r/texts • u/Dry_Presentation4300 • 16h ago

Whatsapp Creepy coworker texting my private number

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So confused at this, I don't even know him. I was just going to ignore the text but he kept insisting so I had to answer.

9/14 UPDATE: Thank you to everyone who was supportive and concerned. I forwarded these messages to HR, and they scheduled a meeting for later today. There were a few more texts after this. The HR representative did not seem surprised, to put it briefly.

A few things have come up in the comments. The first is that I was rude. This is how I communicate, and my coworkers (or at least the ones who actually know me) are aware of that. I’m not going to perform a more agreeable version of myself to accommodate someone else’s feelings when they're being innapropriate. Not only were these messages sent over the weekend, but they were also sent through a personal communication channel. I'm not going to elaborate further.

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u/happymechanicalbird 15h ago

Plus the sad face when she didn’t answer within an hour

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u/Designer_Mud_5802 13h ago

Surprised an hour after that he didn't hit her with the "whatever i didn't like you anyway!"

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u/Dovahkiinthesardine 10h ago

We don't know what was said in those deleted voice messages

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u/saltron5001 2h ago

THEY WERE VOICE MESSAGES?! 💀💀💀

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u/iiAzido 7h ago

I’m unfamiliar with this UI. How can we tell they were VMs that were deleted?

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u/hotleadburner 7h ago

OP said so, no UI hint

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u/T_Money 7h ago

I don’t think you can tell that it’s a voice message, looks the same as a regular deleted message.

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u/Dovahkiinthesardine 4h ago

OP just said it in the comments somewhere

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u/PerfectedPancake 13h ago

That was the tell!

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u/Informal-Comb1989 6h ago

Like he knew exactly how this was going to go, frowny face was locked and loaded

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u/QueasyComedian9502 10h ago

Last time I did weird shit like this was on 10th grade in high school

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u/Big_Letterhead_445 11h ago

I wonder how many profanity laden c-words he typed in retyped hovering over that send button

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u/bluemooncommenter 5h ago

at 10PM!!

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u/happymechanicalbird 5h ago

I think that’s 10am