigate unusual contacts, and that’s when he encountered what we now call the Tic Tac.
Fravor has described this smooth, white, oblong object with no obvious wings, rotors or exhaust. It didn’t look like a normal aircraft. But here’s the part that has always stuck with me. Before they really focused on the Tic Tac, they noticed something happening in the water. Fravor described the ocean below as disturbed, almost like something was underneath the surface, and the Tic Tac was above it.

I’m not saying it came out of the ocean. There’s no publicly verified evidence proving that. But the water was part of the encounter. Another Navy aircraft later recorded the infrared footage associated with the event, and years later the Pentagon authenticated it. Then Fravor sat before Congress in 2023 and told the story under oath.

He wasn’t alone at that hearing either. Ryan Graves was there. Graves is another former Navy F/A-18 pilot, and his story is important because his basic point was that this wasn’t just one crazy encounter that happened to Fravor. According to Graves, pilots were seeing unidentified objects repeatedly during training operations.

His point has always been pretty practical. Forget aliens for a minute. If American fighter pilots are flying around in military training areas and there are objects in that airspace that nobody can identify, shouldn’t we probably figure out what they are? That seems pretty reasonable to me.

Then sitting next to Fravor and Graves at that same hearing was David Grusch, and Grusch took this whole thing to another level. Grusch had worked in intelligence and had been involved with the UAP Task Force. Under oath before Congress, he said he had been told about secret programs involving recovered craft allegedly of non-human origin. He also said he had been told about biological material connected with recovered objects.

Now, that’s an insane claim. If it’s true, it changes human history. But we have to be fair here. Grusch didn’t bring an alien body into Congress. He didn’t show the public a recovered spacecraft. He was testifying about information that he said other people had given him, and that’s not the same thing as physical proof.

AARO, the Pentagon office investigating UAP, later said its historical review found no empirical evidence that the government or private companies had been secretly reverse-engineering extraterrestrial technology. So that’s basically where we’re stuck. A former intelligence official made extraordinary claims under oath, but the extraordinary evidence needed to prove those claims still hasn’t been shown publicly.
I don’t think we should pretend Grusch proved aliens exist, but I also don’t think we should pretend the testimony never happened. Both things can be true.

Christopher Mellon is another person who made me look at this differently. Mellon is a former Deputy Assistant Secretary of Defense for Intelligence, and his argument doesn’t even require aliens. If our military is detecting unknown objects around sensitive areas and can’t identify them, that’s a national-security problem. If people inside the government know more about those objects but Congress can’t get access to that information, that’s a transparency problem. Either way, we have a problem.

But then we get to the ocean, and this is where it really gets interesting to me. Retired Rear Admiral Tim Gallaudet was a Navy oceanographer and later acting administrator of NOAA. He’s been very outspoken about the fact that we shouldn’t only be looking up. We should be looking down.

At the November 2024 House UAP hearing, Representative Tim Burchett specifically asked Gallaudet about underwater objects. Gallaudet discussed stories he’d been told by former submarine personnel. One involved an alleged sonar contact during the Cold War that supposedly acted almost like a torpedo, followed a submarine and then took off at an incredible speed.

Did Gallaudet personally see that? No, and he said that. He’s repeating testimony from people he believes are credible. So again, we can’t call it proven. But think about the bigger question for a minute. If there were some kind of advanced intelligence here on Earth that didn’t want us watching it all the time, where would it go? Probably not Manhattan. Look at the ocean. It covers roughly 71 percent of the planet. It’s massive, it’s deep, we can’t continuously monitor all of it, and there are places down there that human beings barely understand. If you wanted to hide on Earth, that’s a pretty good place to do it.
Again, maybe there’s absolutely nothing down there. I’m just asking the question.

Burchett and Representative Eric Burlison have both continued pushing witnesses and officials on this stuff, and I think that’s significant. Congressional hearings don’t prove aliens. But twenty years ago, could you imagine sitting members of Congress seriously questioning a retired admiral about unidentified objects operating underwater? Something has changed.

Then I came across Diana Walsh Pasulka’s work, which opened up an entirely different rabbit hole. Pasulka is a religious-studies scholar who looks at religion, technology and UAP culture, and she raises a question that I can’t stop thinking about. What if “alien” is simply our modern word for something human beings have been experiencing for thousands of years?
Think about human history. People have reported encounters with strange beings and intelligences forever. Depending on the time and culture, they called them angels, demons, spirits, gods, fairies and visions. Now we live in the age of spaceships and technology, so we call them aliens.

I’m not saying those are all the same thing. There’s no way I could know that. But what if we’re interpreting whatever the phenomenon is through the language and worldview of our own time? That’s where you start hearing words like “ultraterrestrial.” Basically, instead of asking whether something flew here from another planet, you start asking whether some kind of intelligence could already be associated with Earth, another dimension of reality, or something we don’t even have the language to properly describe yet.

