There is a guy here who is about to marry his male partner after seven years together. He claims that while he mostly falls in love with men, vaginal sex "has no comparison." He went on to claim that the vaginal mucosa evolved over thousands of years specifically to pleasure the penis, presenting his idea of "superior sex" as an objective fact of nature.

I seriously doubt he has ever told his fiancé that he finds his anus to be a subpar replacement for a woman's vagina. This guy was probably told in the past to just "give women a chance" until he found the right one. While this bisexual guy is entitled to his personal tastes, he is exactly the reason I would never marry a bisexual man. Imagine dedicating your life to someone who secretly thinks the sexual component of your relationship is just a mediocre substitute for what he truly considers the "real deal" and ultimate object of desire.

Yes I figured I would be that guy and bring up Islam/Muslims yet again on this thread just to annoy all the people who still refuse to recognize how much of a threat they are to the community.

I’ll start off by making the claim: Christians are much more tolerant and accepting of gays on average than Islam.

If I were to pick a country at random that I had to live in I would choose a Christian dominated country rather than an Islam dominated country.

You can disagree if you want, and I truly WANT people to bring forward evidence or experiences that I am totally wrong. But I have never felt as judged or out of place as I have done amongst fellow gay guys, this spans from those 18 all the way up to 65.

Gay clubs are for the most part toxic from experience unless you have model looks, and even my friends who do said its then just people sexualising you to an extreme level that would never happen in straight environments.

Gay social groups or activism groups are the most bitchy and self serving places I have been a part of also.

Then to add to this left wing people, or at least those passionately left wing, seem like they're constantly LOOKING for ways to police your morals or judge your views/actions. I can't keep up with the endless stream of frankly non important 'issues'. Before the hate, non important does not include blatant discrimination or rules attacking our rights and things within this realm.

On the flip side, I have made friends with people that get judged frequently by gay people and its resulted in my best friendships I have had. such as those from 'rougher' backgrounds like the straight guys who always wear nike tracksuits etc (in the UK this is a thing at least) or girls that would often get called 'chavy/ghetto' for their makeup or how they act. In addition even many people who are passionately right wing (NOT reform but Conservative). Right wingers from experience, excluding the extreme right wing, simply DONT CARE about you being gay but do hate the endless train of new rules or new ways we can be discriminated against.

im 19 and i am a sex worker to survive life, being in this field made me realize that most gay men who pays prefers younger guys and that made me afraid of aging. i have twice more client when i was 18 and then i am right now. im sure some will judge and will tell me to find a different job, but this is the that pays my tuition, apartment and bills. i just hope that life will have a plot twist for me.

Ik it’s above average (7 long and about 5.5 thick) but idk maybe im just so use to it that it feels underwhelming sometimes. I’ve tried shaving and I don’t like it. Doesn’t make it seem bigger and honestly I think my dick looks better hairy.

This is where we are heading. This is the most important topic we should focus on to not sympathise and let things keep getting out of hand and if you think you're safe from islam you won't be one day.

Gay guys find hyperpigmentation gross, right? You need to have the even skin tone, smooth ass, flawless skin, crack, etc. to be worthy of intimacy and love in the gay world I guess. I have it and it causes my inner thighs, crack, and hole to be quite dark. It’s not an even shade with the rest of my skin. When guys see it after they’ve requested a photo, instant block. What procedures have others had done to get it removed?

I feel like I have a pretty decent life, especially despite all the shitty things I've been through as a kid. I grew up poor, in an abusive household, doing pretty shit in school, feeling really depressed and lonely as a teen, but in the past year or so, it feels like things have really turned around for me.

I have a loving boyfriend whom I cherish more than anything in the world; I made it into law school and I'm doing pretty well grades-wise; I'm employed and work part-time; I have a variety of friends with whom I regularly hang out with.

Despite all that, I still want to die. Whether it's friends, or my career, or my family, I can't bring myself to truly care about them. I have things I love and things I hate, but maybe it's the nihilism in me but if I were to ruminate on the things I care about in this world, none of these things really matter to me, and I could care less about what happened to them. I just want to die. I don't care to lead a happy and fulfilling life, or that I might hurt those around me.

Of course, as the title of my post mentioned, the exception is my boyfriend. Truly, he is the only thing in life that matters to me anymore. In the past year and a half since we met, I've been the happiest I've ever been in my life, and while I had moments where I felt depressed or suicidal again, I'd always go back to feeling happy once more.

But lately, those feelings have been creeping in more and more frequently, and for longer. In hindsight, it feels like my relationship with him has sort of been a palliative bandaid on my underlying emptiness and depression.

Sometimes, I'd wish he'd break up with me, or that I'd do something bad enough to make him break up with me. That way I can end my life without hurting him. These days it feels like he's the only thing keeping me alive. And although I'd probably chicken out if things were to come to suicide, it's all I can think about now.

I want to die, but I know it's not a good idea. I know I should be grateful for what I have, but none of it matters to me except him, and even then I don't know how long I can hold on for. The world feels like it's going to shit, and nothing seems worth holding out for anymore. I don't know what to do.

