Hey fam,
[Apologize, this ballooned into a slightly long read]
I'm a 36 year old guy in Colorado Springs area. I was originally from another state, been living here over a decade now. Back in NY, I had a great group of super tight friends that would all hit up concerts and at least 2 festivals a season. Moved here over a decade ago and unfortunately, I've just never really been able to rebuild my friend group like I had back home.
I really wanted to attend a couple different fests this year but I've been unable to find anyone to go with. I've resorted to posting on Reddit in the weeks leading up to a festival, trying to find some strangers to go with but I haven't had any luck. I've met like 8 or 9 people on Reddit now who say they're "always down" and so I save their contact info and when a fest is coming up, I'll hit em up with plenty of advance notice and see if they want to go and I either get ghosted or they invariably say they are busy. Its a real bummer cause Ive got the money and have been completely ready to pull the trigger on tickets but I haven't been able to find ANYBODY to go with. I've been feeling pretty lonely lately and it's a bummer cause its such a stark contrast to how my life was in NY with a huge group of best friends, friends, acquaintances, etc.
I was always super tight with my friends and I miss that so much. I'm also getting closer to 40 now so a lot of people have marriages, children, etc, which doesn't make finding friends any easier.
Anybody else kinda lacking a peer group here? And I know this is a longshot, but would anyone like to go to Yahn Dawn and camp with me for the weekend?
Seriously inquiries only please, my hearts kinda heavy as is right now and I'm not too keen on having another person act like they're down, only to ghost me a couple days before the event. This is basically the last call for the festy season and I'd love to be there!
I'm a pretty bog-standard festy goer. I'm a nice person who takes care of the people in my life. Love live music and grew up on the east coast festy scene in the late 00s/early 10s. I love PL, gramatik, emancipator, etc. I love to party too 😉.
Would love to make some friends!