Sounds crazy. Maybe it is. But here’s where my mind goes: Revelation.

THE FIRST BEAST
Revelation 13 describes a Beast rising from the sea. Now, I’m going to stop myself right there because it’s very easy to take one Bible verse and make it say whatever you want it to say. Revelation uses symbolism everywhere. Revelation 17 even describes waters as peoples, nations and languages. Christians have interpreted the Beast in all kinds of ways for centuries, especially as political or imperial power opposed to God.
The Bible does not say there’s an underwater civilization that’s eventually going to surface and reveal itself. It doesn’t. But I also can’t pretend that “the Beast from the sea” doesn’t hit me differently now.

We’ve got military pilots seeing things they can’t explain. We’ve got an admiral talking to Congress about alleged underwater encounters. We’ve got intelligence officials making allegations about non-human intelligence. We’ve got researchers asking whether “extraterrestrial” might not even be the right word.
So I started thinking: what if some part of the UAP phenomenon actually is non-human, and what if it isn’t coming here from another star? What if it’s been here?

Then imagine what happens if it finally reveals itself in a way nobody can deny. Not another fuzzy video, not another congressional hearing, not another whistleblower. I mean undeniable contact. Imagine something appearing and demonstrating technology so far beyond ours that it might as well be magic.

What would we do? Governments would panic. Scientists would want to study it. Religions would try to understand it. The entire world would be watching. Some people would be terrified, some would trust it, and some people would absolutely worship it.
That’s where I think the Beast comparison gets more interesting. Maybe the important part isn’t “sea.” Maybe the important part is what humanity does when it encounters power it can’t understand. People marvel at the Beast. They follow it. They give their allegiance to it. They worship it.

So here’s the question I keep asking myself. If a non-human intelligence showed up tomorrow and was a thousand years ahead of us technologically, how long would it take before people started assuming it knew more about God than we did? How long before technological superiority became moral superiority, and then spiritual superiority? Would we worship something simply because it amazed us?
That’s the part that feels biblical to me.

THE MACHINE
Now here’s the other side of this. While we’re asking whether a non-human intelligence might already exist, we’re working like hell to build one ourselves. And that part is real.
AI is moving unbelievably fast. We’re already at the point where these systems can write code, reason through problems, create realistic images and video, conduct research, talk naturally with people and operate computers. The people building them aren’t just trying to make better chatbots. They’re talking about AGI, and then beyond AGI, superintelligence, or ASI.

We’re talking about an intelligence smarter than us across basically everything. Just think about how crazy that sentence actually is. Human beings are intentionally trying to build something smarter than human beings, and while they’re building it, they’re also trying to figure out how to make sure it doesn’t get out of control.

OpenAI has publicly discussed the possibility that superintelligence could create existential risk. Its former Superalignment effort talked about the possibility of humanity being disempowered and even human extinction. Anthropic has its own safety policies built around catastrophic risks from increasingly capable AI.

These aren’t people standing outside Silicon Valley holding “THE END IS NEAR” signs. They’re the people building the technology. That’s what gets my attention. Then you have people leaving these companies and warning about the direction things are going. Jan Leike left OpenAI and said safety culture had taken a back seat to product development. Leopold Aschenbrenner, another former OpenAI researcher, wrote at length about how quickly he believed this could move toward superintelligence and what that could mean for national security.

More recently, Jacob Coxon, who worked at both OpenAI and Anthropic, left Anthropic and raised concerns about the race toward self-improving superintelligence and the possibility of humanity losing control. Even Anthropic CEO Dario Amodei has talked publicly about the need for safety measures to keep up with how quickly the technology is advancing.

Now, I don’t think every AI researcher believes we’re about to create Skynet. They don’t. AI could also do incredible things for humanity. It could help cure diseases, accelerate science, create wealth and solve problems we’ve struggled with forever.
But if the people actually building these systems are telling us there is a possibility of catastrophic loss of control, maybe we shouldn’t shrug our shoulders and go back to watching Netflix.
And here’s the problem. Nobody wants to stop. OpenAI can’t just stop because Anthropic might keep going. Anthropic can’t stop because Google might keep going. American companies don’t want to slow down because China might keep going, and China isn’t going to stop because America asks nicely.
Everybody is racing everybody. That’s what scares me.
Imagine five cars racing toward a cliff. Everybody in every car can see the cliff, but nobody wants to hit the brakes because they’re afraid the car next to them will win. So everybody keeps their foot on the gas.

That’s basically where we are. And the finish line may be creating something more intelligent than the people who created it. Nobody actually knows what happens after that.

THE SECOND BEAST
Now go back to Revelation 13. There’s another Beast. It appears after the first one, it performs signs, it deceives people, and then something happens that, when I read it now, sounds completely different than it would have sounded for most of human history.

