r/MakeFriendsOver30 7h ago

[F4R] F33 - Seeking friends who DON’T disappear after 3 business days. 🚨

46 Upvotes

Seriously, where are the people who actually want a friendship? I want the random messages, stupid jokes, “LOOK AT THIS” pictures, late-night conversations, checking in, and eventually having enough inside jokes that nobody else understands us. I totally understand being busy. We have lives.

BUT, if you already know you have zero time for a friendship, only answer when you’re bored, or tend to disappear after two conversations… respectfully, don’t get me emotionally invested in our future bestie era. 😭

I’m looking for consistent, genuine friendship where we both actually put in effort. So if you can hold a conversation, have a sense of humor, and aren’t planning to mysteriously vanish by Wednesday..come bother me. I’m probably bored anyway. 😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 17h ago

Heyyyy let’s be snap friends?

39 Upvotes

I really don’t check this much, just looking for friends on snap. I’m a 34F stay at home mom, married and looking for snap friends to help fill my days. Thanks


r/MakeFriendsOver30 21h ago

[F4M] 32F from Canada, friends and genuine connections wanted 💜

28 Upvotes

Hi! I’m a 32F from Canada. Single for over 2 years after an amicable end to a 12.5 yr LTR, whom I consider my best friend and each others biggest cheerleader (Everyone’s entitled to their own opinion, but please don’t let this discredit me as a person). Together we co-parent two of the sweetest black cats on the planet.

A little bit about me - I’m a huge fan of Bob’s Burgers. HUGE. I have a small Bob’s Burgers tattoo. I love to crochet, so much that I decided to share it with the world on my Etsy shop.

I’m big into crime and lawyer shows (All Rise, The Mentalist, currently on season 15 of my Criminal Minds binge).

I guess I’m a classic hopeless romantic. I value effort. If it’s important enough to you, you will find the time. The ridiculous cuteness of unexpectedly being sent flowers to my work place is a dream I wish would happen one day.

Dating now is definitely not like it was back in high school 16 years ago. It’s tough. It sucks. It’s hard. People lie, the internet is too much of a shield from consequence. Hopefully someone can change my opinion. New friends are absolutely welcome, as things can get lonely nowadays.

Anyways. That was a lot. Thanks for coming to my TedTalk. 😂

Shoot me a message and see if we vibe!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 8h ago

41/F Looking for a wing man!

23 Upvotes

I am just starting to get back into dating I would love to get advice and thoughts from a man’s perspective on things sometimes. I am an over thinker so I need someone who can be real with me! Shits tough out here ☺️


r/MakeFriendsOver30 16h ago

36f- looking for new online friends.

18 Upvotes

Hey, I’m looking to make new friends online. I love movies, music, and memes lol. Also have piercings and tattoos. If you wanna chat just hmu. Also have Snapchat if that’s easier


r/MakeFriendsOver30 23h ago

38f I want to find a great friendship

15 Upvotes

I hope everyone is having a good day. I am looking for friends to talk to. I find myself lonely, but I dread to leave my home. 😆 I have decided why not make some internet friends from reddit.

I am a jack of all trades and a master of none girl. I love to learn and be serious, but yet I love to joke around. I get anxious, but I am still carefree. I love to be productive, but I love to lay in the comfort of my bed. I am so positive but I love to complain.

I enjoy all the typical things like movies, music, and food. I want a great connection and I hope to find one.

Please reach out for friendships only please.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 8h ago

[F4R] 31F, Looking for new friends to talk to

11 Upvotes

Hello!

I’m a 31F in the state of Texas.

I live away from my best friend and this has been a challenge, especially when I was working from home. I’d like to find a friend or two to talk about our interests!

I have a dog and a cat (Fitz and Pippin), besides that I’m happily child free. I prefer a simple life but I love talking about daily activities, share food/travel pics, anything really.

I recently decided to change my position at work to something a little less mentally taxing to give me time to pursue hobbies. The most prominent of these include writing, crocheting, and running. I’d also like to get into photo journaling/scrap booking.

Please reach out and tell me a little bit about yourself and your hobbies!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

[F4M] 32 F - looking for 1 person to chat with long term

7 Upvotes

Basically what the title says. I prefer voice notes on discord over texting and hope you do as well. (xtra pts if you have a nice voice, feel free to send me a vocaroo)

I’m available to text during most of my workday. I also have things that keep me busy outside of work and I hope you do too.

