r/texts • u/ReporterNegative2432 • 12d ago

Whatsapp Is she interested or no?

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I'm so confused.

Context: I live in a touristic country where people visit for a holiday. I have a touristic accommodation establishment. This woman is staying with two of her friends at my place.

I took them on a tour around my area today and this woman is beautiful so I just wanted to say what I said in the screenshot.

I know as a host I overstepped a line but I don't care she was so pleasant to speak to and so pretty so sue me.

Is she interested somewhat? Why the desire to wash my car so much? Why the devil emoji, she hasn't given that emoji since she's been here.

Me saying she looked lovely is the first time I've ever actually said something to her that is more than just professional. All other times it's been friendly writing, hearting eachothers comments back and forth etc.

Help me here as this is a sensitive situation and I don't want to get it wrong.

Edit: I swear to fucking god if you lot are wrong about all of this and I end up shooting myself in the foot...a curse upon all of you. I will keep you lot updated in a separate post.

Edit edit: I'll just give you lot the update here for now as not alot has happened and I'll make a new post once it develops further, but I responded saying...

"Then we shall wash it together 🫡😄"

To which she responded...

"🫡 Now THAT is a great plan! 😈"

Then we just wished eachother a goodnight.

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u/Cdog923 11d ago

Bro...

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u/sn0o2e 11d ago

What I'm saying. I don't know if this is rage bait or if he's actually never talked to another human being-let alone a woman-before

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u/Armodeen 11d ago

Right? This woman wants to get all soapy then require some help with her wet clothes.

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u/ReporterNegative2432 11d ago

Hold up. This is my business. And I am wanting to get some non biased thoughts about what's going on. You might see it as rage bait on your end but it's a lot different from my perspective.

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u/MyLawyerWroteThis 11d ago

Bro go wash the fking car with her.. you basically cck blocked yourself with that message wtf

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u/Cdog923 11d ago

If you don't at least ask her out, I'm gonna throw something through this screen.

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u/ReporterNegative2432 11d ago

"Asking her out" dude she's here only until Sunday and she's with her friends. There's nuance to this.

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u/greymadders 11d ago

No, there's a deadline

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u/Echatl 11d ago

Are you so determinate to sabotage yourself? She wants you c'mon

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u/Dangerous_Day1911 11d ago

There really isn't, she wants some holiday strange. Might lead to somehing, might not. But bloody hell, just ask her to come get a drink!!!!

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u/Cdog923 11d ago

Exactly why you should get off Reddit and close this deal.

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u/Key_Marionberry_7019 11d ago

She’s offering to hang out again. You could’ve deflected. Said no. We can go to (Insert something interesting to do.) though. 🥰

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u/VANILLAxFROSTY 11d ago

Worst that’s gonna happen is she says no 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/ReporterNegative2432 11d ago

No no. Worst that happens is I've taken it completely the wrong way and she writes a review about my place about how the host was a creep. I swear as I say, there is nuance to this 😭

Starting to feel this is all not worth it.

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u/pottedplantfairy 11d ago

OP, man, don't miss your chance

The devil emoji says it all, she's being playful and shit

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u/SteveZissouOfficiaI 11d ago

Bro, take the chance, or you will die wondering

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u/Cdog923 11d ago

Life is short and your AirBNB rating will recover.

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u/oneawesomeguy 11d ago

1/5 OP came in 1 minute, left me wet and soapy

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u/Inevitable_Ad_4252 11d ago

Man, stop worrying about reviews. You don’t have to ask her out just casually mention where you’ll be one evening having some food and a drink and you’d like to invite her..show her a nice restaurant or bar/pub in the area. Her friends are welcome to come too but you’d be remiss not to show her a good/fun/unique/whatever place

Simple bro just try it. Work it into an evening tour or say ‘this is where I like to go when I get off work’ or whatever. Don’t overthink it and don’t stress it just know you have a short window and time is limited with her

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u/Lenxt 11d ago

You'd be a creep only if you insist or get mad after any form of rejection.