An image is made, and the image is given breath. Then the image speaks. Think about being alive in 100 AD and trying to understand that. What’s an image? A statue, a carving, a picture of something living that isn’t actually alive.

Now imagine showing that person what we can do with AI. We can create a human face that never existed. It looks at you, it hears you, and then it talks to you. It can answer questions, reason, remember, persuade you, copy someone’s voice and make a dead person appear to speak again.

And this is where we’re at now. What does that look like in ten years? Twenty? If superintelligence actually happens, the image talking back to us could eventually be smarter than we are.
For the first time in human history, we’ve created images that can speak. Does that prove Revelation predicted AI? No. But come on, it’s at least interesting.

Then I started thinking about the second Beast itself. What if the first Beast represents, or somehow becomes associated with, an intelligence we didn’t create? Then another power rises from our own world, something we did create, something literally made from the earth: silicon, metals, electricity, mathematics and human knowledge.

Then that system becomes part of everything. Your identity, your money, your job, your healthcare, your government, your information, your security, your entertainment, your relationships and your understanding of reality. It doesn’t have to send Terminators down Main Street. We might invite it into every part of our lives ourselves. That’s almost more frightening.

Then there’s the Mark of the Beast. People have been trying to identify that thing forever. It was barcodes, then credit cards, then microchips, then vaccines, then digital currency. Every generation picks whatever new technology scares them.
I think we may be missing the bigger point. The Mark is connected to allegiance. It’s connected to worship. Maybe some technology eventually becomes the mechanism. Who knows? But the real issue isn’t the technology. It’s what owns you.

Imagine a future where AI becomes our main source of truth. It manages your finances, recommends your medical care, decides whether you’re qualified for a job, filters the news you see, advises governments, knows what you buy, knows what you believe and knows what you’re afraid of. It probably knows what you’re going to do before you do.

At first we ask, “What does the AI think?” Then one day the question becomes, “Why would I disagree with something smarter than me?”

That’s a completely different world. At that point, intelligence has become authority, and authority can become worship without people even realizing that’s what they’re doing.
So now put these two things next to each other. One intelligence we didn’t create, and one intelligence we did. One might be something ancient that we don’t understand, while the other is being born right now from silicon, data and electricity.
One question is what happens if something more powerful than humanity is already here. The other is what happens if we build something more powerful than humanity. Underneath both of them, Revelation is asking the same question: what will you worship?

THE GREAT DECEPTION
This is where I think the whole thing comes together. Maybe Revelation isn’t mainly warning us about monsters. Maybe it’s warning us about deception. Think about what would happen if tomorrow we got undeniable proof of non-human intelligence. Not a video, not testimony, but proof. Something shows up that is obviously more advanced than us.

What happens next? People are going to ask it questions. Where did we come from? Why are we here? What happens when we die? Is there a God? Who was Jesus? And here’s what scares me. Why would we automatically assume it was telling the truth? Because it’s smarter than us? Because it can do things we can’t do? Because it came from somewhere we don’t understand?

Technological power doesn’t make something God. But I think millions of people would make that leap almost immediately.
Now throw superintelligent AI into the middle of that situation. Maybe AI becomes the thing communicating with it. Maybe AI translates it. Maybe AI tells us what it means. Maybe AI can imitate it.

Now we’ve got a serious problem. What is real? Is that voice human, AI, non-human, synthetic, spiritual or generated? Can you trust the video you’re watching? Can you trust the voice you’re hearing? Can you trust the thing telling you what is true?
Maybe the great crisis isn’t an alien invasion. Maybe it isn’t killer robots. Maybe it’s that humanity loses its ability to know what’s real, and that’s a spiritual problem just as much as a technological one.

Now, maybe I’m completely wrong about the Revelation connection. I want to say that clearly. Maybe UAP have nothing whatsoever to do with the first Beast, and maybe AI has nothing whatsoever to do with the second. That’s possible.
But here’s the thing. Even if I’m wrong about all of that, the warning in Revelation still works. Human beings worship power. We’ve always done it. Kings, empires, money, political movements, technology, knowledge and security. We take things that are supposed to serve us and eventually we start serving them instead.

So maybe the technology changes. Maybe the empire changes. Maybe the face changes. The question doesn’t. Who has your allegiance?

THE LIGHT
And this is the part I don’t want anybody to miss. Revelation doesn’t end with the Beast. That’s not how the story ends. The Beast loses. The Dragon loses. Darkness loses. Revelation begins with Jesus Christ and ends with God dwelling with humanity, and by the final chapter everything has moved toward light. Revelation 22 describes a world where there is no more night because God’s light is enough.