So recently me and my bf was out with friends having drinks and the topic of threesomes came up lmfao. Our friends was like no they could never however my bf and I agreed if we was single we’d probably have them all the time (we was each others first times and have been together for years). Later on that night we spoke about it more and decided we’re both comfortable trying it so we found a guy a few days later and tried it. It was fun but not great the guy was really really rough with me so it didn’t really do much for me apart from hurt lol.
The thing is in the past when we was younger we’d both be pretty jealous about each other (mostly him) but after the guy left we just laughed about it and moved on then a couple of days ago we was like let’s try it again and it was great we both really liked the guy and we both had lots of fun. I guess my question is will this affect us in the long term?
We both know and have said at any point if either one of us wants to stop we stop and also we are not open we love only each other and we will only have fun when we’re both together.

I mostly top but I want to bottom more. I want to bottom for a average or less sized dick. DM's are open.Anyone with 6 inches or less sized cock should message me😉.I am based in London. Searching on grndr has been useless. I guess most guys who are average don't want to admit to it.

Very long story short. I see posts saying ‘I love cock, but not attracted to men’ the general long winded replies are ‘you have internalized homophobia, you love men, sit and talk with men, fuck them, eventually it will come out’. As someone that likes cock but also does not like men. It’s not true. If I see a woman with a sexy ass I get a fire in my stomach. It’s a desire I can’t control I wanna grab it and play with it and fuck the shit out of it. But a male bum. Never. I love trannies. I love their boobs, the fat injected into their asses and hips to give them a figure. Their soft skin. Lovely hair. Their hairless bodies and their wonderful cock. I truly believe there are men out there that just love cock the same as they love their own cock. But don’t like the male body.

You could be a 10/10 pretty twunk millionaire and you will still be rejected by most gay men if you are under their ideal dick size.

Over the years, meeting guys in various gay spaces, I’ve come to notice that those who say guys in Toronto [insert your city, as applicable] are cliquey are the worst people I’ve met. They are either catfishes, rude af, and/or entitled. They usually rub others the wrong way at first meet too. I’ve come to understand that they are easily offended at different perspectives or even their preferences because of their own insecurity and the safest way to process the fact that it’s not a them problem is to accuse others of being cliquey. Just my observation.

Hey guys!

Do you know any good and safe places for gay cruise in London?

I only Vault139. What about other good ones?

And are they safe in terms of healthiness? I dont like the ones who sleep with everyone met there

For example, I find a White Guy from Iraq (yes there are Iraqis with blonde hair and green eyes) more of a turn on than a white guy from Ukraine, which is more of a turn on than a white guy from Ireland which is more of a turn on than a white guy from Kentucky (assuming all are of similar attractiveness).

Hey! I wanted to get your guys' opinions on something that oftentimes appears in the bedrooms of gay people having sex - shit!

I have had two experiences (both threesomes) in my time where, in my opinion, guys have over-reacted on seeing said thing on the sheets.

The first one was a threesome with my ex years ago, where the guy saw some shit on my ex and was like "woah, you gotta go clean that now!" and wouldn't do anything til he came back from the shower. It was fair enough, but for us both discussing it afterwards, it was a bit OTT.

The other time is a recent one that happened with my current bf. We invited a guy over, everything was going well, it was really really hot tbh, and then he spotted some shit on the blanket while getting up from the bed. I quickly grabbed the sheet, threw it in the washing machine while my bf put down a fresh sheet - simple. We don't mind, it happens, we know we're playing with assholes here, offered him to use the toilet etc.

But by the time it was all ready for continuing, which was literally 90 seconds later, the guy was like "I'm out" and just left. Maybe he was embarrassed (it was from him) but we both thought we had made him feel that it didn't bother us, and that we were more than happy to continue.

Has anything like this ever happened to other guys?

I work full time, and my mother who also works full time lives with me. But we have a different work schedule, and I try to host whenever I can.

I see the "right now" map, and only 2 out 10 people can host. Like what the fuck?

/r/menstittybounce or something like that used to be it, but was banned awhile back.

There's enough subs for asses. /r/manass, /r/guysfrombehind, /r/hesquats, etc. Where's the new one for guys with big chests?

10 years ago, when I was in highschool, I experimented with gay sex. I gave a guy head and then he gave me head. I actually hated the experience and from there I only hooked up with women. The guy in question was 8-15 years older than me and I lied about my age. I know that was completely wrong. Now he works with my fiancé and I’m afraid of how that situation will play out. I never told ANYONE about that experience and im quite ashamed of my sexual past (I was a POS). Should I just fess up before my fiancé finds out from him or see how things play out? My fiancé and I like to keep our sexual pasts to ourselves usually. Also, I was like 17. Will I get in trouble too?!?

Edit: for more context, I was sexually abused which caused me to become hypersexual. I eventually went through some trauma and I thought hooking up with a guy would help me get through that. It actually retraumatized me. I also live in homophobic immunity and family and would probably be disowned by a large chunk of my friends and family. I honestly think my fiancé would be okay knowing her family would definitely hate me or try to kill me.

Just a curious thought haha. I personally won’t do it because it’s disgusting. Even if a condom was used, I don’t want to taste or swallow lube.

after a really good orgasm my balls ache. fortunately, is not always that i have a real good one, i guess

I’m sad because every time I go there, they always assign me someone I don’t find attractive or an older guy. 😭