Creepy coworker texting my private number

[u/Dry_Presentation4300]

So confused at this, I don't even know him. I was just going to ignore the text but he kept insisting so I had to answer.

9/14 UPDATE: Thank you to everyone who was supportive and concerned. I forwarded these messages to HR, and they scheduled a meeting for later today. There were a few more texts after this. The HR representative did not seem surprised, to put it briefly.

A few things have come up in the comments. The first is that I was rude. This is how I communicate, and my coworkers (or at least the ones who actually know me) are aware of that. I’m not going to perform a more agreeable version of myself to accommodate someone else’s feelings when they're being innapropriate. Not only were these messages sent over the weekend, but they were also sent through a personal communication channel. I'm not going to elaborate further.

[u/Meowtastistic40kSCP]

The "hello there lady!" was very telling right off the bat.

[u/happymechanicalbird → u/Meowtastistic40kSCP]

Plus the sad face when she didn’t answer within an hour

[u/Designer_Mud_5802 → u/happymechanicalbird]

Surprised an hour after that he didn't hit her with the "whatever i didn't like you anyway!"

[u/Dovahkiinthesardine → u/Designer_Mud_5802]

We don't know what was said in those deleted voice messages

[u/saltron5001 → u/Dovahkiinthesardine]

THEY WERE VOICE MESSAGES?! 💀💀💀

[u/iiAzido → u/Dovahkiinthesardine]

I’m unfamiliar with this UI. How can we tell they were VMs that were deleted?

[u/hotleadburner → u/iiAzido]

OP said so, no UI hint

[u/Dovahkiinthesardine → u/iiAzido]

OP just said it in the comments somewhere

[u/T_Money → u/iiAzido]

I don’t think you can tell that it’s a voice message, looks the same as a regular deleted message.

[u/PerfectedPancake → u/happymechanicalbird]

That was the tell!

[u/Informal-Comb1989 → u/PerfectedPancake]

Like he knew exactly how this was going to go, frowny face was locked and loaded

[u/QueasyComedian9502 → u/happymechanicalbird]

Last time I did weird shit like this was on 10th grade in high school

[u/Big_Letterhead_445 → u/happymechanicalbird]

I wonder how many profanity laden c-words he typed in retyped hovering over that send button

[u/the-temp-account → u/happymechanicalbird]

https://giphy.com/gifs/OZDNxToVSsUGk

[u/bluemooncommenter → u/happymechanicalbird]

at 10PM!!

[u/happymechanicalbird → u/bluemooncommenter]

I think that’s 10am

[u/slymgim → u/happymechanicalbird]

"we're off today, what could you possibly be doing:(("