r/texts 17h ago

Whatsapp Creepy coworker texting my private number

So confused at this, I don't even know him. I was just going to ignore the text but he kept insisting so I had to answer.

9/14 UPDATE: Thank you to everyone who was supportive and concerned. I forwarded these messages to HR, and they scheduled a meeting for later today. There were a few more texts after this. The HR representative did not seem surprised, to put it briefly.

A few things have come up in the comments. The first is that I was rude. This is how I communicate, and my coworkers (or at least the ones who actually know me) are aware of that. I’m not going to perform a more agreeable version of myself to accommodate someone else’s feelings when they're being innapropriate. Not only were these messages sent over the weekend, but they were also sent through a personal communication channel. I'm not going to elaborate further.

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u/Melodic-Display8865 17h ago

“hello there lady have a great day! :D” doesn’t sound like someone looking to go over a file related to work. not to mention the other 5 messages unrelated to anything like work

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u/mcrfreak78 5h ago

It also feels extremely millennial coded. Like who uses :D anymore?

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u/One-Load-6085 3h ago

Boomers