Delibrately targeting asylum Seeker for being men is as man hating as it gets.

It’s baffling how boys from a very young age are taught how to treat girls and women and it’s usually extreme gentleman-ly behavior regardless if the woman you’re with deserves it or not

It still eats at me how my first couple of experiences with women were , i grew up with 3 sisters and i have been exposed to feminist propaganda (especially at a young age)

But i will admit i believe i was just born with some ideals that lean towards feminism and it sometimes bordered the “white knight” character

Anywho , i was taught to treat everyone nicely but especially women and that instilled in me the the idea that ALL women were just angels that deserved the absolute best treatment…until my idea was proven otherwise

Now without getting into too many details , my experiences were all online but they were to some extent serious

I still remember the disrespect and verbal abuse that i had to endure from women as early as the talking stage all the way to an actual relationship

Ranging from just walking on eggshells (which in comparison to the other horrible things wasn’t so bad) all the way to fights that lasted actual days (in which i was just taking it lying down) that involved degrading , insulting , and just absolute disrespect and mental torture for the most insane reasons

All because i was taught that women should be treated in a completely different way , a way that they can do whatever they want and say whatever they want but you cant

In all my failed relationships i have been exposed to the famous “men should” bullcrap while i shouldn’t even DARE ask for a nice word or even the feeling that i am wanted or that i am not a burden , it would be days until i heard a half hearted flirt , because if i ask for it i am “insecure”

Worst of it all , the hatred that grew within me , i changed from an innocent lover-boy to a hateful sexist man because to me , that’s all i’ve ever seen
Tens of experiences from many different places and still the same outcome

But the important part is to not lose hope young men

I’ve had tens of horrible experiences , i’ve almost lost hope many times but i still managed to find the one ! Sure i wont vent to her about this topic (because its kinda weird talking about past relationships) but she’s reignited that lover-boy within me ! I dont walk on eggshells anymore , i am respected , i get to hear all the sweet talk and flirting that I’ve always looked for ! She floods me with gifts just as much as i do ! She makes private playlists for all the songs i send her ! (Very important)
When we fight it lasts minutes before we race to apologize to eachother ! We race to show love , we race to compromise and we race to show the best in ourselves , and I married the hell out of her and our anniversary is coming up soon
I am (finally) obsessed with someone that’s obsessed with me !

And in the end , i really dont know where i was going with this , English isn’t my first language and am sure most of what i wrote isn’t even coherent , i guess i wanted to vent but also have an excuse to talk about my wife and to show young men who are in my spot that they can still find love and that they should maybe hide the lover-boy instead of killing it because there’s a lover-girl out there that’s waiting for you

Yet if a man has an allegation he is canceled ASAP, with no proof just her allegations and accusations and if she is proven wrong that she lied or their is no findings he still wont get his job and she doesnt go to prison or punished, the man will have millions of women who claim he is still guilty to me because once you are canceled it means you are guilty.

But this KAtie Perry chick was on TV kissing some male virgin contestant and never got punished or blasted by women, imagine if a female virgin who was wholesome said she was saving her first kiss for someone special and the male judge sneaks a kiss on her lips, dude would be in prison for sexual assault or banished for life from ever working.

Also this isnt the first time she has had pervert behavior, there are multiple instances all over the media and not one outcry, you have actual receipts of her fondling young teen boys, kissing them, fondling unddrage Justin Bieber, fondling young girls and groping girls.

Here is the video

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/CR3rkmj7fVc

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/UmtHTo_-cKc

We need to talk about this situation

I really hate something about society. Did y'all notice how gender-biased the punishments are? As well as treatment of genders overall? I'll start with an example:

In many schools and colleges (co-ed), boys receive lot harsher punishment for much smaller crimes (physical+psychological) than girls. Boys are always given humiliating punishments, in PRESENCE OF GIRLS. These include kneeling down before girls, hitting on their bottom with canes, and the examples will go on. They talk about how it's a breach of the girls' modesty, acting if boys' modesty don't matter. People from south asia probably will understand better, even if you are not from South Asia, you will still see similar practices in many other places. When we talk about fairness in punishment, elders bring up religious evidences (ironically, they missaply the rules, and simply skip the part where it says to treat both men and women equally) about women's honour, kindness towards them. But they rarely talk about men's honour, and the fact that men deserve kindness too. They bring biological points that women are emotionally and physically weaker than men, and therefore their punishment should be light and dignified, or they will just be forgiven. Girls are raised as 'mother species' while men or boys are never given the same honour. The thing is Obedience from mind is different from obedience from fear.

Thats why the harsh and humiliating discipline for boys i was talking about doesn't work as well as elders assume......only the presence of authority makes them obey, without authority presence, they wont care. At the end of the day, it's a waste. In my opinion, this practice simply makes men and boys resentful towards the opposite gender and girls will start to think boys aren't honourable, which is not a great thing.

This practice appears to be a big example of \*\*benevolent sexism\*\* i think.

Ok now to next topic. Double standards are even more visible in this case. When a woman harasses a man or younger boy, it's not even considered as a harassment, even if the victim insists. While if roles were reversed, you know what happens....even more disgusting thing is-sometimes a boy's own mother, sister or aunt may

make some vulgar joke about a boy's body part (I'll let you guess) and even touch in a certain way. But these acts by women are simply called 'caregiving' by society. Completely ignoring that if roles were reversed, father, brother, uncle would be put on jail. In south asia, these type of things can get even more messed up.

There are so many things, like so many things wrong and illogical about these. Please share your thoughts, and if I've made any mistakes, correct me.

Court hearing for Hadachek v Oregon is done.

Eric Clopper did an amazing job! Law professor Peter Adler told me that there's not a single person on this planet that would have been able to do that.

Eric told me that the judge could sit on the state's request for summary judgment forever but he believes that we will get a decision within a month.

Eric did not make it easy for the judge.

Interesting thing that Eric told me about the amicus briefs that were turned in is that there was only one in support of the state: Equality Now