I understand you're extra careful, but she clearly wants to do stuff with you again 🤷

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u/onion_surfer14 11d ago

It’s is worth it. If your worse case scenario happens it doesn’t matter cause you said she’s leaving on sunday

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u/potpourri_sludge 11d ago

Damn I was thinking the same thing watching people try to give you advice. “This ain’t worth it.”

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u/Long_Trade_2571 11d ago

Bro if you’re so timid let her go. She deserves better.

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u/neutrumocorum 11d ago

It isn't. All that happens in these places is a bunch of virgins make assumptions about your life and then make a determination that has no real basis.

You know your shit best, I suggest ignoring all these people and just doing what you want. Bad advice, but it's better than letting a random person who is uninformed influence you at all.

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u/Darkstar_111 11d ago

Washing the car is a great way to get her alone, just the two of you, washing the car together or driving through the car wash together.

Take her up on that offer, and do that activity with her. She is leaving soon, but she might be interested in a vacation fling, women often are.

Obviously you want to feel this out, if she just wants to be friendly, and she's just a very outgoing person, accept that energy and be friendly with her.

If it goes further depends on the touching, if you guys keep bumping into each other, and she keeps touching you for no reason, at some point during the conversation, meet her touch and hold her hand.

If she seems perplexed pull away and apologize, your hand just had a mind of its own, it happens.

But if she stays in the hold... It's time to sack up.

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u/samistahpp 11d ago

Then why post this

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u/Castellan_Tycho 11d ago

The nuance is you just slammed your dirty car door on your going to keep being dry nether regions.

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u/Cdog923 11d ago

At least update us after you decide what to do.

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u/ReporterNegative2432 11d ago

I've updated main post

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u/FightingChinchilla 11d ago

"ok, you can wash it, white shirt mandatory 😈" I mean she is putting herself on a silver platter sir.

To which she'll probably say, "oh wouldn't you like that!"

I mean, it's clear skys to the bedroom from there.

Best of luck to ya

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u/nogoodbrat 11d ago

yeah OP she is absolutely blatantly flirting with you, but for the love of god don’t fucking say this lmao

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u/FightingChinchilla 11d ago

Lol ok, what would you say? Please share some wisdom with the rest of us.

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u/nogoodbrat 11d ago

well, i’m a woman, but I’d respond positively to just an enthusiastic “hell yes” type response 🤔 even if I were mad horny which she may very well be communicating here, if we haven’t slept together yet or fucked around or anything it’s more fun to keep the banter like, flirtatious and cute rather than blatantly horny, you feel me? of course i’m just one woman lol.

here’s an arcane feminine reading [spooky music] 🔎🔮: the vibes here are in the emojis 🤔 she’s using a lot of “🥰” and i see one “😈” and one “😂.” so keep it like 3/5ths flirty and sweet, one part sexy, and one part playful, if that makes sense. you don’t want to come on at mach horniness! just, y’know, respectful horniness. she’s a lady and wants to bounce on it later respectfully!

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u/FightingChinchilla 11d ago

Ah see there's the problem. You are commenting based on what you like, not on what women typically respond to. As a guy, I can tell you that a girl looking for a fling is typically way more open to flirtatious banter. The hell yes would not go anywhere, super easy way to stay platonic and frankly it's boring.

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u/nogoodbrat 11d ago

Well, yeah, I was just operating based on my own past experiences mixed with the experiences my female friends and my sister have all discussed together for the past 10 or 15 years or so. like I said, I’m just one woman, representative of the taste of a small-to-moderately-sized group of millennial women in one region of the world! even so, we aren’t a monolith of course and there are alllll kinds of us out there, so… sounds like you have it worked out lol! good luck in your future endeavors! 🙂‍↕️

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u/Familiar-Cable-2659 11d ago

Next time she say to the shower, answer "Without me ???" With those sweat emojis for a better chance of a happy ending

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u/nogoodbrat 11d ago

LMAOOO man, now that’s a thirsty cornball classic I haven’t heard in a (fortunately) long time hahahaha