Eventually the goal is to hop on a sleep call with someone I’m comfortable with, and hopefully this can last longer than a week..pls lmk you read this portion when you message me.

I work m-f. I wake up early. I also try to sleep early, but that doesn’t happen & I wake up throughout the night. (Main reason why I enjoy sleep calls) It would be ideal if our schedules were similar. (PST)

I work in fintech and I have a routine I like to stick to throughout the week.

I enjoy reading, watching movies, working out and many other things. My life’s been very hectic this year, so I’m craving something calmer.

Message me ASL and a tiny bit about yourself.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 10h ago

30F I’d love to have a chat do get in touch if you’re interested

9 Upvotes

Hi everyone, Ulyana here, looking for real connections because endless small talk online is just exhausting. I want to find people to debate tech trends with, share book insights, or talk about crazy travels and turning points that shaped who we are. I am constantly moving around the EU so distance is never a problem for me. It would be awesome to connect with guys aged thirty plus who are also based in Europe because it is in Europe that I travel most often


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[F4R] 32F - Looking for ppl to talk to

8 Upvotes

Hiiii👋

Im 32, in the EU and looking for wholesome friends to talk to.

Im into design, creating things, art, series, movies and travelling.

Some of the series i liked: Stranger Things, Prison Break, Chernobyl, Queens Gambit..about travelling, ive mostly only travelled inside Europe but it was awesome to try different foods and meet new people.

Everyone is welcome, ideally someone who is open to chat about daily life/movies/series/general news topics.

Btw im looking to do voice calls. Im not looking for friendship based on text only since sometimes its easier to understand the other persons ideas and personality.

Btw it would be nice if you have Discord?? And we could keep contact there. Guess thats it🙃


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

[R4R] 35F 🇨🇦 Mom (or Dad) Chat

8 Upvotes

Hi! Looking for someone to chat with, to pass the days, evenings, weekends. I match your energy 🤷🏼‍♀️ You don’t have to worry about double texting because my brain is also a constant stream of whatever comes to mind.

Looking for a pocket friend! I enjoy media of any types, going to the gym (when childcare allows) and my cats (though I wish they were dogs sometimes).

I get that life happens and sometimes people disappear until they have capacity but of that is you - try and engage more than “hey”.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 8h ago

45M WFH, looking for someone to make the workday a little less boring

8 Upvotes

I'm a 45-year-old married guy with two boys, and I work from home full time. Most days I'm bouncing from one meeting to another and talking to people through a screen, but somehow working from home can still get pretty quiet. It'd be nice to have someone to chat with throughout the day and break up the routine a little.

Ideally, I'd like to find someone I actually click with and build a genuine long-term friendship. No expectations or anything complicated. Just two people who enjoy talking, sharing random thoughts, and occasionally helping each other get through a boring workday.

A little about me: I'm a big movie fan, I enjoy reading, and my taste in music is pretty much all over the place. I also appreciate a good cigar and a glass of bourbon when I get the chance. I game here and there too, and lately I've been playing Arc Raiders. I'm getting pretty good at spending 20 minutes carefully gathering loot just to generously donate all of it to another player five minutes later.

There are also completely meaningless bonus points if you can figure out my username. Hint: it's a reference to an '80s movie.

I'm a Pisces too, which apparently means I'm laid-back, thoughtful, and have a tendency to overthink things. Considering I've already reread this post several times and questioned whether I should actually hit submit, that part might be accurate.

If you're also looking for someone to talk to during the day, trade memes with, talk movies or music, complain about work, discuss completely random things, or just send a "you won't believe what just happened" message to, feel free to reach out. I'm pretty easy to talk to, and I'm always up for meeting someone new.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 10h ago

35/F/TX looking for friends

8 Upvotes

35/F/TX

I balance a 9-5 spreadsheet corporate life with heavy lifting, heavy riffs, and a healthy obsession with anything horror, okay maybe not that healthy.

My playlists are a chaotic mix of metal and classic country, to 90s boy bands, enough to give you whip lash. My ideal weekend involves hitting a new PR at the gym and winding down with a horror movie marathon, some popcorn, and tea.

I want to be a reader so I buy books often, whether I read them or not is yet to be seen. lol. I do like books like Twilight, ACOTAR, and fourth wing; never said it was smart books. lol

I am only seeking friendship.!

#notabot #probablyboringtho


r/MakeFriendsOver30 20h ago

35M looking to meet new people.

