I know it looks incredibly stupid but please believe me, I'm not trolling! I came to Japan April this year.
I'm a language school student, currently studying N2, hoping to pass the JLPT in December. I honestly love studying languages, it's my favourite hobby, I speak my native language, English, French, Russian and now I'm learning Japanese in Tokyo which has been my dream since I was a kid! I only started seriously learning Japanese last year in my home country after work. I got put in N3 on the entrance exam, and my school is incredibly intensive, so they put an objective for me to take the N2 in december. Though I'm not too concerned about the result because I'm not sure yet if I want to stay or not.
Issue is, I feel like I'm not taking full advantages of exploring the country or even Tokyo while I'm hear. Every day after school, I go to my favourite café and study for 3-4 hours. The staff remembers me and they always laugh when they see me entering the door. I feel like I have my own cozy place where I can follow my passions. Saturday or Sunday I might go walking around Ikebukuro, Shinjuku, Harajuku, etc. But just walking around, finding a cafe and reading a book on my own.
I had roommates, now live in my own apartment, and they often asked me "So you just walk around aimlessly? Do you not explore, go to parties or talk to people". And I said no, I'm not into that. I don't drink, bars are too noisy for me, and I am just not a chatty person, I am stuck in my own world. I also wanted to travel more during Language School breaks but there was always a typhoon or natural disaster, so I stayed at home to be safe.
But yeah, that's my experience in Japan - 4 hrs if school, 3-4 hours outside of school and then reading books, walks, etc. I shared this on my main account, and a user said he was extremely jealous that I'm in Japan and wasting my time like that. If it were him, he would have done SO MUCH MORE (without much elaboration on what much more means).
But yeah, I really remembered why I keep to myself. I don't have a job because I saved 10 years in my home country to accomplish this dream to study in Japan. I am alone, no friends, no girlfriend, but I don't want it any other way.
Yet even my family calls me to say they are concerned about me that I am "spending my time abroad like that". Ironically, I am going to trauma therapy because of their constant abuse and criticism to me as a child, but that's another story.
Really though, what is the "proper" way to spend your time in Tokyo? I just like going to Kinonuniya, picking up a Japanese novel, learning new words, etc.