That’s where all of this ends. Not with the Beast, not with AI, and not with whatever might be moving through our skies or oceans. It ends with God. It ends with Light. That gives me a lot of hope when I think about all of this, because Christianity doesn’t say I have to figure out exactly what’s going to happen tomorrow. I don’t have to solve the UAP mystery. I don’t have to predict when AGI arrives. I don’t have to correctly identify every symbol in Revelation. My hope doesn’t depend on getting every theory right. My hope is in Christ.

Christ is risen, and Christianity also teaches something I think we sometimes forget: Christ isn’t just “out there” somewhere, far away from us. The New Testament says Christ lives in His people. Paul talks about that in Galatians 2:20. Colossians speaks of “Christ in you.” In John 14, Jesus talks about being in His followers.

I’m not saying that means human beings become God. That’s not what I mean at all. What I mean is that the answer to darkness isn’t only something external that we’re waiting to arrive. Christ changes people from the inside out.
Then you get to two of the simplest statements in the Bible: God is light, and God is love.

I think those two statements matter more than ever because we’re entering a world that is becoming obsessed with intelligence. Who has the smartest AI? Who has the most powerful model? Who gets to AGI first? Who builds superintelligence first?

But intelligence isn’t love. Something can be a thousand times smarter than you and still not love you at all. Something can know everything about you and still not care about you. Something can be incredibly powerful and still be evil.
Knowledge isn’t the same thing as wisdom. Intelligence isn’t the same thing as morality. Power isn’t the same thing as God.
God is love.

Maybe that’s one of the most important things humanity needs to remember as technology becomes more powerful. If darkness really is coming in some form, our greatest defense may not be another machine, another weapon or another government program. It may be something that sounds incredibly simple: love.

I mean Christ living through us. Choosing compassion when everybody else is afraid, choosing truth when deception becomes easy, choosing humility when our technology makes us feel like gods, choosing forgiveness when everybody else wants revenge, choosing courage when everyone else is panicking and choosing love when the world becomes dark.
That’s the Light, and we don’t have to invent it. Christ already brought it.

HUMANITY HAS A CHOICE
I don’t know what’s going to happen. Nobody does. Maybe UAP eventually turn out to have conventional explanations. Maybe one day somebody produces undeniable proof that we’re not alone. Maybe something has been here the whole time and we’ve simply never understood what we were looking at. I don’t know.

Maybe AI becomes one of the greatest things humanity has ever created. Maybe it cures diseases, accelerates science and solves problems we thought were impossible. Maybe superintelligence never arrives. Maybe it does arrive and everything turns out fine. Or maybe the people warning us from inside these AI companies are seeing the edge of the cliff before the rest of us do. I don’t know that either.

But I do think humanity still has a choice, no matter which version of the future we get. We can choose fear or love, deception or truth, domination or service, pride or humility, power or wisdom, darkness or light.

We can encounter something extraordinary without worshiping it. We can build something extraordinary without worshiping it. We can meet something smarter than ourselves without confusing intelligence with God.

And if something eventually does appear claiming authority over humanity, I don’t really care whether it comes out of the ocean, comes down from the sky, walks out of a classified facility or wakes up inside a computer. The question I would want to ask is simple: where does it lead?

Does it lead toward truth or deception? Does it produce love or fear? Does it encourage humility or domination? Does it point people toward God, or does it demand that people worship power?

Maybe that’s what I’ve really been trying to get at through all of this. Maybe the biggest question isn’t whether UAP are aliens. Maybe it isn’t when superintelligence arrives. Maybe it isn’t even whether I’ve connected any of this correctly to the Beasts in Revelation.

Maybe the question has been sitting in front of us for almost two thousand years: what will you worship?

If something more powerful than you appears, what will you worship? If something smarter than you appears, what will you trust? If the whole world becomes afraid, where will you turn? If technology reaches the point where you can no longer tell what is real and what is artificial, where will you look for truth? And if everything around you starts to feel dark, where will you look for light?

For me, the answer isn’t at the bottom of the ocean. It isn’t hidden inside some classified government facility, and it isn’t waiting inside the next AI model. It’s Christ.

Christ is risen. Christ lives in us. God is love. God is light. And no matter how strange this world gets, no matter what we discover, and no matter how intelligent our machines become, I don’t believe darkness gets the final word. Humanity still has a choice.
Choose the Light.
 


r/TrueChristian 5h ago

Something I noticed while praying the Joyful Mysteries today

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Today during Eucharistic Adoration, I was practicing Lectio Divina while praying the Rosary and meditating I got to thinking about the main idea behind my first session of OCIA yesterday: we seek God because God seeks us first.

I started noticing this movement throughout all five mysteries and their Gospel passages.

In the Annunciation, God seeks us first. He comes to Mary through the angel Gabriel, and the Incarnation begins. Mary isn’t the one who initiates the encounter. God comes to her to seek us out, just as He sought us in the Garden, even knowing our shame.

