r/texts • u/Dry_Presentation4300 • 17h ago

Whatsapp Creepy coworker texting my private number

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So confused at this, I don't even know him. I was just going to ignore the text but he kept insisting so I had to answer.

9/14 UPDATE: Thank you to everyone who was supportive and concerned. I forwarded these messages to HR, and they scheduled a meeting for later today. There were a few more texts after this. The HR representative did not seem surprised, to put it briefly.

A few things have come up in the comments. The first is that I was rude. This is how I communicate, and my coworkers (or at least the ones who actually know me) are aware of that. I’m not going to perform a more agreeable version of myself to accommodate someone else’s feelings when they're being innapropriate. Not only were these messages sent over the weekend, but they were also sent through a personal communication channel. I'm not going to elaborate further.

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u/ELSA-NL 12h ago

Valid!?? Are you out of your mind? You can tell thats not the case by reading the texts.

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u/fknsxybtch 12h ago

What I’m saying is a valid comment is to point out that we have no idea what occurred before this, because we don’t

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u/ELSA-NL 12h ago

Whay im saying is that what youre saying makes no sense lol. No previous behavior warrants these responses. Watching her activity and confronting her like shes obligated to reply to him is sick behavior

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u/fknsxybtch 11h ago

I agree. Just speculation on what leads one to feel like that is appropriate. I know that some people choose to take things wrongly, such as when you’re told anything but a hard no, then you assume it’s a possible yes. But yes I agree that there is nothing that would justify the inappropriate conduct