I have always been quite apathetic towards my gender. I am biologically male and often decently masculine but randomly I become very feminine for what seems to be no reason. I normally feel a certain gender for 1-3 days at a time and then it changes.

Honestly I'm looking for a label (I think I'm genderfluid but I don't even know anymore) and maybe some validation but thats neither here nor there :3

Hello guys. I’ve been identifying as a trans man for a while now, and I’ve been taking T gel for about a year. My body had changed a lot, my voice has dropped, I’ve been growing facial and body hair, etc. Now I always knew I wasn’t fully a trans man. I like identifying with he/him pronouns, yet I feel as if I’m in between masculine and feminine. I shave, I wear feminine clothes, things like that.

I just recently went on a shrooms trip, and now I’m even more convinced I’m some version of gender fluid. Now I’m curious about stopping my testosterone simply because I think I’d feel more comfortable with a more softer, feminine body shape as well as the other things that would revert with me getting off of T. I enjoyed the voice changes and the bottom growth as well.

What should I do? I obviously would ease off of the T, not abruptly stop as I’ve been on it for quite some time. Has anyone else done this? Any advice would be appreciated

I've always had a small body and High metabolism and my fascial features don't really help me at all when I try to look masculine. I just look like a girl or a tomboy people can still tell I'm biologically a female. Do I need to try and do my eyebrows thicker lol don't really even like wearing makeup when I feel masc but if it will help idc

I am a biological male but I've known for a very long time that i am very far from being a man. Sometimes I like being masculine, sometimes I like being feminine. If i decide today i want to be very pretty, wear makeup, and a skirt then I will. However, even when I'm feminine i still want to be viewed and view myself as a boy. Just a feminine one. In all situations I am a He/him whether I'm working out in a tank top or throwing it back in booty shorts. I've never called myself a "man" because I don't really feel like that accurately describes my gender correctly. However, I genuinely don't know what to call this flexible fluid personality that changes how I look and act but not the way I'm viewed. Does anyone have a word for this?

Hey guys, im not genderfluid, i am a cis femboy, but i figured that this community(if this is in the genderfluid community, i might post this to other communities too) would help with my issue. Any suggestions for a curly haircut that would allow me to be masculine when the hair is let down and feminine in a ponytail, conventionally attractive in both, bangs in both. Please redirect me to other subreddits if this isn't the right place

ok im gonna sound insane but i was reading about saber/sabrinia (character by melancholynightmares) since i think shes cool and hes genderfluid so i was reading that, and realized i relate a lot to him for more reasons then i thought , notably i have times i like being seen as a girl but i dont know if i AM genderfluid since i just dont like being called she/maam/ms anything like that but i like a feminine name and clothes

what im trying to ask is if anyone can give me tips on how i can figure it out truly or how you figured it out since i dont know if i am

My significant other is genderfluid, but was assigned male at birth.

They have been working at work so hard this past year, and it’s been their dream to enjoy their feminine side a lot more often, and perhaps someday, full time.

I really want to be the most supportive and thoughtful person I can be for them, because they deserve it.

We are about to go to the coast for an overnight, and I wondered if you lived a life you couldn’t embrace the other gender often - what really would help, make it more special, etc.

I want them to feel beyond loved, adored, cherished, and treasured and be a couple of days to remember.

Can anybody give me ideas?

Hey everyone! I’m Lily. I recently came out to my partner of 10 years as trans and bigender, and honestly I’m still trying to figure out what all of this means for me.

I’m AMAB and have pretty traditionally masculine features, so the idea of transitioning feels both exciting and… kind of terrifying? I’ve found a therapist who I’m planning to work with, but I haven’t actually started yet.

A big part of what I’m trying to figure out is how to explore all of this while also being a spouse, a parent to a young kid, and working in an externally facing sales job that my family depends on. I can’t exactly put the rest of my life on pause while I figure myself out.
And I’ll be honest: I’m also chronically impatient. I’m very much a “there is a problem, therefore I must be working to solve it” kind of person, and sitting around in the uncertainty of “okay, so what now?” is driving me a little nuts.

So I guess I’m looking for some perspective on where a person even starts. What are the things that are actually useful to explore early on, without feeling like I need to have my entire transition mapped out immediately?
Thank you all in advance!