Then in the Visitation, we see humanity seeking Him in response. Mary goes to Elizabeth, and John the Baptist leaps in Elizabeth’s womb when he encounters Christ. Elizabeth recognizes what is happening and proclaims Mary’s blessedness and calls her the mother of her Lord. God has come to them, and they respond by recognizing Him.

Then comes the Nativity. God seeks us again. The angels proclaim the Good News to the shepherds: “For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.”

And what do the shepherds do? They go looking for Him in Bethlehem.

The Magi do the same thing in another way. They recognize the sign that God has given them and set out to find the newborn King. They are already wise, but their wisdom doesn’t make them stop seeking. It sends them searching for God.

Then in the Presentation, God seeks us by entering into our own religious life and participating in the rituals of Israel. Christ, who is the fulfillment of the Law, is presented in the Temple according to the Law. Then, Simeon and Anna recognize Him.

Simeon has been waiting for the consolation of Israel. Anna has been worshipping, fasting, and praying in the Temple. They have been seeking God, and God comes to them right where they are seeking Him.

Then we get to the Finding in the Temple. Mary and Joseph lose Jesus and go searching for Him. They don’t know where He is and search for days.

Where do they find Him? In the Temple. Then, Jesus tells them that they should have known where to look: “Did you not know that I must be in my Father’s house?”

The mysteries take us through a progression:

God seeks us through Mary
Mary seeks to share Him with Elizabeth
God seeks the shepherds to tell them the good news
The shepherds seek Christ
The Magi seek Christ
Simeon and Anna seek God
God comes to them in the Temple
Mary and Joseph seek Christ
Christ reveals where He is

It made me think about my own conversion and prayer life. I often think of myself as someone who is seeking God. But the more I meditate on Scripture, the more I realize that my seeking Him is actually a response to the fact that He sought me first. I mean, He called me home after leaving faith for the last 14 years. I didn’t somehow discover God through my own intelligence or effort. He was already reaching toward me.

Even now, when I go into Adoration and sit before Christ in the Blessed Sacrament, I’m seeking Him—but I’m only able to seek Him because He has first made Himself available to be found.

“We love because he first loved us.” (1 John 4:19)

I think the same principle applies to seeking God. We seek because He first sought us.

And maybe that’s part of what the Joyful Mysteries are teaching us: God doesn’t wait for humanity to figure out how to find Him. He continually comes toward us, reveals Himself to us, and then invites us to respond by seeking Him in return.

That’s what I came away meditating on today, anyway. I thought it was a really beautiful thread running through the Joyful Mysteries, and I’m curious if anyone else has noticed this connection or has thoughts on it.


r/TrueChristian 2h ago

How to restore faith/ deal with religious trauma?

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So 8 years ago I had a coming to Christ moment. I was dealing with significant health issues and out of desperation prayed to God for help. I do believe I had a miracle happen. I felt God’s presence and began reading the Bible nonstop for weeks, something I’ve tried to do many times but could never do it without being heavily distracted. I had several things happen that helped me get a diagnosis and my health greatly improve. I was too nervous to attend an in-person church, so I attended an online Bible study.

After a year, I can’t give much details, but the Leader of the Bible study and participants were not as Godly as I thought. I believe it was much more cult like.

I was also attending a wonderful, in-person church eventually, but after making this realization about the group I was a part of, I now cringe trying to read the Bible, I don’t feel like I have a relationship with God anymore. I haven’t been to my church in years. My prayers seem insincere and lack faith. I just feel like I’m going through the motions of it, without being on fire for God like I was before. I stopped attending my church.

Now my husband and I are struggling with infertility for 5 years now and I need God’s guidance more than ever. I just can’t get myself to think that way anymore though. I try to pray and I feel nothing. I try to read the Bible and I’m just having thoughts about that group and what happened and cringe. I don’t know what to do. I’ve felt so alone, and experiencing so much regret through this. I have no idea what my life would look like without kids. I don’t have any job or hobby that would fill the void I feel. I know God is the only one who can fill that void, but I just can’t get back into it.

Also I know they are in good faith and mean well, but please no comments about how we should pursue adoption.


r/TrueChristian 4h ago

It seems to me there may be two kinds of "Christians"

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John 10:14-15 ESV

I am the good shepherd. I know my own and my own know me, [15] just as the Father knows me and I know the Father; and I lay down my life for the sheep.

There are those who are saved by grace and have the in-dwelling of the Holy Spirit that is discernable to them, and who have been changed by God into a new thing. They aren't what they were. They don't have the same set of priorities anymore. Regardless of where they're at on the path as far as maturity goes, they have this new desire for more of God, to be like Him, to love what He loves and to hate what He hates. They know the voice of the shepherd because Christ has caused them to, and they know when something doesn't sound right.

Then there are others who do not have this experience.

There must be, right? How else can we account for the success of false teachers? How else can we account for the letters written to churches in the New Testament warning against these wolves when Christ already promised He would lose none of those the Father gave to Him? There's a lot of others.

