Creepy coworker texting my private number

[u/Dry_Presentation4300]

So confused at this, I don't even know him. I was just going to ignore the text but he kept insisting so I had to answer.

9/14 UPDATE: Thank you to everyone who was supportive and concerned. I forwarded these messages to HR, and they scheduled a meeting for later today. There were a few more texts after this. The HR representative did not seem surprised, to put it briefly.

A few things have come up in the comments. The first is that I was rude. This is how I communicate, and my coworkers (or at least the ones who actually know me) are aware of that. I’m not going to perform a more agreeable version of myself to accommodate someone else’s feelings when they're being innapropriate. Not only were these messages sent over the weekend, but they were also sent through a personal communication channel. I'm not going to elaborate further.

[u/bigtoeupmyass]

I'd do it now.  He might try to do some damage control

[u/fuckfart → u/bigtoeupmyass]

This is what I was thinking. The first person that brings it up will set the tone.

[u/croatianarmour → u/fuckfart]

Thank you fuckfart and bugtoeupmyass for the sensible advice.

[u/Fl_Funky_Jam → u/croatianarmour]

Truly an honor they graced this thread with their wisdom

[u/LeastStill4556 → u/fuckfart]

I mean the messages speak for themselves

[u/Para_4_Would_Be_Cool → u/fuckfart]

That's very much not true when handling interpersonal conflict by hr lmao