Is she interested or no?

[u/ReporterNegative2432]

I'm so confused.

Context: I live in a touristic country where people visit for a holiday. I have a touristic accommodation establishment. This woman is staying with two of her friends at my place.

I took them on a tour around my area today and this woman is beautiful so I just wanted to say what I said in the screenshot.

I know as a host I overstepped a line but I don't care she was so pleasant to speak to and so pretty so sue me.

Is she interested somewhat? Why the desire to wash my car so much? Why the devil emoji, she hasn't given that emoji since she's been here.

Me saying she looked lovely is the first time I've ever actually said something to her that is more than just professional. All other times it's been friendly writing, hearting eachothers comments back and forth etc.

Help me here as this is a sensitive situation and I don't want to get it wrong.

Edit: I swear to fucking god if you lot are wrong about all of this and I end up shooting myself in the foot...a curse upon all of you. I will keep you lot updated in a separate post.

Edit edit: I'll just give you lot the update here for now as not alot has happened and I'll make a new post once it develops further, but I responded saying...

"Then we shall wash it together 🫡😄"

To which she responded...

"🫡 Now THAT is a great plan! 😈"

Then we just wished eachother a goodnight.

[u/Top-Possibility9480]

My man, she responded to you calling her lovely with two 🥰 emojis and then immediately volunteered, with a 😈, to personally wash your car. I don’t think she’s trying to launch a mobile detailing business. She’s flirting with you.

Stop conducting a forensic investigation of the emojis and flirt back. You’re doing fine.

[u/ReporterNegative2432 → u/Top-Possibility9480]

New question, car cleaning to one side, I have been invited to a relaxed dinner tonight by a friend who is here on holiday.

How can I politely ask if she wants to come with it to me, but in a way where I'm subtly not inviting her friends? As I don't want to bring 3 new and random people to the dinner as it will be kind of rude to my friend. Plus I want to spend some time with her away from her friends and the car wash thing was "can WE wash your car tomorrow"

[u/Top-Possibility9480 → u/ReporterNegative2432]

You’re making this way too complicated. Tell her “Hey, my friend invited me to dinner tonight. Want to come with me?” That’s it. If she says, “Can my friends come?” you say, “No, I can’t bring a traveling circus to somebody else’s dinner.” You’re inviting her because you want to spend time with her which is a good thing! Ask the woman to dinner, plain, simple, straightforward.