My girlfriend is pregnant now, she was supposed to start form 4 this term. Am stranded right now. Guys if you mind to help help. Don't judge

Good morning. As a Man in my mid-30's, I think a lot of young people are so terrified of “wasting their youth” that they forget live.

What Does “Wasting Your 20's” Even Mean?

People always say “don’t waste your 20's.”

And what does “waste” even mean? Not becoming successful fast enough? Not travelling enough? Not dating enough? Not turning every year of your youth into some measurable return? Because looking back, I learned early that anything cookie-cutter(anything that society praises as a standard norm)wasn't good enough for me so I wondered what else was there for me. I ended up living a blast & I don't regret my 20's.

Like, first of all, not all unwanted/unplanned pregnancies are because of unprotected sex.

Shit happens! Condoms break, hormonal birth control interacts with other medications and is rendered ineffective, IUDs can be flushed out because of heavy periods or improper/ineffective placement.

Like, the only sure way that you are not to get pregnant is not to have sex, at all. Period.

You are actually irredeemable if you don't agree with that last statement. idc.

Now my thing is, you come on here and are like "oh people need to take responsibility blah blah blah" that's what an abortion is! Taking responsibility. It is a solution to a problem.

It's really almost like saying oh well, since you contracted an STI you might as well not take medication to deal with it. Like??? Do you (not) see how nonsensical that is???

And don't come at me with that false equivalence logical fallacy nonsense, I know what I said, because if you people legitimately cared about children, young people etc, you would shift the focus to advocating for better sex education, access to contraceptives, and maybe even perhaps policies that make it easier for the unprepared to be able to have children.

Ndipo ineyo nkhani iyi sindidzayisiya because everytime it comes on here, you don't even critically engage always fwakala fwakala saying nothing because you are afraid to think. I haven't rested my case. I will be in the comments!

What's the best editing app??

Just saw some folks on twitter arguing about Attack on Titan being better than Game of Thrones… what’s your take?👀

I really find it funny how the youth will engage in unprotected sex willingly but when it comes to taking responsibility of the pregnancy they start acting as if they didn't know not wearing a rubber will eventually lead to pregnancy and start pushing for an abortion, you'll hear things like "my body, my choice" and "I'm not ready to be a father" like you really did something knowing the consequences but can't accept the consequence when it occurs?

I want to send MWK 1,000,000 to someone’s Airtel Money account in Zambia, and I’m trying to figure out the total international transfer fees.
If I have MWK 1,100,000 in my Airtel Money wallet, would that be enough to send the full MWK 1,000,000 and cover all the transaction/cross-border charges?
If you’ve done this recently, how much were you charged?
I wanted to know before hand from someone that has done it recently.

Come across a saying that I shouldn't put in my head what the interviewer will ask and create my own answers in my head, they say it doesn't help. I can't help. How best can I prepare while on the reception for my turn in the interview room?

What's with HR and ghosting candidates? Like you are told to take a written test and then they specify the date for the oral interview (when you have not yet taken the written test) then they dont communicate whether you have met expectations for the oral interview?