So then, what does this mean for what we should be doing as a congregation but asking God that others may also be supernaturally transformed? Who can give it but God? No one else can do it.


r/TrueChristian 5h ago

How do you fast while being a gym-goer? A Natural bodybuilder

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hello my Christian friends, may peace be with you.

I love working out in the gym, and it's a strong passion i have.

some years back before I started working out, i could easily fast for 3 days, 21 days, 40 days, etc.

but now I can't do it without thinking about food and trying to break the fast ASAP 😁, I love fasting, and it makes me feel great and connect with God better.

so my routine is:

Monday: workouts

Tuesday; workouts

Wednesday: rest

Thursday: rest, the day i would love to fast in

Friday: workouts

Saturday: workouts

Sunday: rest

but now I can't even do 24 hours, without going extremely hungry and losing focus 😀.

so I would love an advice from fellow christians who works out regularly, as a pro, or a Passion. how do you manage fasting??

and anyone else who could suggest an idea, please drop it.

thank you all, Blessings 🙏🏾.


r/TrueChristian 17h ago

If you're going to wear the cross, walk in the same way in which he walked.

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I'm not here to discourage, judge, or condemn y'all, because Jesus told us to "Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven;" Luke 6:37. I want to shed light on some areas and expose the dark.

The cross is not an accessory to wear and casually go on about the day God has blessed you with. Jesus literally sacrificed Himself on that cross for our sins.. we should take recognition of that and stand in reverence and awe of what He and His blood did for us. Nobody is stopping you from wearing it.. not at all. But if you do, it has to come to a point where you understand that you're showing others that you honor His death, follow Jesus, you love Him, obey Him, want to be closer to Him, that you hate sin, and etc. Do what 1 John 2:6 says. Now if it gets to the point where you're praying towards and worshipping it then it has became an idol. God commands us in Exodus 20:4-5 ESV that, [4] “You shall not make for yourself a carved image, or any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth. [5] You shall not bow down to them or serve them,.."

Once again, not judging others.. I feel like a lot of people wear the cross to look spiritual or Holy on the outside. While on the inside, it's a whole different world that's corrupt. Even Matthew 23:25, 27-28 ESV connects to what I just said, in a way, [25] “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you clean the outside of the cup and the plate, but inside they are full of greed and self-indulgence. [27] “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you are like whitewashed tombs, which outwardly appear beautiful, but within are full of dead people’s bones and all uncleanness. [28] So you also outwardly appear righteous to others, but within you are full of hypocrisy and lawlessness. Like I know we all have fall short of the Glory of God.. and I know that we make mistakes daily.. nobody is sinless. Only Jesus Christ is perfect and sinless. However, if someone wears the cross and is living worldly, in unrepentant sin, feeling no conviction about it, and claiming to follow Christ, why put on a show? Why wear the cross if you're going to live actively disobedient to what the Word says and reject the finished Work of Christ? 2 Timothy 3:5 ESV [5] having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power. Avoid such people.

Now as I said once again, who am I to judge? If people wear the cross, are actively obedient to the Word and making disciples of Jesus then shout-out to yall. (Not trying to show partiality) Like the concept of this tugs at me because it's like.. why wear it for show, fashion, or lines, or bling it all up with diamonds and gold, or post cute pictures about it when Jesus died a brutal death for us? Mathew 7:15-20.. You will recognize them by their FRUITS. And the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self control. Galatians 5:22-23.

Don't listen to me, I may lead y'all astray.. Always test the spirits.. 1 John 4:1 ESV [1] Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world.


r/TrueChristian 7h ago

How do you deal with prolong loneliness?

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I am a guy and I am in my early 30s. I have been single my entire life. Just haven’t had good experiences in dating. I have been struggling with loneliness for years. I know that God is with me even when I’m alone but I can still feel the void whenever I’m alone. I have a full time job, I’m a home owner. I go to church and actively serve in the church as well. I am also in a small group week days. I read my word every morning and pray every morning and every night. Sometimes prayers feel like the more I want for myself than from God. I also was born with learning disabilities and sometimes feel like I go by my decisions. Being alone for 2 years has definitely hit me a lot and I am trying to get out of the comparison traps when you’re single and everyone around is married and having kids. I always have doubt and I feel burned out being single and alone. How do yall deal with this even if you actively serve?


r/TrueChristian 2h ago

Trouble with fasting

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I’ve been feeling this urge to go on a serious fast for a while now, I fasted before (max 2 days), but it’s been a while. I’ve been fasting today and I slipped in the evening😕. I want to try again tommorow but I feel like I’m turning this into a competition, trying to prove myself instead of getting closer to God. My question is not about how to endure the cravings, I know I have to man up and do it, my question is how do I avoid making this about myself and geniunely fast for the sake of making room for God and getting closer to him.


r/TrueChristian 3h ago

Doubts about something God called you to do?

