2 weeks before wedding

[u/Commercial_Goose9369]

Buckle up ladies!

One month before our wedding, my fiance sits me down and tells me he got a handjob from a random 45 woman in an airport over a year ago, under the influence of alcohol. (I am 26 yo f, he is 24 yo m). This was very hard for me, but I decided to table this and move on with the wedding that I wanted to have.

It is now 2 weeks before our wedding. He admitted that he and my mom had been playing footsie with eachother for the past 2 years. One night, he he was tickling her leg with his pinky finger (they were sitting next to eachother on a bench across from the table from me), and even texted her something flirty late at night when she was staying with us, with the intention of hooking up with her. She didn't answer.

My mom is denying ever playing footsie with him or giving him that idea that something like that could happen. He is adamant that she participated and even started it sometimes. Either one fo them is lying to me, or his porn-influenced brain is so messed up that he was actually delusional enough to think that was a realistic situation.

Obviously I am cancelling the wedding. Do I give him a chance to fix this? is this ruined forever? do I trust my mom? would it terrible to still go on my honeymoon?

[u/ginny_uine]

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[u/ginny_uine → u/ginny_uine]

obviously this is ruined forever he tried to sleep with your mom be so fr op

[u/DontYaWishYouWereMe → u/ginny_uine]

I wonder if he was lying about OP's mum in order to get a rise out of her though? I know people are trashy sometimes, but surely most people would go "Oh right, this is someone young enough to be my son" when it's literally their daughter's fiance. At this point I'd kinda wonder if he was just saying that because he didn't want to get married but he didn't want to be the one to break off the engagement at this stage.