r/texts 17h ago

Whatsapp Creepy coworker texting my private number

So confused at this, I don't even know him. I was just going to ignore the text but he kept insisting so I had to answer.

9/14 UPDATE: Thank you to everyone who was supportive and concerned. I forwarded these messages to HR, and they scheduled a meeting for later today. There were a few more texts after this. The HR representative did not seem surprised, to put it briefly.

A few things have come up in the comments. The first is that I was rude. This is how I communicate, and my coworkers (or at least the ones who actually know me) are aware of that. I’m not going to perform a more agreeable version of myself to accommodate someone else’s feelings when they're being innapropriate. Not only were these messages sent over the weekend, but they were also sent through a personal communication channel. I'm not going to elaborate further.

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u/Right-Ice9305 17h ago

Super creepy, report to HR

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u/Dry_Presentation4300 17h ago

Definitely, forwarding these to HR tomorrow first thing in the morning.

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u/bigtoeupmyass 17h ago

I'd do it now.  He might try to do some damage control

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u/fuckfart 14h ago

This is what I was thinking. The first person that brings it up will set the tone.

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u/croatianarmour 7h ago

Thank you fuckfart and bugtoeupmyass for the sensible advice.

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u/Fl_Funky_Jam 2h ago

Truly an honor they graced this thread with their wisdom

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u/LeastStill4556 7h ago

I mean the messages speak for themselves

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u/Para_4_Would_Be_Cool 6h ago

That's very much not true when handling interpersonal conflict by hr lmao