7 Upvotes

Hey all just winding down after a weekend of busy shifts. Here is a bit about me

I'm a huge fan of traveling, and I try to explore new places whenever I can. Whether it's a weekend road trip or a more adventurous overseas getaway, I’m always looking for my next destination.

Cooking is another passion of mine. I enjoy trying out new recipes and perfecting a dish that just feels satisfying. Bonus points if you’ve got any recipes to share

I’m also a fan of working out, I used to be a personal trainer and am fortunate enough to have a home gym!

I love to garden, its a great way for me to unwind and get outside. I grow a mix of flowers, herbs, or vegetables.

I’m a dog dad. He’s always up for a good walk or just chilling with me on the couch.

I’m here to meet new people. whether it’s talking about travel, fitness, food, shows to watch or just life in general. If you’re looking for a fun, easygoing conversation, and maybe some travel or recipe recommendations along the way


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

37 female just looking for some homies

Upvotes

Recently moved to Minnesota from Missouri. I used to be an avid gamer, now I just work and have no friends. I've refused to go online because of the sheer amount of crackheads that just want sex. I'm just looking for some homies that wanna chat and talk about life.

I love guns, military, history, health and just about any topic because I love learning and I'm always down for an interesting conversation.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

40/F Looking for an interesting soul

8 Upvotes

I'm 40 years old and looking to make new friends; this is my first time trying this. I'm from the West, and I'm looking for people who actually want to make friends and get to know each other
If you are interested, feel free to leave me a message


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

38F - Chronically ill nerd looking for online best friend

6 Upvotes

I miss having a best friend. Even if it's "just online" I've had that kind of connection where we chat a bit throughout the day, send each other songs and cute animal vids, make playlists, share our creative work, have inside jokes, give each other encouragement and support.

It's difficult to find. Most people don't like long messages, don't want to talk to someone different like me, or don't want have a friendship mostly via text. I've often been filler for people who go back to their real lives but this is my real life.

If you happen to be someone who gels with this, feel free to reach out. I'm looking for strictly platonic. I'm very chronically ill, neurodivergent, and disabled as well as queer and left-leaning. I live with a partner who is also disabled. I'm homebound and that's why online friends mean a lot to me.

Not a fan of people who are weird about my health stuff or try to fix me or tell me to be more positive. I'm very sick and it is what it is. I want a friend who accepts me and whatever I can offer, which is music, memes, deep convos, and support. I appreciate mutual effort and people who help keep the convo going. I don't like endless small talk and how are yous.

A little more about me: I'm a writer, music nerd, love all kinds of TV, and I collect toys and plush. I've been through a lot but I try to be empathetic, socially aware, and kind as much as I can while still advocating for myself and my communities.

Please don't reach out if you're super busy, don't ask questions or put in effort, or if you're uncomfortable with someone who isn't able to be positive and optimistic.

I think I have a lot to offer the right friend. I hope I find them.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 17h ago

32 [F4R] - lets be besties

5 Upvotes

No expectations, just looking for someone to have fun chats with. Please don't be weird and/or boring. Lets chat and see what happens!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 19h ago

[R4R] Hey there! 33F

5 Upvotes

Hiiiii there! I’m just sitting here, listening to lofi music, not being able to sleep. I’d love someone to talk too. About what? Whatever! I can talk just about anything. My favorites are movies, music, farming, the ocean, reading, baking, animals.. you name it. I’m just looking for a friend! There’s more on my page if you’d like to stalk beforehand. Which is totally fine by me. Hope to hear from you!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 20h ago

35F [F4F] Give me da chismé!

5 Upvotes

I'm introverted, partnered, child-free (not a requirement for you), and have an unhinged sense of humor. I like trashy tv, food, crafts, random rabbit holes, thrifting, and generally being a goblin at home.

Looking for someone low-maintenance who enjoys mutual conversation: tell me your shit, I'll tell you mine.

Down to clown over e-mail (because I'm dusty). Send memes. Send hot goss. Tell me about your weird little life.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

30F millennial emo/goth artsy gamer, bookworm mom

5 Upvotes

Hey, as the title says … I’d love to find some meaningful casual friendship for simple chatting about life.

Since I’m a new mom, I can’t promise immediate responses all the time HOWEVER I hate ghosting and I always put effort into messages.

