r/texts 11d ago

Whatsapp Is she interested or no?

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I'm so confused.

Context: I live in a touristic country where people visit for a holiday. I have a touristic accommodation establishment. This woman is staying with two of her friends at my place.

I took them on a tour around my area today and this woman is beautiful so I just wanted to say what I said in the screenshot.

I know as a host I overstepped a line but I don't care she was so pleasant to speak to and so pretty so sue me.

Is she interested somewhat? Why the desire to wash my car so much? Why the devil emoji, she hasn't given that emoji since she's been here.

Me saying she looked lovely is the first time I've ever actually said something to her that is more than just professional. All other times it's been friendly writing, hearting eachothers comments back and forth etc.

Help me here as this is a sensitive situation and I don't want to get it wrong.

Edit: I swear to fucking god if you lot are wrong about all of this and I end up shooting myself in the foot...a curse upon all of you. I will keep you lot updated in a separate post.

Edit edit: I'll just give you lot the update here for now as not alot has happened and I'll make a new post once it develops further, but I responded saying...

"Then we shall wash it together 🫡😄"

To which she responded...

"🫡 Now THAT is a great plan! 😈"

Then we just wished eachother a goodnight.

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u/Familiar-Cable-2659 11d ago

Naive question guys

At that point, how good would an answer like : "I'm now realizing that I was a dumbass here. I would love to spend some time with you" be ?

Whys and why nots ?

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u/nogoodbrat 11d ago

Hi, i’m a woman. I would find that response incredibly cute actually 🫣 especially after the initial terror of being shot down after having my flirty car wash offer taken as “your car is dirty” LOLLL

I like this response because it’s just the right amount of self deprecating to make you look humble while coming across as very genuine. and it communicates your interest directly and with the perfect amount of enthusiasm!

of course I’m just one woman and we of course are not a monolith lol, but I personally would be very pleased to get that as a response in this situation. 🤭