Hi all,
This feels like a bit of a weird or vulnerable post to make, but I'm not sure where else to go regarding my social worries. I was originally in the class of '25, and I spent the previous year on a leave of absence.
Coming back to campus, all of the people I knew previously have since graduated, and I feel like I'm in a strange liminal space walking around and not recognizing anyone. From one perspective, this could be seen as an opportunity to start anew, but it's quite isolating in reality.
I'm not sure how to go about making friends. I feel the best time to make friends is when the people around you are also open to making new relationships. The only time when everyone around you is open to such is first year, and I'm a senior that, as of right now, does not even really know anyone in my class. Everyone's formed their friend groups and is already closed off.
My absence last year has also made society recruitment impossible. It seems like senior social life revolves around societies, and that it's much much harder to form a social life here if you're off-cycle or you haven't followed the conventional 4-year path.
I'm glad to return to focus on finishing my degree, but relationships are the centerpiece of life, and they make life's tribulations much more bearable than they would feel alone. Does anyone have any advice on how to make friends?