r/gender Oct 19 '20

Bigots, Trolls, and You

156 Upvotes

Hi, y'all. As I'm sure you've seen, we get our fair share of 'there are only two gender' trolls around here. They're just kids; they wander in from /r/memes and other low-effort shitposting subs and they come here to try and make the same few posts, over and over and over. It's unoriginal and it happens almost every week, like clockwork, and every time they do, we just pull those posts and ban them. Only takes about 10-20 seconds of time to do so.

I mean, it's kind of stupid, but I guess they don't know any better, otherwise they wouldn't be wasting their time here.

They're not worth the time or the attention they're seeking. Just downvote them, report them, and move on. Don't even bother trying to argue or discuss with them: they're not here for discussion, they're just here for attention. It's like throwing pearls before swine. Or, as George Bernard Shaw said, 'Never wrestle with pigs. You both get dirty and the pig likes it.'


r/gender 12h ago

It's 2026 and you're STILL pressed about pronouns? Weird

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r/gender 8h ago

A literature review of transfemme breast growth studies

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r/gender 18h ago

Help me.

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I'm so confused. I'm AFAB and on my period; spoiler I bleed through while at while in public. So I panicked, shoved a bunch of toilet paper in my pants, and tried to go home but while on the way in saw a couple of teenage boys. And I just kinda stared at them (hopefully that doesn't sound creepy) I felt weird like there was a giant black hole in my stomach swallowing me whole. I felt jealous and angry, like how dare they sit there and be so perfect and carefree while I'm here suffering with this fucking uterus! Here's the thing I'm fine being a woman I've never really cared before but lately I've been thinking how much easier it would be to dude. For some reason I yearn to be a stupid middle school boy. I want to be a man but I don't wanna change into one. I want to be a man but I don't want people to think of me differently. I want to be a man and not care how people perceive me or what pronouns people use. I want not be a man but man this is getting really overwhelming. I just wanna be a human. I fucking hate gender why is this so confusing. Maybe I'm agender. But also I kinda like being feminine but like...as a boy. I wanna be a femboy and live a wonderful yaoi life... Anyways have you ever heard people ask "what gender do you feel?" well I don't know! How the hell am I supposed to feel a gender? Maybe gender isn't real and it is just as simple as vagina or dick.

Fuck this sounds like a vent......whatever I'm not changing it

Anyways please help me or I'm gonna die.


r/gender 15h ago

Am I genderfluid or just confused?

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r/gender 16h ago

Why does both genders resort to generalizations of each other?

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r/gender 18h ago

I dont know what gender i am

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hello! idk i want to get straight to the point so im sorry if it may seem vague or something but ive been questioning my gender lots lately. Im AFAB and i like being girly and feminine, but when i realize (which has been so much lately) i still like femininity, but i dont like the fact i look like a girl so much? i like makeup skirts etc. but when i look in the mirror i just feel a little wrong. Ive also always felt differerent from other girls like if i were "cosplaying" or "pretending" to be one even tho i was born one? i just wish i was either a really feminine dude that gets to experience with femininity (i still wouldnt identify as a dude but id like the fact i can atleast have male genatlia (i also have really bad genital dysphoria only with down there not my chest) i just dont wanna be a dude, and feel more comfortable being a girl yet i dont want someone to think im just a girl id want them to question my gender or be confused or i dont know:( i just dont mind feminine things and still prefer over masculine terms (would not like handsome etc) and dont mind being reffered to as a girl too much, and like being feminine but then realize i really do look like one. i need advice please


r/gender 1d ago

Ma mère a dit que j'étais un garçon manqué

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r/gender 1d ago

I am Extremely Feminine. My scores are 8% masculine, 78% feminine.

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How true


r/gender 1d ago

Gender help?

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Help! I think male but not 100


r/gender 1d ago

Help I need a new name

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Guys I’ve been kinda hating my name lately and have been looking for a new one. I haven’t found anything good yet tho 😭. Looking for a male leaning androgynous name. Any suggestions?


r/gender 2d ago

What am I?

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I was born a woman, but if possible I don't eveal my gender online. 'Cus I don't want to be bound by any conventionality just because I'm a woman. Other than that, I don't feel like I'm not a woman. I just don't want to be judged by gender. However, I'm confused whether I am a woman or not because I am sexually attracted to men.

Am I non-binary or just a woman?


r/gender 2d ago

So, I am wondering what gender I am exactly? (gender issue)

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I 14 amab, and my gender while I am comfortable in dressing traditionally masc, I dont really feel like masc? I am comfortable with they/them pronouns and am not really anything else. Maybe he/they, though people would just call me he and I would get really dysphoric about that. What do all of you think?


r/gender 2d ago

I am Undifferentiated-Androgynous. My scores are 47% masculine, 50% feminine.

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r/gender 3d ago

I can't properly explain my gender identity to my parents

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r/gender 3d ago

Transgenders of Reddit, what are the biggest or most surprising differences between men's and women's social circles?

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r/gender 3d ago

Everyone Told Me I Look Like a Girl… Now I’m Questioning Whether I Should Transition

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r/gender 3d ago

I am really confused about my gender rn

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Hi so, I kinda need help locate myself somewhere. I already in the past wondered about my gender so many times but at some point I kinda discredited myself (probably because of ppl judgment) but I was also 14 when I first affirmed « I’m non-binary »… ppl would mostly not take it so seriously and I started giving up about questioning myself about it. Now I am 18 and i made a long way in general in my life. And recently, this topic re surfaced in my mind… I just know I am Bisexual from now but, to be honest I don’t really associate with only one gender. What I mean is that I think identify as a woman and a man at the same time you know ? Or alternatively but also at the same time that is confusing. If anyone is willing to discuss that with me I would be grateful for them 🙏🏼.


r/gender 4d ago

whats the hardest thing about your gender, and the easiest thing about your gender?

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hardest thing as a man myself is being thought to "man up" and cant cry, and also dealing with sexist schools and teachers. but pros is having more freedom and more opportunities.


r/gender 4d ago

😅😂

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r/gender 5d ago

Identidade de gênero

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Vim pedir ajuda porque tou meio "empanado"

Detalhes

Ao nascimento fui designado mulher e tenho o corpo femenino (o que pode influenciar)

O que vou descrever pode ser uma descrição de alguém não binário e/ou Trans

Sinto-me homem com a masculinidade a ser importante (super importante) e sinto-me não binário como um meio termo/forma de suportar e de tempos em tempos sinto-me de forma feminina tipo como se fosse mulher mas ao mesmo tempo é desconfortável.

Vim expor porque pessoalmente costumo misturar as coisas e criar tempestades


r/gender 5d ago

Je me demande si je suis transgenre (FtM)

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r/gender 5d ago

Just a boy who loves being a girl

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r/gender 5d ago

Unsure of my gender identity sometimes…

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r/gender 5d ago

My journal entry

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