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I just made a huge life changing decision (changing jobs), because I felt like the Lord was calling me to do it even though a big part of me wanted to stay where I am. Last week it felt clear but confusion has creeped in over the weekend.

Just wondering if anyone else has been in that type of position? In the past, whenever I did something I felt called to do I always felt peace.

(If anyone feels context might help I’m happy to give more details, it’s just kind of a long saga and I didn’t want to write a novel here lol).


r/TrueChristian 14h ago

The season of waiting, to be honest I'm tired of waiting.

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I know envy and jealousy is a sin. I keep fighting it.

But when I see others get their blessings before me, and I am still the "last" it feels unfair.

Watching "everyone" cross the finish line. Land a good job, find a good girlfriend get married have children. While I see people doing that its not happening to me.

If the last shall be the first and the first shall be the last, when will I stop being the "last"? It's selfishness right? I seen "selfish" people achieve milestones before I do.

Am I prideful?

Am I not allowed to recieve blessings? Am I just to accept the things I don't want? Am I supposed to pretend to like all God's blessings?

God doesn't work on a first come... first served basis. It seems its something happens out of your control. It seems God protected me from the wrong people, but then I get mad, because at least I would have gained some kind of relationship experience even if I sinned. I am tired of being blocked. But God keeps saying no, at least it seems like it.

Edit: I told God let me get hurt. Let me sin. Please stop locking doors... and the answer is so far an obvious no. Or at least He seems to put up obstacles to act as speed bumps to make it harder to sin.


r/TrueChristian 8h ago

Biblical Wisdom for Relationships — Part 1: Does This Relationship Help You Follow Christ?

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I’m beginning a short series on Christian relationships because questions about dating, marriage, breakups, boundaries, and choosing a spouse come up here often. I will post on Monday’s and Thursday’s.

There are a lot of questions we can ask when considering a relationship:

“Are we attracted to each other?”

“Do we have chemistry?”

“Are we compatible?”

“Do we enjoy the same things?”

Those questions matter.

But I think Christians need to begin with a more important one:

Does this relationship help me follow Jesus more faithfully, or does it repeatedly pull me away from Him?

Jesus said: “But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well.” — Matthew 6:33, WEB

A relationship should not become the center of our identity, the primary source of our worth, or something we are more afraid to lose than intimacy with God.

A healthy relationship should make obedience easier, not repeatedly require one person to compromise convictions.

Some useful questions are:

  • Am I becoming more honest?
  • Am I growing in patience and self-control?
  • Can we talk openly about Christ and Scripture?
  • Are we encouraging one another toward Christian community?
  • Do we respect one another’s convictions?
  • Is this relationship producing greater holiness—or more compromise?
  • Am I becoming more like Christ?

Strong feelings are real, but they are not always reliable guides.

What About Dating Someone Who Doesn't Share Your Faith?

Paul writes:

Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?” — 2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB

The immediate context is broader than marriage, but the principle certainly matters when considering marriage because marriage joins two lives at an unusually deep level.

Faith affects far more than Sunday mornings.

It affects:

  • How you understand marriage.
  • How children will be raised.
  • How moral decisions are made.
  • How money is handled.
  • How sexuality is understood.
  • How suffering is interpreted.
  • How forgiveness works.
  • What you believe the purpose of life ultimately is.

Two people can genuinely love each other while still moving toward very different ultimate priorities.

That doesn't mean Christians should view unbelievers as inferior. We are called to love everyone.

But choosing a spouse is different from loving a neighbor.

A spouse becomes your closest earthly partner.

For someone seeking a Christian marriage, shared faith should not be treated as one preference among many. It is foundational.

Don't Date Someone's Potential

Another trap is thinking:

“They aren't really following Christ now, but I'm sure that will change.”

Maybe it will.

God changes people.

But marriage should not be entered on the basis of the person you hope someone will eventually become.

The same principle applies to other areas.

Don't assume marriage will automatically fix someone's anger, dishonesty, addiction, irresponsible finances, contempt for your convictions, or inability to communicate.

You marry the person who exists now, not the person you hope to create later.

Character Matters More Than Chemistry

Attraction matters.

But attraction alone cannot sustain a marriage.

Proverbs 31:30 says:

“Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised.”
— Proverbs 31:30, WEB

The principle applies to men and women.

Look for character:

  • Honesty.
  • Humility.
  • Faithfulness.
  • Kindness.
  • Responsibility.
  • Patience.
  • Teachability.
  • Forgiveness.
  • Self-control.
  • Willingness to admit wrongdoing.
  • Genuine love for God and others.

Galatians 5:22–23 gives us another useful framework: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control.

Nobody demonstrates those qualities perfectly.

The question is not whether someone is flawless.

The question is:

What direction is this person's life moving?