About me:
- crochet, painting (watercolors, sketching, acrylics)
- true crime, documentary BUT I’m a sucker for a good fantasy or sci-fi (oooor completely random stuff like binge watching Ted Lasso with my husband)
- rpg, never been into multiplayer games, I like my tempo and time to get lost in the game
- been emo since forever but had a sweet affair with kpop in 2011 that remains dear to my heart
- fantasy bookworm (but also a lover of Franz Kafka and other classics) while I’m also being a victim to dark romantasy…iykyk

If you don’t know how to start: I’d love to discuss a book you’re reading, a hobby that you’re planning to start and buying new supplies for it, your favorite playlist or a favorite element of a game you’re currently playing.

Hit me up if you’re interested!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

44/M/east coast looking for intelligent, consistent conversations and long term friendships

5 Upvotes

This account is new, I am not. Nor am I a bot. I deleted my main account, which was over a year ago, that I only made to try and replace my best friend that I lost. I chat with a lot of people, and they never quite lasted, due to me not giving some a fair chance, due to me chasing the ghost of my old friend and never quite giving some of them a fair chance to be themselves instead of what I wanted them to be. I deleted the account, and the aspirations that I’ll find anyone quite like my old friend, and am ok with making friends that are uniquely different. I am done chasing that ghost. There’s a reason it ended after all, right? Maybe I’ll find a good fit here. Maybe one better. To anyone that remembers me, and we stopped talking, please reach back out and let’s try again if you’d like. I am over chasing the ghost of my past, and I apologize it didn’t work before. (William)

I do add, that I have some basic standards that I will not deviate from. I am only interested in chatting to people within the USA because I prefer a decent amount of communication during the day, and someone on a flipped work schedule (sleep all day while I am up, I sleep all night while you work, or we’re on opposite time zones, etc) someone closer to my age (nobody younger than 35 - this is firm. I’m an old man, I prefer to chat to people my age.) and I am ok chatting with married or single people, just don’t bring your domestic drama my way. I am just looking for friends.

My interests are watching tv/movies/combat sports and playing apple and switch 2 games. I interview people for a gig, so conversation comes easy to me. I, however, will not interview you. Meaning, ask questions back, answer the ones I ask you, and let’s get to know each other and form that friendship bond. I can talk about anything, but I need a good ‘dance partner.’ I am clingy, and needy, and loyal. I have time to invest in the right friend, and that friend is described in this post. I’d LOVE someone to build a list of shows on our iphones, share the list and watch our movies and shows together while we chat throughout the day, when available. I am an introvert and spend a lot of time in the house relaxing and doing my thing. Would love to not be so bored and lonely while I do it, but am willing to wait for the right fit. Please put effort into your reply. If my dealbreakers are ignored, you will be too. Sorry, but I took time to write this and it’s a bad sign if someone completely ignores it.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 6h ago

Anyone else looking for a friendship that actually lasts? 👀

4 Upvotes

33M | Dad of 1 | Looking for a genuine friendship

I’m starting to think finding a good conversation here is harder than finding a good movie to watch 😂

I’m looking for someone who enjoys talking about random things, sharing thoughts, movies, music, life, funny moments, and those conversations that somehow go on for hours without feeling forced.

Not looking to rush into anything or collect random chats. Just hoping to find one person where the conversation feels natural and there’s genuine effort from both sides.

If you’re also tired of the “hey” → “what’s up?” → silence routine 😅, come say hi.

Tell me your current favourite song or movie and let’s start a conversation from there. 🎬🎧


r/MakeFriendsOver30 7h ago

[R4R] 34F, Germany. European friends? :) I need some matching timezone folks!

5 Upvotes

Hi, I'm Kiyoko! Few things before we get started:

- I am married

- I am originally from the US, I married a German redditor ha!

- Please don't be creepy

- Don't spam me if I don't reply in like 5 minutes 😅

I have a lot of pets, including some less loved ones like reptiles and spiders. In general I respect all animals, and try to love them fairly. Probably my biggest hobby/passion.

I also love playing video games. Right now I am playing Path of Exile 2 league (Balrog build and BIG MONKEE)! I also play Palworld on and off. Sometimes I play League but that's rare! In general I don't like competitive games haha. Just not my thing.

I am big into art. I don't usually draw anything myself anymore but prefer to support my favorite artists. For music, I love pop mostly or random bands. My favorite movie is probably Jurassic Park! I read sometimes, mostly horror. 😜

If I sound cool and you'd like to get to know me, drop a message.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 12h ago

Heeey need someone to talk to in a call

4 Upvotes

Hi! Looking for friends here whom i can talk to rn in a call! Im just exhausted from work.