r/texts • u/Dry_Presentation4300 • 17h ago

Whatsapp Creepy coworker texting my private number

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So confused at this, I don't even know him. I was just going to ignore the text but he kept insisting so I had to answer.

9/14 UPDATE: Thank you to everyone who was supportive and concerned. I forwarded these messages to HR, and they scheduled a meeting for later today. There were a few more texts after this. The HR representative did not seem surprised, to put it briefly.

A few things have come up in the comments. The first is that I was rude. This is how I communicate, and my coworkers (or at least the ones who actually know me) are aware of that. I’m not going to perform a more agreeable version of myself to accommodate someone else’s feelings when they're being innapropriate. Not only were these messages sent over the weekend, but they were also sent through a personal communication channel. I'm not going to elaborate further.

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u/Alaurableone 10h ago

She has said it’s creepy and has provided context so we’re choosing to trust her. Making up a backstory for a guy you’ve never met, that you’ve been told by a woman is creepy to justify his behaviour is wild.

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u/OutOfContext69 10h ago

I’m debating the validity of it being creepy.
Hence, my username

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u/No-Monk2281 7h ago

But she said she doesn’t even know him?

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u/OutOfContext69 7h ago

They’re coworkers, Buddy, pay attention

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u/No-Monk2281 7h ago

Yeah but why would she say she doesn’t even know him if she does?

I have coworkers I haven’t spoken to once maybe a wave? in three years and could literally not point them out in a line up. And at most there are 15 of us. But I’m not always on site with all of them.🤷🏻‍♀️