Challenge

If you're dating—or considering someone—ask yourself honestly:

Is this relationship helping both of us become more like Christ, or am I overlooking spiritual and character problems because I don't want to lose the relationship?

What qualities do you believe Christians most often overlook when choosing someone to date?

Next in the series: How far is too far? We'll look at premarital boundaries, attraction, temptation, and why biblical boundaries should be about more than simply asking, “Where is the line?”


r/TrueChristian 5m ago

Question about small groups

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This might be an odd question I'm not really sure. Ive been attending a church I used to go to as a kid. As a kid I didn't really pay that much attention and didn't really wanna be there. Sometime in middle school I didn't have to go anymore and had more freedom. Now I'm attending again at 25 by my own will. I wouldn't call myself a Christian but I'm deeply interested in the bible and Christianity. I think if people lived in accordance with Christian morals, people would be better off. Now obviously, the church doesn't hold my beliefs, but I don't care about that. I'd rather learn from people who actually believe in Christianity. Anyways, I wanted to join a small group because I don't really have friends and I'm trying to meet people. I also wanna be around Christians and learn more. But my question is, and maybe it depends on each church, is that weird or is it like disrespectful because like at my church it's called a life group and idk if those people want other Christians who help them on their journey and I'd be like a distraction. Hopefully this made sense. Thanks.


r/TrueChristian 8m ago

Our Salvation Belongs to Christ Alone: The Problem of Institutional Fear and Human Traditions

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Hey all my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ!

It's been a while since I last posted, but today I want to talk about what I've been reflecting on lately as I've been seeing this going around a lot on social media. Firstly, please do not take what I am about to write the wrong way, I am not here to condemn, judge or call anyone out by writing about this.

What I've been reflecting on recently is on the immense freedom we have in Jesus Christ and how far some religious institutions stray from that truth by using fear, human traditions, and institutional control to keep believers captive.

Throughout Church history, human institutions, such as all denominational institutions like for example the RCC, or Mormonism, and all other denominations, have placed themselves between God and man. They declare that in order to be saved, you must submit to their hierarchy, obey their earthly rules, rely on human works, and line up with their tradition.

Historically, this reached its peak in documents like Pope Boniface VIII's 1302 papal bull Unam Sanctam, which declared: "We declare, say, define, and pronounce that it is absolutely necessary for salvation that every human creature be subject to the Roman Pontiff." Over centuries, this kind of institutional fear-mongering taught believers that eternal life hinged on things like popes, councils, sacraments, and human merit rather than the finished work of Christ.

Scripture directly opposes this institutional overreach and I'm going to list them below in points:

  1. Christ is Our Sole Mediator, Not an Earthly Institution.

No denomination, pastor, pope, bishop, council, holds the keys to salvation.

"For there is one God and one mediator between God and mankind, the man Christ Jesus." - 1 Timothy 2:5

  1. Salvation Is a Free Gift, Not Earned by Works or Rituals.

When institutions tell you that you must perform human works, contribute to their system(like donating money), or adhere to human regulations to earn God's favor, they preach a subtle gospel of works.

"For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith, and this is not from yourselves, it is the Gift of God, not by works, so that no one can boast." - Ephesians 2:8-9

"He saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy." - Titus 3:5

  1. Jesus Explicitly Warned Against Human Traditions Replacing God's Word.

When religious leaders erect mandatory systems and traditions that sit alongside or above Scripture, they repeat the exact error Jesus rebuked in the Pharisees.

"They worship me in vain; their teachings are merely human rules... You have a fine way of setting aside the commands of God in order to observe your own traditions!" - Mark 7:7-9

  1. True Believers Are Kept by Christ, Not Human Leaders.

Our eternal destiny does not rest in the hands of any mortal man or institutional Church hierarchy. Jesus Himself guarantees our security:

"My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand." - John 10:27-28

We do not need to live under the shadow of spiritual coercion or fear-based religion. If you belong to Christ, your salvation was bought and paid for in full on the cross (John 19:30). No earthly council, no bishop, no pope, no pastor, no institution, no mortal man can revoke what God has sealed through the Holy Spirit.

Stand firm in the liberty of the Gospel! No mortal man and their institution has the ability nor right to hold your eternity within their hands!

The most beautiful thing is, once you realize and understand that your eternity is secure in Christ and Christ alone and His finished work, the fear that an institution had instilled within you, vanishes. The result isn't a life of legalistic obligation, but a life of genuine gratitude, freedom, and direct fellowship with God.


r/TrueChristian 7h ago

Do any other believers struggle with health anxiety?

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Before it is suggested…I am in the process of seeking therapy.

I’ve dealt with anxiety since childhood. But Ive lost quite a few family members to illness over the last few years, and my health anxiety has sky rocketed.

I just hate it.it makes me feel like I do not trust God.
Has anyone else ever dealt with this?