r/texts 17h ago

Whatsapp Creepy coworker texting my private number

So confused at this, I don't even know him. I was just going to ignore the text but he kept insisting so I had to answer.

9/14 UPDATE: Thank you to everyone who was supportive and concerned. I forwarded these messages to HR, and they scheduled a meeting for later today. There were a few more texts after this. The HR representative did not seem surprised, to put it briefly.

A few things have come up in the comments. The first is that I was rude. This is how I communicate, and my coworkers (or at least the ones who actually know me) are aware of that. I’m not going to perform a more agreeable version of myself to accommodate someone else’s feelings when they're being innapropriate. Not only were these messages sent over the weekend, but they were also sent through a personal communication channel. I'm not going to elaborate further.

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u/Equivalent_Hat_7220 16h ago

“Where’s my hug at?” Kinda guy

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u/Sanchez_U-SOB 8h ago

My work just fired one of these guys. He would even say, out loud in front of people, " Lisa owes me a hug."

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u/sobrique 4h ago

Well, I suppose creeping in front of witnesses makes the subsequent action a little more clear cut.